I am making the wedding cake, catering the event for 200.(preparing all the food etc.) My future dil is saying I am to buy all the flowers. Any advice?My son is getting married in July. What are my financial responsibilities?
What everyone has said is true: the son's parents only pay for the rehearsal dinner and sometimes they pitch in for the tuxedos but it's not their obligation to do so. They also pay for the bride's bouquet, which is usually around $200. Those are the ONLY flowers they pay for, however. You are being VERY generous paying for and catering the entire event. That should be enough in and of itself. It sounds to me like this girl's parents either don't have much money %26amp; can't afford it or they are just being cheap and wanting to pawn things off on you. You need to quickly determine which it is. If it's just that they are poor or have fallen on hard times and can't afford to give their daughter the wedding she's always wanted, then I would be tempted to offer to pay for the flowers to help them out....but you should see it as that....helping them...not as your obligation.
I know this will be a sensitive topic so here's what I would do: I would go to Barnes %26amp; Noble in the wedding section and buy a small guidebook to weddings that clearly has a section on who pays for what. Most wedding guidebooks do. Then I would take the book to the DIL and innocently %26amp; sweetly say ';hi - I went to the bookstore and picked up this book because I wasn't sure who was supposed to pay for what in a wedding but then I started looking at the other sections and there is some great information in here! I thought you might appreciate having it in case you want to look up anything. If you don't want it, that's ok but I just thought you might like it.';
That way, you are clearly showing her you know you aren't supposed to pay for the flowers but it comes off as you just being really sweet w/ this nice gesture.My son is getting married in July. What are my financial responsibilities?
You have absolutely NO financial obligations to your son. What you are doing now is plenty and being done out of love. Your future DIL and son need to contribute something to the ceremony instead of just the vows. Trust me, if they work for it they will appreciate it so much more. If they have to pay for the flowers they will get some they can afford; however, if you are forced to pay for the flowers the sky's the limit as far as price is concerned.
If you are paying for the food for 200,making and decorating a wedding cake.What are the in laws (daughter) paying for?? Put the total cost of what it has cost you, and ask what will there contribution be??The cost of the wedding should be traditionaly the girls perents(dowry) If this isnt so, then the costs should be shared. If they refuse . Then give your son the cake and two hundred pounds wedding gift,Stop being taken for a mug!! Im talking from exerience.In just over a year, my son got divorced, leaving me with a large bill that took almost two years to clear.In answer to your question NONE Best Wishes and Good Luck for the future. Big Al
You don't ';have'; to do anything. I think it's really nice that you're offering your catering and baking services, and if that's what you are comfortable doing, then you're fine. If you can't afford to do anything else or don't want to spend more money, there is NOTHING wrong with that. If your son and his future wife can't afford their own wedding, there's no rule that says anyone HAS to pay for anything.
If you are doing all that, it's time to tell her it's her turn. Give her a choice: you do the food or you do the flowers. You are NOT responsible for all that you are doing. How did you get roped into all that? No must not be in your vocabulary.
according to tradition, it is the brides parents who are supposed to pay for the wedding and the grooms parents who are supposed to pay for the honeymoon. but technically, none of it is your ';responsibility';
Rehearsal dinner, incuding food and entertainment.
Your own clothing and attire.
Any travel expenses.
A wedding gift.
Traditionally the bride's parents are TOTALLY responsible for the wedding expenses. The groom's parents are responsible for the rehearsal dinner.
Tell your DIL that her parents are supposed to pay for it ALL! according to tradition.
She sounds very selfish.
NO is a powerful word...........you should use it some time.
Good luck
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Have you ever been married on yahoo answers?
I've had several online wives. I always ended up cheating on them though.Have you ever been married on yahoo answers?
How do you get married on y/a! and how did you cheat? I dont get it?Have you ever been married on yahoo answers?
No but I do have several Yahoo answers friends with benefits
To a yak? No thanks
never
That's bull.
No. That's lame and, frankly, stupid.
How do you get married on y/a! and how did you cheat? I dont get it?Have you ever been married on yahoo answers?
No but I do have several Yahoo answers friends with benefits
To a yak? No thanks
never
That's bull.
No. That's lame and, frankly, stupid.
I am getting married in a southwestern envirornment?
i am getting married in a southwestern enviornment and i really have no idea about the colors or anythin I want. Any suggestions?I am getting married in a southwestern envirornment?
There are some different looks that can be associated with ';southwestern';. I live in San Diego, which is southwestern...but it's completely different then...say, Arizona southwestern.
In any case, bright colors matched with a bold, but more muted neutral work well. A bright blue or green with chocolate, or a sage with cream. Don't try to work in too many bold, bright colors. Pick one, and then accent it with a stunning neutral.
There are some different looks that can be associated with ';southwestern';. I live in San Diego, which is southwestern...but it's completely different then...say, Arizona southwestern.
In any case, bright colors matched with a bold, but more muted neutral work well. A bright blue or green with chocolate, or a sage with cream. Don't try to work in too many bold, bright colors. Pick one, and then accent it with a stunning neutral.
Is obama going to make it any easier for deported married illegals to return to US?
ones married to citizens.Is obama going to make it any easier for deported married illegals to return to US?
I hope so! I wish them the BEST! Must be terrible and heartbreaking to tear apart families, loved ones!!!!!!Is obama going to make it any easier for deported married illegals to return to US?
if they have been deported no. but one of his campaign promises was to give a path to some form of second class status to illegal mexican criminals with anchors. but like most of his campaign promises he will back peddle on this to, and that's because the backlash from granting amnesty would ruin any chances for the Democrats in the 2010 elections.true american patriots have spoken they will not tolerate any form of amnesty and want all illegals and there droppings to be deported asap.
I hope so!!! I also hope you people realise that not every one who is hear illegaly hoped the border many of them where brought here as babies and had no say in the matter, also unless you are full blooded Native American you are the decendant of an imagrent so maybe you should go back to your native land! at least Mexicans are from the same continent!
No, this subject is not even an open one for discussion. These people have already been convicted for illegal entry, He can not overturn convictions like this just because someone misses their mate. If they love the other person that much, they should get a LEGAL visa and go live and build a life with them in their country.
Not sure about that one, but lets hope so!
That person you speak of should have applied for a Visa through marraige.
But even if deported, they still have a chance to re-apply.
http://www.asianjournal.com/immigration/鈥?/a>
Applying for a Visa after Deportation or Removal from the US
Nope.
Deportation is the punishment for their crime.
If he does this,then he should give amnesty to everyone in jail that is married to a citizen.
Why should one crime be forgiven and not another.
No as he is for stronger border security. So why would he let someone who broke our laws return? Sorry they should have gotten legal before marriage.
Hope not, perhaps we can make it easier for the Citizens who married illegals to get kicked out of the country.
God i hope not
Yes to all 57 states he thinks we have
I sure hope so!!!cosmetics products
I hope so! I wish them the BEST! Must be terrible and heartbreaking to tear apart families, loved ones!!!!!!Is obama going to make it any easier for deported married illegals to return to US?
if they have been deported no. but one of his campaign promises was to give a path to some form of second class status to illegal mexican criminals with anchors. but like most of his campaign promises he will back peddle on this to, and that's because the backlash from granting amnesty would ruin any chances for the Democrats in the 2010 elections.true american patriots have spoken they will not tolerate any form of amnesty and want all illegals and there droppings to be deported asap.
I hope so!!! I also hope you people realise that not every one who is hear illegaly hoped the border many of them where brought here as babies and had no say in the matter, also unless you are full blooded Native American you are the decendant of an imagrent so maybe you should go back to your native land! at least Mexicans are from the same continent!
No, this subject is not even an open one for discussion. These people have already been convicted for illegal entry, He can not overturn convictions like this just because someone misses their mate. If they love the other person that much, they should get a LEGAL visa and go live and build a life with them in their country.
Not sure about that one, but lets hope so!
That person you speak of should have applied for a Visa through marraige.
But even if deported, they still have a chance to re-apply.
http://www.asianjournal.com/immigration/鈥?/a>
Applying for a Visa after Deportation or Removal from the US
Nope.
Deportation is the punishment for their crime.
If he does this,then he should give amnesty to everyone in jail that is married to a citizen.
Why should one crime be forgiven and not another.
No as he is for stronger border security. So why would he let someone who broke our laws return? Sorry they should have gotten legal before marriage.
Hope not, perhaps we can make it easier for the Citizens who married illegals to get kicked out of the country.
God i hope not
Yes to all 57 states he thinks we have
I sure hope so!!!
Would you have married Michael Jackson, or let your kid sleep in his bed?
I wouldn't marry him personally, or let him sleep with my child.
but I would let miley cyrus sleep with my child because she is the coolest person in the world she is the next big thing she is awsome she is so cool and rich she is so pretty!
what about you people?Would you have married Michael Jackson, or let your kid sleep in his bed?
Wow you're very narrow minded and brainwashed by the media huh? Michael Jackson was innocent and the little boy admitted his parents forced him to say all that bs just for money. He never did anything wrong so before you judge someone why don't you get your facts right. And the King has passed so just leave him alone damn. And yes I would let my kids sleep with him and I would marry Michael Jackson. He slept on the freaking floor in a sleeping bag to let the kids sleep in the bed! He was an angel but people never saw that...Would you have married Michael Jackson, or let your kid sleep in his bed?
The question is pointless. The man is dead. Let him rest in peace. He was never convicted of any crime. Lots of celebrities have come out and said. They let their children stay with MJ and he didn't do anything inappropriate. When I was a kid, I wanted to marry MJ. ;))
although i hate you i will answer. yes i would let my kids becuase i know he would'nt hurt them. he would just share the love he had in his heart. as for marrying him he could be my farther but hey who knows he was sexy and shy. i like that.
';so cool and rich she is so pretty'; Those are great reasons to trust someone with your children.
No. I wouldn't marry him, but I didn't know him. I wouldn't marry anyone I didn't know. And I wouldn't let anyone I didn't know sleep with my kids.
yes. MJ is the best talented person in the whole world. Plus molestation of children are usually republicans and catholic priests and MJ is neither of that.
Wow you must be like 11.
And actually I would marry him haha.
If I was married to him, of course they could sleep in the bed with him haha.
But, NO.
That was inappropriate on MJ's part.
1st of all this is a sick question
2nd yeah rich cool people r r one to marry or let our children sleep with...idiot
personally i would let my children sleep in the same bed with Michael Jackson he wouldnt hurt them AT ALL.
This is so pointless. I am a guy, but yes I would let my kids sleep in the same bed as Michael.
Neither!!!
i would do both cause i would honestly trust him i know he wouldn't kids he said it himself he has a good heart people just don't see it cause u guys think he's something he's not.
i would have love to have gotten to know michael jackson
and tbh i would have trusted him with my children
You're darned right I would've married him! At the age of 10 I was planning out the wedding.
Ok...Your either joking or just plain sick. and your joke FAILED!
such a weird question!!
yessss.
to both, (=
but I would let miley cyrus sleep with my child because she is the coolest person in the world she is the next big thing she is awsome she is so cool and rich she is so pretty!
what about you people?Would you have married Michael Jackson, or let your kid sleep in his bed?
Wow you're very narrow minded and brainwashed by the media huh? Michael Jackson was innocent and the little boy admitted his parents forced him to say all that bs just for money. He never did anything wrong so before you judge someone why don't you get your facts right. And the King has passed so just leave him alone damn. And yes I would let my kids sleep with him and I would marry Michael Jackson. He slept on the freaking floor in a sleeping bag to let the kids sleep in the bed! He was an angel but people never saw that...Would you have married Michael Jackson, or let your kid sleep in his bed?
The question is pointless. The man is dead. Let him rest in peace. He was never convicted of any crime. Lots of celebrities have come out and said. They let their children stay with MJ and he didn't do anything inappropriate. When I was a kid, I wanted to marry MJ. ;))
although i hate you i will answer. yes i would let my kids becuase i know he would'nt hurt them. he would just share the love he had in his heart. as for marrying him he could be my farther but hey who knows he was sexy and shy. i like that.
';so cool and rich she is so pretty'; Those are great reasons to trust someone with your children.
No. I wouldn't marry him, but I didn't know him. I wouldn't marry anyone I didn't know. And I wouldn't let anyone I didn't know sleep with my kids.
yes. MJ is the best talented person in the whole world. Plus molestation of children are usually republicans and catholic priests and MJ is neither of that.
Wow you must be like 11.
And actually I would marry him haha.
If I was married to him, of course they could sleep in the bed with him haha.
But, NO.
That was inappropriate on MJ's part.
1st of all this is a sick question
2nd yeah rich cool people r r one to marry or let our children sleep with...idiot
personally i would let my children sleep in the same bed with Michael Jackson he wouldnt hurt them AT ALL.
This is so pointless. I am a guy, but yes I would let my kids sleep in the same bed as Michael.
Neither!!!
i would do both cause i would honestly trust him i know he wouldn't kids he said it himself he has a good heart people just don't see it cause u guys think he's something he's not.
i would have love to have gotten to know michael jackson
and tbh i would have trusted him with my children
You're darned right I would've married him! At the age of 10 I was planning out the wedding.
Ok...Your either joking or just plain sick. and your joke FAILED!
such a weird question!!
yessss.
to both, (=
If i get married and am collecting money from social security?
i get a check from social security on the 3rd of every month, Lets say i get married 4 days after my check comes, i know i have to report it to social security but would they want the check back?If i get married and am collecting money from social security?
what's the rest of the story?If i get married and am collecting money from social security?
They might. You need to go to the Social Security Office and talk to them.
No, you still get your check even if married, just have to report the change of status
YES
Depends what the check is for and how old you are??
what's the rest of the story?If i get married and am collecting money from social security?
They might. You need to go to the Social Security Office and talk to them.
No, you still get your check even if married, just have to report the change of status
YES
Depends what the check is for and how old you are??
How do I file my federal income tax--single or married?
If my husband is a foreign national, living in his own country (we were married here in the US in Oct 2008, but he had to return to Australia shortly after we were married, to await his visa--lack or preparation on my part) and he has never had income earned in the US. We have no children in common and own no property in commonHow do I file my federal income tax--single or married?
Since you are married you cannot file as Single.
You can file a joint return with your non-resident alien spouse if he agrees to be treated as a resident and be subject to US taxation on his world wide income. If he agrees you must attach a joint signed statement to this effect to every joint return that you file. If he paid any foreign income taxes on his earnings you can claim a credit for the foreign income taxes paid using Form 1116.
Since he does not have an SSN he will need to apply for an ITIN in order to file a joint return. Attach a completed Form W-7 along with apostilled copies of his proof of ID to the first joint return and mail the entire package to the Austin, Texas Service Center. (Leave his SSN field blank on the return.) They will process the ITIN, apply it to the return, and then process the return. Allow 14 to 16 weeks total processing time.
If he does not agree to be treated as a resident and be subject to US taxation then you must file Married Filing Separately unless you are otherwise qualified to file as Head of Household. Your spouse cannot be the qualifying person for HoH filing status though. If he had no gross income you may claim his personal exemption but will need to secure an ITIN in this case. See the procedure above. If you do not claim his personal exemption then he does not need an ITIN. Just write ';N R A'; in his SSN field in this case.How do I file my federal income tax--single or married?
You're quite welcome. TFTP.
you should file it married cause your technically married
Since you are married you cannot file as Single.
You can file a joint return with your non-resident alien spouse if he agrees to be treated as a resident and be subject to US taxation on his world wide income. If he agrees you must attach a joint signed statement to this effect to every joint return that you file. If he paid any foreign income taxes on his earnings you can claim a credit for the foreign income taxes paid using Form 1116.
Since he does not have an SSN he will need to apply for an ITIN in order to file a joint return. Attach a completed Form W-7 along with apostilled copies of his proof of ID to the first joint return and mail the entire package to the Austin, Texas Service Center. (Leave his SSN field blank on the return.) They will process the ITIN, apply it to the return, and then process the return. Allow 14 to 16 weeks total processing time.
If he does not agree to be treated as a resident and be subject to US taxation then you must file Married Filing Separately unless you are otherwise qualified to file as Head of Household. Your spouse cannot be the qualifying person for HoH filing status though. If he had no gross income you may claim his personal exemption but will need to secure an ITIN in this case. See the procedure above. If you do not claim his personal exemption then he does not need an ITIN. Just write ';N R A'; in his SSN field in this case.How do I file my federal income tax--single or married?
You're quite welcome. TFTP.
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you should file it married cause your technically married
Can I get Married to a US citizen and continue my education under an F-1 Visa?
I have already graduated from a US college and have completed my OPT. I am now Living in the Bahamas. I am going to school again in the US, which means I will be under an F-1 Visa. Can I get Married to a US citizen and continue my education under an F-1 Visa? will I be able to apply for a k-3 Visa while still in school?Can I get Married to a US citizen and continue my education under an F-1 Visa?
No. We have too many women coming here, getting married in order to stay, then splitting on the men. We're also working on preventing women from coming here, getting pregnant, and using it to stay as well. America is fed up with women from other countries ******* their way into citizenship.Can I get Married to a US citizen and continue my education under an F-1 Visa?
No, you cannot get married and continue your education on a student visa. And no, your spouse cannot apply for a spousal visa for you while you are in the US unless you entered on a fiancee visa.
If you are planning to marry, you will have to enter the US on a fiance visa and you will have 90 days to marry and apply for the spousal visa. You will probably get temporary leave to remain while the spousal visa is processed, but you will not have authorization to attend school or to work.
If you are returning on an F1, you will have to leave the US as soon as you marry, or finish school first, then leave while a fiance visa is processed.
Why would you need to apply for a K-3 visa? There is no need, you will already be in the United States on an F1.
The process is simple, you are on an F1, marry and then your husband files an I-130 and you file the AOS package concurrently.
You may still study throughout the whole process and within 8-12 months you will have your green card.
Obviously this is the simple version of events, but that is the general process.
You risk huge problems if you enter with an F1 visa with intentions to marry and stay.
Better to enter on a K1 visa, get married and then apply for a green card.
You can attend school as a permanent resident.
F-2 VISA
No. We have too many women coming here, getting married in order to stay, then splitting on the men. We're also working on preventing women from coming here, getting pregnant, and using it to stay as well. America is fed up with women from other countries ******* their way into citizenship.Can I get Married to a US citizen and continue my education under an F-1 Visa?
No, you cannot get married and continue your education on a student visa. And no, your spouse cannot apply for a spousal visa for you while you are in the US unless you entered on a fiancee visa.
If you are planning to marry, you will have to enter the US on a fiance visa and you will have 90 days to marry and apply for the spousal visa. You will probably get temporary leave to remain while the spousal visa is processed, but you will not have authorization to attend school or to work.
If you are returning on an F1, you will have to leave the US as soon as you marry, or finish school first, then leave while a fiance visa is processed.
Why would you need to apply for a K-3 visa? There is no need, you will already be in the United States on an F1.
The process is simple, you are on an F1, marry and then your husband files an I-130 and you file the AOS package concurrently.
You may still study throughout the whole process and within 8-12 months you will have your green card.
Obviously this is the simple version of events, but that is the general process.
You risk huge problems if you enter with an F1 visa with intentions to marry and stay.
Better to enter on a K1 visa, get married and then apply for a green card.
You can attend school as a permanent resident.
F-2 VISA
A question for men, preferably ones that are engaged or married?
I once heard that when a man is ready to marry, they will marry the woman they're currently with regardless of if she's the love of their lives. Just how true is this statement?
A question for men, preferably ones that are engaged or married?
I don't think that's strictly true, I am married and I married my wife because I loved her, not because I was with her and felt like I had to.
Then again I can't speak for all guys though, but I could see the truth in that if they have been together for years and he's getting pressured by his partner to get married to her.A question for men, preferably ones that are engaged or married?
Not true.
A question for men, preferably ones that are engaged or married?
I don't think that's strictly true, I am married and I married my wife because I loved her, not because I was with her and felt like I had to.
Then again I can't speak for all guys though, but I could see the truth in that if they have been together for years and he's getting pressured by his partner to get married to her.A question for men, preferably ones that are engaged or married?
Not true.
Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
It is sad to see! Who does it really hurt if two people want to get married. And don't give me the whole Bible Speech cuz that wont help your case any! There are more divorced people getting married every day and that's a big no no in the Bible. So if that's your argument then maybe you should ban getting married if you have been divorced!Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
It shouldnt be a big deal!!!! the biggest argument is that gay marriage ';devalues the sanctity of marriage';. hello!?!? can you say Las Vegas wedding chapels and 50% divorce rate?!?! yes, it seems that marriage is so highly valued that 2 people madly in love cant get married these days. ahhh! dont worry, im hopefull the time will come eventually...Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
its a slippery slope.. whats next? The man, his mule and the fence post? I know sounds absurd, so did gay marriage 50 years ago. I'm all for civil unions, but passing a law that may possibly force churches to officiate in these marriages and not discriminate is worrisome.. The same thing has happened with the catholic church and baby adoptions.. they decided that since they can not discriminate based on their own religious beliefs about what constitutes a family, and they can not in good conscience send a child to a homo or lesbian family, they Will cease performing these services where necessary. The same could happen to marriage if new laws are passed. Also people need to be aware that if we develop an anything goes mentality.. polygamy may also resurface and become commonly accepted.
i honestly don't know, but i think everyone deserves to be happy and get married no matter who it's to. i actually makes me sick to see people make a big deal about gays. I can't wait to get married next fall to my FH, i just think that anyone should experience the excitment i'm going through, so good point.
I couldn't of said it better myself. Your point is my point exactly. As if Heterosexuals had it all figured out right? We have a divorce rate of 51% and we're trying to preach the sanctuary of marriage. Quite frankly I find that insulting. It doesn't affect anyone, so why does the general public determine what's right or wrong for two people who probably treat each other better than a heterosexual couple would.
There are a lot of ignorant, misinformed people in the world who are so miserable in their own lives that they have to screw other people's up so they can feel better about themselves. And the Bible DOES allow for divorce, it's the Catholic church that's anti-divorce.
i agree. i think its sad. people are so scared of change. i think it freaks people out knowing that it's legal to get married to the same sex. im a married female to a man. but from hearing so much stuff about children feeling a certain way about feeling male/female. makes me understand so much. i just know if my child wanted to marry the same sex. i would totally be there for him. cuz i love him no matter what. society expects people to be a certain way. and if ur not that way ur supposedly wrong. i think that's b/s. screw what people think! its all about how u feel in the end.
Nothing. Who cares? I wouldn't wish marriage on anyone: gay, straight, or otherwise. But if ANY couple can find a way to make it and stay together in a marriage in today's world, then more power to 'em! May they be an example to us all.
Call it a ';union'; or ';partnership'; or any other term you like with all the same rights and I am all for it. Marriage is between a man and a woman, all the religious stuff aside.
I wonder that too.
I have no problem with same sex getting married. They love each other, if they want to get married...they should. They're not hurting anyone else by getting married.
Yeah, I dont know why ppl feel so threatened by that. Probably for the same reason the church shunned divorcees in the 70's. Its just new.
I don't see a problem with it. It doesn't threaten straight peoples right to marry, so we should the straight majority deny them theirs?
If it's no big deal, then guys should go ahead and marry their adult sister.
Get the point?
I agree. This is supposed to be a free country and I am shocked that there is still such discrimination in this country.
Sorry, but it is against God.
I have no problem with it...as long as they love one another.
I'm personally all for homosexual marriage, adoption and any other rights they wish to receive in the same manner as heterosexuals do.
I would love to know when our laws started being based off the Bible?Because to me that is the only time the Bible should be brought into anything regarding laws. Isn't that what separation of church and state is all about?
Typically, marriage has be defined as a joining of a man and a woman. This is the new definition from the wikipedia.: Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual or legal union of individuals. Although this is not a law, to anyone reading this it would appear that homosexuals have the 'right' to get married.
I don't understand the reasoning behind anyone believing that just because two people want to get married, that it has to be a religious ceremony. Its just as easy and cheaper to go to the court house and get married by a justice. Also, I don't know who decided it was others 'right' to decide if a couple could include God in their marriage ceremony? It seems like this is one of the big reasons people are against homosexual marriage.
Here is the definition of civil marriage: Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. Isn't that really all homosexual couples are wanting? Legal recognition of rights that are denied couples who aren't married.
To me these people who are against this should also be against civil marriage because it is not inclusive of God, and to me I don't see a lot of homosexual couples wanting a religious ceremony anyway. I tried to bring some things into light that I hadn't read from the other posts. Most people are either for it because they don't care or are against it because of the Bible.cosmetics products
It shouldnt be a big deal!!!! the biggest argument is that gay marriage ';devalues the sanctity of marriage';. hello!?!? can you say Las Vegas wedding chapels and 50% divorce rate?!?! yes, it seems that marriage is so highly valued that 2 people madly in love cant get married these days. ahhh! dont worry, im hopefull the time will come eventually...Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
its a slippery slope.. whats next? The man, his mule and the fence post? I know sounds absurd, so did gay marriage 50 years ago. I'm all for civil unions, but passing a law that may possibly force churches to officiate in these marriages and not discriminate is worrisome.. The same thing has happened with the catholic church and baby adoptions.. they decided that since they can not discriminate based on their own religious beliefs about what constitutes a family, and they can not in good conscience send a child to a homo or lesbian family, they Will cease performing these services where necessary. The same could happen to marriage if new laws are passed. Also people need to be aware that if we develop an anything goes mentality.. polygamy may also resurface and become commonly accepted.
i honestly don't know, but i think everyone deserves to be happy and get married no matter who it's to. i actually makes me sick to see people make a big deal about gays. I can't wait to get married next fall to my FH, i just think that anyone should experience the excitment i'm going through, so good point.
I couldn't of said it better myself. Your point is my point exactly. As if Heterosexuals had it all figured out right? We have a divorce rate of 51% and we're trying to preach the sanctuary of marriage. Quite frankly I find that insulting. It doesn't affect anyone, so why does the general public determine what's right or wrong for two people who probably treat each other better than a heterosexual couple would.
There are a lot of ignorant, misinformed people in the world who are so miserable in their own lives that they have to screw other people's up so they can feel better about themselves. And the Bible DOES allow for divorce, it's the Catholic church that's anti-divorce.
i agree. i think its sad. people are so scared of change. i think it freaks people out knowing that it's legal to get married to the same sex. im a married female to a man. but from hearing so much stuff about children feeling a certain way about feeling male/female. makes me understand so much. i just know if my child wanted to marry the same sex. i would totally be there for him. cuz i love him no matter what. society expects people to be a certain way. and if ur not that way ur supposedly wrong. i think that's b/s. screw what people think! its all about how u feel in the end.
Nothing. Who cares? I wouldn't wish marriage on anyone: gay, straight, or otherwise. But if ANY couple can find a way to make it and stay together in a marriage in today's world, then more power to 'em! May they be an example to us all.
Call it a ';union'; or ';partnership'; or any other term you like with all the same rights and I am all for it. Marriage is between a man and a woman, all the religious stuff aside.
I wonder that too.
I have no problem with same sex getting married. They love each other, if they want to get married...they should. They're not hurting anyone else by getting married.
Yeah, I dont know why ppl feel so threatened by that. Probably for the same reason the church shunned divorcees in the 70's. Its just new.
I don't see a problem with it. It doesn't threaten straight peoples right to marry, so we should the straight majority deny them theirs?
If it's no big deal, then guys should go ahead and marry their adult sister.
Get the point?
I agree. This is supposed to be a free country and I am shocked that there is still such discrimination in this country.
Sorry, but it is against God.
I have no problem with it...as long as they love one another.
I'm personally all for homosexual marriage, adoption and any other rights they wish to receive in the same manner as heterosexuals do.
I would love to know when our laws started being based off the Bible?Because to me that is the only time the Bible should be brought into anything regarding laws. Isn't that what separation of church and state is all about?
Typically, marriage has be defined as a joining of a man and a woman. This is the new definition from the wikipedia.: Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual or legal union of individuals. Although this is not a law, to anyone reading this it would appear that homosexuals have the 'right' to get married.
I don't understand the reasoning behind anyone believing that just because two people want to get married, that it has to be a religious ceremony. Its just as easy and cheaper to go to the court house and get married by a justice. Also, I don't know who decided it was others 'right' to decide if a couple could include God in their marriage ceremony? It seems like this is one of the big reasons people are against homosexual marriage.
Here is the definition of civil marriage: Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. Isn't that really all homosexual couples are wanting? Legal recognition of rights that are denied couples who aren't married.
To me these people who are against this should also be against civil marriage because it is not inclusive of God, and to me I don't see a lot of homosexual couples wanting a religious ceremony anyway. I tried to bring some things into light that I hadn't read from the other posts. Most people are either for it because they don't care or are against it because of the Bible.
Can I file Married even though my wife is from Canada and doesn't have a Social Security Number yet?
She doesn't work and I'm the only one that works and we don't have children just yet.Can I file Married even though my wife is from Canada and doesn't have a Social Security Number yet?
Not only can you file as married, you must file as married. However, you cannot file as married filing jointly unless your wife elects to be treated as a US person for the entire year. This will mean including any income she may have earned outside the US on your tax return, but with the possibility of obtaining a credit for any Canadian income tax liability on that same income.
If she does not make this election, then you yourself must file as married filing separately, the most expensive filing status.
This is a tricky question and you should get help from a professional tax preparer who is familiar with cross-border issues. If you live near the border it shouldn't be too hard to find one.Can I file Married even though my wife is from Canada and doesn't have a Social Security Number yet?
Yes as log as you have a marrage certified. Why take my word call IRS.
Filing single will prob suit your needs. I dont know if even head of household will ask for a social. you can go on one of those tax prep like H %26amp; R Block and do a mock tax return and see what comes up. just dont his submitt.
Not only can you file as married, you must file as married. However, you cannot file as married filing jointly unless your wife elects to be treated as a US person for the entire year. This will mean including any income she may have earned outside the US on your tax return, but with the possibility of obtaining a credit for any Canadian income tax liability on that same income.
If she does not make this election, then you yourself must file as married filing separately, the most expensive filing status.
This is a tricky question and you should get help from a professional tax preparer who is familiar with cross-border issues. If you live near the border it shouldn't be too hard to find one.Can I file Married even though my wife is from Canada and doesn't have a Social Security Number yet?
Yes as log as you have a marrage certified. Why take my word call IRS.
Filing single will prob suit your needs. I dont know if even head of household will ask for a social. you can go on one of those tax prep like H %26amp; R Block and do a mock tax return and see what comes up. just dont his submitt.
I getting married next year in NJ, does anyone know any real good diets that you dont starve yourself?
I dont want to loose alot of wieght, just 15 lbs but just in the stomach area. This is the only part of my body i truely want to change. I have exactly 8 months until I get married.I getting married next year in NJ, does anyone know any real good diets that you dont starve yourself?
The south beach diet is good and effectiveI getting married next year in NJ, does anyone know any real good diets that you dont starve yourself?
Cardio work. Run and eat healthy. Try to lose 2lbs a week, any more is unhealthy.
that's easy.Month 1- Do 200 crunches a night 5 times a week increase 100 crunches each month for 8 months and you will see results. Make sure you have good posture! You can also try buying buff bride challenge at barnes and nobles it really work.
Go on to any search engine and type DIET WEIGHT LOOSING. However I will recommend you Exercise, low clorie diet, with honey
%26amp; virgin olive oil.
south beach
try GNC products..
You should never starve yourself, or take any drugs that cause you to do so. What I would advise is just to eat lots of healthy foods that dont have any calories, such as grains, salads, vegetables and fruit. You should always try to get in exercise too. It may not make you lose alot of weight, but it will help prevent you from gaining any.
Run
Shouldn't be too difficult.
If you are a meat-eater, go vegetarian and cut out all junk food. You will not only be thinner, but way healthier---more ';glow';.
Eat nothing white--- no white bread, rice, potatoes, pasta. Go for lots of veggies, whole grains, fruits, tofu (learn how to prepare it--- it is NOT gross cooked right!)
Exercise, of course. Either specific tummy tighteners (yoga, gym, books etc will show you how) or just all over toners. Swim... run... whatever... (don't forget those kegels--- really please your new husband-- and yourself)
You will be BEAUTIFUL, for sure!
The south beach diet is good and effectiveI getting married next year in NJ, does anyone know any real good diets that you dont starve yourself?
Cardio work. Run and eat healthy. Try to lose 2lbs a week, any more is unhealthy.
that's easy.Month 1- Do 200 crunches a night 5 times a week increase 100 crunches each month for 8 months and you will see results. Make sure you have good posture! You can also try buying buff bride challenge at barnes and nobles it really work.
Go on to any search engine and type DIET WEIGHT LOOSING. However I will recommend you Exercise, low clorie diet, with honey
%26amp; virgin olive oil.
south beach
try GNC products..
You should never starve yourself, or take any drugs that cause you to do so. What I would advise is just to eat lots of healthy foods that dont have any calories, such as grains, salads, vegetables and fruit. You should always try to get in exercise too. It may not make you lose alot of weight, but it will help prevent you from gaining any.
Run
Shouldn't be too difficult.
If you are a meat-eater, go vegetarian and cut out all junk food. You will not only be thinner, but way healthier---more ';glow';.
Eat nothing white--- no white bread, rice, potatoes, pasta. Go for lots of veggies, whole grains, fruits, tofu (learn how to prepare it--- it is NOT gross cooked right!)
Exercise, of course. Either specific tummy tighteners (yoga, gym, books etc will show you how) or just all over toners. Swim... run... whatever... (don't forget those kegels--- really please your new husband-- and yourself)
You will be BEAUTIFUL, for sure!
How would you describe the personality of a woman who wants to be the mistress to a married man?
Just maybe for whatever reason-this mistress doesn't want a steady relationship..she can get hers and then not worry about all the other ties that come with a relationship-it's just sex to her and thats all she wants and maybe she feels if the guy is married that he has a life and will only call the mistress when he's feeling naughty......she doesn't have to worry about all the crap.....How would you describe the personality of a woman who wants to be the mistress to a married man?
Sounds like someone who doesn't really have a conscience, but also doesn't want any solid ties of her own to worry about. Maybe someday she'll get married and be the wife of the husband with the mistress and then all the pain that she and the cheating husband have caused will come back to haunt her. That's karma :)How would you describe the personality of a woman who wants to be the mistress to a married man?
a twisted bictch,needy,easy and in the end will want you for her self no one will ever be truly happy as the other woman.I think mistresses always go out with the intention of getting you completely in the end.That's why they are devious with the way they go about everything.
she wants something such as money or wants something he represents such as a father she never had
Pitiful, insecure, desperate, ya know, the LOSER personality
Wow. Great answers. That woman is very insecure, cheating herself out of a full life, immoral and likes danger.
Amoral, sleazy, selfish, uncaring, and not very intelligent.
And she's in store for a helluva Karmic comeback!
Desperate, needy, hurtful, vengeful.
If she's using him, she is cold, heartless %26amp; selfish. If she's in love with him she thinks she can't do better or is just stupid.
a fast whore...if she'll do it 2 u she'll do it 2 another man... She's promiscuous and scandalous!!!!!
Flat, shallow, low self-esteem
Emotionally void in certain areas.
Morally retarded, husband poaching, whore.
I would say that is a person with little self esteem and they should really work on that.
Selfish, gold digging, not thinking straight?
A sick twisted freak (see my ex wife)
Sounds like someone who doesn't really have a conscience, but also doesn't want any solid ties of her own to worry about. Maybe someday she'll get married and be the wife of the husband with the mistress and then all the pain that she and the cheating husband have caused will come back to haunt her. That's karma :)How would you describe the personality of a woman who wants to be the mistress to a married man?
a twisted bictch,needy,easy and in the end will want you for her self no one will ever be truly happy as the other woman.I think mistresses always go out with the intention of getting you completely in the end.That's why they are devious with the way they go about everything.
she wants something such as money or wants something he represents such as a father she never had
Pitiful, insecure, desperate, ya know, the LOSER personality
Wow. Great answers. That woman is very insecure, cheating herself out of a full life, immoral and likes danger.
Amoral, sleazy, selfish, uncaring, and not very intelligent.
And she's in store for a helluva Karmic comeback!
Desperate, needy, hurtful, vengeful.
If she's using him, she is cold, heartless %26amp; selfish. If she's in love with him she thinks she can't do better or is just stupid.
a fast whore...if she'll do it 2 u she'll do it 2 another man... She's promiscuous and scandalous!!!!!
Flat, shallow, low self-esteem
Emotionally void in certain areas.
Morally retarded, husband poaching, whore.
I would say that is a person with little self esteem and they should really work on that.
Selfish, gold digging, not thinking straight?
A sick twisted freak (see my ex wife)
US Citizen married to a Phillipine just found out she was not here legally, now What?
I'm a US Citizen, married for three years now and we have a two year. Just found out the she was not legally a citizen of the US. Her parents moved here when she was 16 and their visa expired two years after they moved here. Now what can happen to my wife and can I get in trouble?US Citizen married to a Phillipine just found out she was not here legally, now What?
She should be able to apply for a green card as the spouse of a US citizen. You should get a lawyer to help guide you through the process. The fact that you have been married for three years before applying should make the process go smoother.US Citizen married to a Phillipine just found out she was not here legally, now What?
Since you have issues with her%26gt; What did she use for ID when you got married%26gt;??Don't you have to have proper paper work to get married or are you married I don't know best find out%26gt; Try calling immingration and get the correct answer%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;??
Contact a immigration lawyer.
settle the papers first legally. consult a legal attorney
It's immigration attorney time. Since you are married, it should be (relatively) easy for her to get residency and eventually citizenship. It's paperwork, time, and money, but it shouldn't be a real problem.
contact the nearnest embassy
talk to a lawer
was she a permanent resident then? you can apply to renew her green card but will have to explain to the INS why you filed after it expired. i think the form is a I-751. she is entitled to be deported but it's not very likely it will happen.
She can maybe apply for citizenship too but i don't know if her no status will effect her application.
I heard the Phillipines are beautiful and the people are warm.
I know the food is good......so start packing.....
You may have made her ';legal'; when you married her, but I'm not sure...there are attorneys who specialize in immigration law...better be finding one, sounds like 2 me...K ;o)
A filipino can never reach america on an illegal basis. Phils is located on the other side of the earth. Maybe the visa of her parents were just a working visa and might have been expired before they can find another employer. As an american citizen, you can apply for her green card since you both married and living together. Its not a big problem as of now as long you wont divorce you wife. This can be solved by talking to an immigration lawyer who will also do the processing on your behalf. However, this may take time, a lot of paperworks, patience and money
Start packing for the Phillipines. She will have to do her paperwork from there.
She should be able to apply for a green card as the spouse of a US citizen. You should get a lawyer to help guide you through the process. The fact that you have been married for three years before applying should make the process go smoother.US Citizen married to a Phillipine just found out she was not here legally, now What?
Since you have issues with her%26gt; What did she use for ID when you got married%26gt;??Don't you have to have proper paper work to get married or are you married I don't know best find out%26gt; Try calling immingration and get the correct answer%26gt;Best of luck%26gt;??
Contact a immigration lawyer.
settle the papers first legally. consult a legal attorney
It's immigration attorney time. Since you are married, it should be (relatively) easy for her to get residency and eventually citizenship. It's paperwork, time, and money, but it shouldn't be a real problem.
contact the nearnest embassy
talk to a lawer
was she a permanent resident then? you can apply to renew her green card but will have to explain to the INS why you filed after it expired. i think the form is a I-751. she is entitled to be deported but it's not very likely it will happen.
She can maybe apply for citizenship too but i don't know if her no status will effect her application.
I heard the Phillipines are beautiful and the people are warm.
I know the food is good......so start packing.....
You may have made her ';legal'; when you married her, but I'm not sure...there are attorneys who specialize in immigration law...better be finding one, sounds like 2 me...K ;o)
A filipino can never reach america on an illegal basis. Phils is located on the other side of the earth. Maybe the visa of her parents were just a working visa and might have been expired before they can find another employer. As an american citizen, you can apply for her green card since you both married and living together. Its not a big problem as of now as long you wont divorce you wife. This can be solved by talking to an immigration lawyer who will also do the processing on your behalf. However, this may take time, a lot of paperworks, patience and money
Start packing for the Phillipines. She will have to do her paperwork from there.
When is Michelle Obama going to realize that she married an alien?
Uh well Obama is a terrorist. So...When is Michelle Obama going to realize that she married an alien?
This just shows that you're part of that 10% of America who still thinks Obama is not a natural born citizen. By the way, I still don't believe your marital status. Show me your original marriage license and your original birth certificate to prove you are of legal age.
When is Michelle Obama going to realize that she married an alien?
What's your point? Based on your remark, I can bet your very young and unmarried-probably a teenager. Aren't you're supposed to be in school, or are you on this sight when you're supposed to be doing your typing exercises in the computer lab.
1. If you're referring to love, you have no right to dictate who she chooses as a life partner.
My life partner is a Caucasian-Irish background to be politically correct. Everyone has a right to find someone to love. Even Hitler had Ava.
2. Now, if you're trying to make a point in regards to President Obama's legitimacy as president, get over it. He's a U.S. Citizen and he was elected. You had your eight years-if you're old enough to remember presidents that far back.
If you,ve ever played the ';Jackpot Party'; slot machine in a casino - YOU KNOW Obama has been employed for a long time as the ';Alien'; pooper when you lose in the Bonus round. Check it out - it's true and verifiable.
they have two children together, silly, which can only have been accomplished in a laboratory on the mother ship. she knows perfectly well what he is. it's a big turn-on for her.
she already knows what does she care she is first lady that is all that matters to her
when he realizes that he married an anti-american
This just shows that you're part of that 10% of America who still thinks Obama is not a natural born citizen. By the way, I still don't believe your marital status. Show me your original marriage license and your original birth certificate to prove you are of legal age.
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When is Michelle Obama going to realize that she married an alien?
What's your point? Based on your remark, I can bet your very young and unmarried-probably a teenager. Aren't you're supposed to be in school, or are you on this sight when you're supposed to be doing your typing exercises in the computer lab.
1. If you're referring to love, you have no right to dictate who she chooses as a life partner.
My life partner is a Caucasian-Irish background to be politically correct. Everyone has a right to find someone to love. Even Hitler had Ava.
2. Now, if you're trying to make a point in regards to President Obama's legitimacy as president, get over it. He's a U.S. Citizen and he was elected. You had your eight years-if you're old enough to remember presidents that far back.
If you,ve ever played the ';Jackpot Party'; slot machine in a casino - YOU KNOW Obama has been employed for a long time as the ';Alien'; pooper when you lose in the Bonus round. Check it out - it's true and verifiable.
they have two children together, silly, which can only have been accomplished in a laboratory on the mother ship. she knows perfectly well what he is. it's a big turn-on for her.
she already knows what does she care she is first lady that is all that matters to her
when he realizes that he married an anti-american
What is the name of the church you got married at?
Or was it a registary office? What is the name of the church you got married at?
Circus circus in Las Vegas. What is the name of the church you got married at?
It's illegal for me to get married. lolololol, equality? what's that???
got to love being surrounded by religious nut-jobs, even in a blue state.
Not applicable
Our good friend got certified to be a Deputy Marriage Commissioner. I don't know if this is just a CA thing or if other states allow it. He paid a small fee to become certified to perform marriage as a one-time thing.
Pine Lake Christian Church. It's small and in a city no one comes to visit lol But it was stunningly beautiful and I day I will never forget.
Brookfield Zoo! Mother Nature's church...
Not married yet but getting married at
New Life Tabernacle.
I didn't get married in a church...I was married at home in my antique room
not married yet just engaged sorry hun
not married buddy =]
im not married
but everyone in my family pretty much got married at the same temple
my mom and dad got married in jamiaca
We are getting married at a church named St. Paul's
I got Married????????
I got married at a coffee shop in Memphis
New Star Baptist Church Queens New York
zion baptist church
Im not married.
im not married in fact far from it lol
im not married yet ol poor me!
I'm not married.
i didn't get married yet
i'm only 13
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Circus circus in Las Vegas. What is the name of the church you got married at?
It's illegal for me to get married. lolololol, equality? what's that???
got to love being surrounded by religious nut-jobs, even in a blue state.
Not applicable
Our good friend got certified to be a Deputy Marriage Commissioner. I don't know if this is just a CA thing or if other states allow it. He paid a small fee to become certified to perform marriage as a one-time thing.
Pine Lake Christian Church. It's small and in a city no one comes to visit lol But it was stunningly beautiful and I day I will never forget.
Brookfield Zoo! Mother Nature's church...
Not married yet but getting married at
New Life Tabernacle.
I didn't get married in a church...I was married at home in my antique room
not married yet just engaged sorry hun
not married buddy =]
im not married
but everyone in my family pretty much got married at the same temple
my mom and dad got married in jamiaca
We are getting married at a church named St. Paul's
I got Married????????
I got married at a coffee shop in Memphis
New Star Baptist Church Queens New York
zion baptist church
Im not married.
im not married in fact far from it lol
im not married yet ol poor me!
I'm not married.
i didn't get married yet
i'm only 13
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Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
What if they are widowed? What if they are divorced? What if they are too young to be married? What if no one is interested in them?Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
In synagogue worship (and in traditional Christian worship, especially in the Middle East - and even in Greece today) men and women stand/sit separately. Paul didn't want married women to shout their questions to their husbands who were some distance away. ';Wait 'til you get home.'; was practical advice for keeping order in the meeting.
Widows wouldn't have anyone to shout to, nor would the young and/or unmarried, who would be with their mothers. Paul didn't have to talk about them. They, too, could ask their questions without disturbing the meeting by waiting until afterward.Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
Women lived in their parent's household then until they got married, so they would ask their fathers. The Bible talks plenty about divorce as well. Divorced/single women should ask their fathers, an older woman, or possibly an elder/pastor in the church. It's a simple answer to find, just gotta connect a few pieces.
1Cor.14:34-35 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
That's ludicrous. This scripture specifically addresses married men and women.
Paul was talking to Christians who were Jews...it was their culture/society...he was biased.
*We go through the lense of Jesus. We are gentiles.
I never heard Jesus saying anything like that...
They can ask the Pastor
That letter was to the Corinthian church,all their women may have been married.
If they got divorced, they re-married and had about 240977230 more kids.
The only thing the Holy Bible assumes is that people today are really stupid
What if they are widowed? What if they are divorced? What if they are too young to be married? What if no one is interested in them?Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
In synagogue worship (and in traditional Christian worship, especially in the Middle East - and even in Greece today) men and women stand/sit separately. Paul didn't want married women to shout their questions to their husbands who were some distance away. ';Wait 'til you get home.'; was practical advice for keeping order in the meeting.
Widows wouldn't have anyone to shout to, nor would the young and/or unmarried, who would be with their mothers. Paul didn't have to talk about them. They, too, could ask their questions without disturbing the meeting by waiting until afterward.Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
Women lived in their parent's household then until they got married, so they would ask their fathers. The Bible talks plenty about divorce as well. Divorced/single women should ask their fathers, an older woman, or possibly an elder/pastor in the church. It's a simple answer to find, just gotta connect a few pieces.
1Cor.14:34-35 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
That's ludicrous. This scripture specifically addresses married men and women.
Paul was talking to Christians who were Jews...it was their culture/society...he was biased.
*We go through the lense of Jesus. We are gentiles.
I never heard Jesus saying anything like that...
They can ask the Pastor
That letter was to the Corinthian church,all their women may have been married.
If they got divorced, they re-married and had about 240977230 more kids.
The only thing the Holy Bible assumes is that people today are really stupid
I need some ideas for a day out with my best friend who is about to get married?
My friend is getting married and has been planning her own wedding so I want to take her out for a really relaxing day. She does not like massages and a facial just isn't a good idea a few days before her big day. Does anybody have any good ideas? (PS. we are in San Diego if you have any specific suggestions). Thanks for the help!I need some ideas for a day out with my best friend who is about to get married?
well since she does not like those things...i dont know if a manicure and a pedicure would be a good idea but it depends on her. it would be great to get thme done before the wedding....
also you could maybe set up a nice thing in th park and go sit out there and talk about everything and she can spill all of her exciting honeymoon plans. maybe take her shopping to get some clothes for their honeymoon
uggh you could take her out to eat or somewhere you know she loves it. even the movies are stress free and its always nice to catch a nice movie in the cool air. i hope i help a lil. congrats to her and good luck to you!!
well since she does not like those things...i dont know if a manicure and a pedicure would be a good idea but it depends on her. it would be great to get thme done before the wedding....
also you could maybe set up a nice thing in th park and go sit out there and talk about everything and she can spill all of her exciting honeymoon plans. maybe take her shopping to get some clothes for their honeymoon
uggh you could take her out to eat or somewhere you know she loves it. even the movies are stress free and its always nice to catch a nice movie in the cool air. i hope i help a lil. congrats to her and good luck to you!!
When all your friends start getting married, do you feel pressure to get married too?
Yeah. All the time.
It doesn't help when my friends
totally rub it in as well. I find it
annoying.
It doesn't help when my friends
totally rub it in as well. I find it
annoying.
How many married people have gotten their stimulus checks?
i am wondering how many married couples have recieved their stimulus payments through eft. my husband and i have yet to recieve ours, and we know many who have gotten theirs and are in the second bracket like we are.How many married people have gotten their stimulus checks?
i have not....sigh
i have not....sigh
Would someone suggest some places in NC to get married outside?
Recently engaged.
And have always wanted to get married outside.
Unfortunately I do not know any places in NC that would make pretty outdoor backdrops.
please %26amp; thankyou.Would someone suggest some places in NC to get married outside?
I tell everyone about this damn site lol... I recommend joining www.theknot.com. Its an awesome site. Its free and only takes 5 minutes to sign up for. You can then search for wedding related things in your own town, it ask what state youre from then what town, and then you put in what you're looking for. Wedding ceremony %26amp; reception sites, and it comes up with lists (and pictures) of them and rates them from one dollar sign to 4 to show you how expensive it is. They also have community forum boards and they have one for each home town so find one closest to you and post this question on there... you'll more than likely get much more helpful results because there will be tons of bride to bes on there that live near you! GL %26amp; congrats :)Would someone suggest some places in NC to get married outside?
Check out some of the local parks you will be amazed, and they are at little or no cost.
And have always wanted to get married outside.
Unfortunately I do not know any places in NC that would make pretty outdoor backdrops.
please %26amp; thankyou.Would someone suggest some places in NC to get married outside?
I tell everyone about this damn site lol... I recommend joining www.theknot.com. Its an awesome site. Its free and only takes 5 minutes to sign up for. You can then search for wedding related things in your own town, it ask what state youre from then what town, and then you put in what you're looking for. Wedding ceremony %26amp; reception sites, and it comes up with lists (and pictures) of them and rates them from one dollar sign to 4 to show you how expensive it is. They also have community forum boards and they have one for each home town so find one closest to you and post this question on there... you'll more than likely get much more helpful results because there will be tons of bride to bes on there that live near you! GL %26amp; congrats :)Would someone suggest some places in NC to get married outside?
Check out some of the local parks you will be amazed, and they are at little or no cost.
How can I find out if this person is married?
It's a really long story but I need to find out if somebody is married...I was wondering if there are any free sites that would give me that information.
ThanksHow can I find out if this person is married?
Share the really long story and maybe you'll get a really long and valuable answer.How can I find out if this person is married?
Depends what state your in but you can always look up state records online. For instance i am in oklahoma and i can go online to the oklahoma courts and search by county and it will show all marriage license applications and divorce papers as well as criminal hearings and such. I would do a google search for whatever state your in and the put the words court records behind it. You should be able to find out if this person was granted a marriage license or even a divorce as well as any criminal or general court procedings involving them. All court documents are public record, you can't see all the details about them but it will give you a general idea about anything legal involving the court systems and this person.
I would say ask ';this person'; out straight.
no u stalker!! its called askin them jeez...wat the hell man?cosmetics products
ThanksHow can I find out if this person is married?
Share the really long story and maybe you'll get a really long and valuable answer.How can I find out if this person is married?
Depends what state your in but you can always look up state records online. For instance i am in oklahoma and i can go online to the oklahoma courts and search by county and it will show all marriage license applications and divorce papers as well as criminal hearings and such. I would do a google search for whatever state your in and the put the words court records behind it. You should be able to find out if this person was granted a marriage license or even a divorce as well as any criminal or general court procedings involving them. All court documents are public record, you can't see all the details about them but it will give you a general idea about anything legal involving the court systems and this person.
I would say ask ';this person'; out straight.
no u stalker!! its called askin them jeez...wat the hell man?
Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
What if they are widowed? What if they are divorced? What if they are too young to be married? What if no one is interested in them?Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
In synagogue worship (and in traditional Christian worship, especially in the Middle East - and even in Greece today) men and women stand/sit separately. Paul didn't want married women to shout their questions to their husbands who were some distance away. ';Wait 'til you get home.'; was practical advice for keeping order in the meeting.
Widows wouldn't have anyone to shout to, nor would the young and/or unmarried, who would be with their mothers. Paul didn't have to talk about them. They, too, could ask their questions without disturbing the meeting by waiting until afterward.Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
Women lived in their parent's household then until they got married, so they would ask their fathers. The Bible talks plenty about divorce as well. Divorced/single women should ask their fathers, an older woman, or possibly an elder/pastor in the church. It's a simple answer to find, just gotta connect a few pieces.
1Cor.14:34-35 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
That's ludicrous. This scripture specifically addresses married men and women.
Paul was talking to Christians who were Jews...it was their culture/society...he was biased.
*We go through the lense of Jesus. We are gentiles.
I never heard Jesus saying anything like that...
They can ask the Pastor
That letter was to the Corinthian church,all their women may have been married.
If they got divorced, they re-married and had about 240977230 more kids.
The only thing the Holy Bible assumes is that people today are really stupid
What if they are widowed? What if they are divorced? What if they are too young to be married? What if no one is interested in them?Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
In synagogue worship (and in traditional Christian worship, especially in the Middle East - and even in Greece today) men and women stand/sit separately. Paul didn't want married women to shout their questions to their husbands who were some distance away. ';Wait 'til you get home.'; was practical advice for keeping order in the meeting.
Widows wouldn't have anyone to shout to, nor would the young and/or unmarried, who would be with their mothers. Paul didn't have to talk about them. They, too, could ask their questions without disturbing the meeting by waiting until afterward.Does the Holy Bible assume that all women are married?
Women lived in their parent's household then until they got married, so they would ask their fathers. The Bible talks plenty about divorce as well. Divorced/single women should ask their fathers, an older woman, or possibly an elder/pastor in the church. It's a simple answer to find, just gotta connect a few pieces.
1Cor.14:34-35 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
That's ludicrous. This scripture specifically addresses married men and women.
Paul was talking to Christians who were Jews...it was their culture/society...he was biased.
*We go through the lense of Jesus. We are gentiles.
I never heard Jesus saying anything like that...
They can ask the Pastor
That letter was to the Corinthian church,all their women may have been married.
If they got divorced, they re-married and had about 240977230 more kids.
The only thing the Holy Bible assumes is that people today are really stupid
When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
says that he does not want to sleep with you yet, he wants things to happen naturally, what does that mean?
Could it be that if he has sex with me he is scared that I would expect more from him than he is willing to give?When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
it means that he doesn't have the cojones to break it off with his wife and he wants to string you along.When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
I have a suggestion...do not have relationships with married men. one day when you are married you will know exactly where I and every other married person answering your question is coming from.
Its cheap and disgusting.
He wont have sex with you because he IS NOT GOING TO leave his wife for you. He has no intention on turning your relationship into something that would definitely be a deal breaker with his wife. And IF or when he does have sex with you he still wont leave his wife. Most married men have no intentions on leaving their wives.
Is he really a quality person that you would want to be with if he is ';cheating on his wife emotionally'; with the option to physically cheat? seriously....Havent you ever heard the line- If he does it with you, he'll do it TO YOU.
Run away and find yourself a nice single man.
1. He wants to string you along until he decides if he is really going to cheat on his wife.
2. He already has another adulteress in the wings and maybe she isn't working out and he's trying to replace her with you.
3. He has never cheated on his wife, and his morals and his flesh are warring.
4. He really likes you and may not be feeling the same with his wife, for whatever reason, and he hasn't decided whether he is willing to ruin what he has at home in order to pursue what the two of you may have. To him, it may turn out to be a great relationship, or it could bomb, and he'll regret leaving his wife only to end up alone again. Which is why he got married in the first place, so he wouldn't be alone anymore.
5. He may have children and are considering their lives if this thing blows up in his face.
6. He has to make sure that if he does decide to keep you as his ';Sideline Girl';, that you won't walk up to his wife and rat him out. Since, now, he has no plans of leaving her for you.
It can't end well, and if you get involved with this man, and I suggest you don't, you should keep a stable head and remember this: If he doesn't leave her for you, then he's telling you, you aren't worthy of all of me.
If he does leave her for you, he's unstable, and he really doesn't know what he wants, and he may do the same to you.
Pam :: This is a simple situation.. Step back from it and really look at it objectively.. Your man is MARRIED!! For whatever reason,,he is not happy in that marriage,,or is wanting to have a fling on the side..When he says he wants things to happen naturally,,he means he's setting the stage to have sex with you,,but wants you to think it will be something ''SPECIAL'; with more than just sex..Like a relationship,,or even marriage..THAT';S so YOU will be comfortable doing whatever he has in mind for you to do with him..Believe me,,this man is going to USE you.. You have NOTHING to gain with this relationship,,no matter how handsome,,endearing,,love-able,,giving,,鈥?adjective you want to attach to him..Your course of action is to RUN not walk away from, this situation..Period!! This is NOT a relationship which can go anywhere without heart break and aggrevation for you.. PLUS,,you will be the one who gets used, abused,and eventually cast off..You are going to hear his wife doesn't understand him..He doesn't love her,,she's using him,,Whatever it takes to convince you he is sincere with YOU.. Right now,,you are not comitted and are in control..Keep it that way.. If you are smart,,you'll tell him you won't date married men..And if he is unmarried you would consider dating him.. Lastly,,think of his wife,,if he is willing to ''Cheat'; on her with YOU,,what makes you think once he has you,,he won't move on to another,,or just use YOU on the side?? Be a smart girl !! There's lots of other fishes in the stream to choose from !! I wish you well !! SCOTTY
what the heck are you doing with a married man... for one yes you can be there for emotional support but for sex.. NO that is just messed up.. I mean he is a married man maybe he just wants someone to talk to that he can't share with his wife.. now if he wants sex then he should be divorced first because that is just wrong .. i mean what would you say if you knew ur husband was doing this behind ur back... u would want anything to happen now would you..
he really might not be sure he wants to end his marriage, and once some men cross that line like my ex did, he wasn't comfortable with what he had done so he moved in with her. because once that line is crossed and they have to go home to the wife, its really hard for some men to even look her in the face. but he's not exactly ready to give u the boot either. so the next time him and his wife really get into it, he will probably want the sex, because some men use the other woman to get out of a marriage, its the cowards way of leaving. he wants to keep a back up just in case things at home go badly because men really don't like being alone. he also doesn't want u to think he pushed u into it,because later on if he doesn't leave her and wants to break it off with u, he doesn't want u to be able to blame him. so the longer he can keep u emotionally attached to him, and interested, the better the chance it will be all your idea. he is probably having trouble in his marriage right now, and is lining up someone for the future.
It means he's not sure if he's ready to get in trouble yet for cheating. It means he's not sure he really wants to give up his wife and family (if he has one) for someone like you. You should not be involved with a MARRIED man! What kind of woman are you? Can't you find your own man? I'm saying this and I'm not a married woman. Have some self respect, common sense and also realize he's just using you.
It simply means that her want to get to know you before he has sex with you. Yes, you are both human beings who connect on different levels, trying to find out if you like each other, if you have similar interests, if you can get along. Yes, it it alikeness that bonds two people and anything else is less than human. Read more about emotional relationships in my source.
My guess is that he has never had a physical affair and is nervous. Take it from me...if it is already emotional it will only get worse when you sleep together. I am in no way judging you, as I did it myself more than once. Chances are, he will never leave her so do yourself a favor and save a LOT of heartache....find someone else.
ok first off he is married back off!
if he is not happy with his woman thats his problem i would not get involved or in the middle ..
you need to just be friends and find someone who is single ..
you don't want to be known as a home wrecker do you?
if he is out of love with his wife tell him he needs to leave her before you go any farther and if he did leave maybe its because he still has love for his wife ...
so he does not want to move so fast and he maybe trying to work things out with his wife behind your back...
easy.
that's guy talk for
';as i continue to cheat on my wife, break my sacred wedding vows, lie to her every second of the day, hide information from her, and sneak off to be with you because I am a spineless douche who can't confront a woman, i am willing to let *you* bring up sex so after i have porked you for a few months and i move on to the next stupid chippy, i can say it was all your idea. until then, i will make you my personal c*m dumpster, because that is all you are good for.';
why - did you think it meant something romantic?
Maybe he's scared he'll ruin what he has with his wife/family and that when she finds out she'll take him for all he's worth... possibly even pull a Lorena Bobbitt. :o)
As for you, have more respect for yourself and find a man who wants to be with you 100%.
He's not sure he wants to damage his marriage any further. He's hesitating because he doesn't want the guilt of an affair if he decides to stay married.
Let him go. He's not good for you and you not good for him.
It means he's not planning on leaving his wife. I've never heard of a guy that is having an affair with you making up an excuse not to sleep with you! That is pretty low, you must feel like trash! Kick this d-bag to the curb!!
It means he is setting you up with the emotional attachment so that when you do have sex you wont tell his wife cuz you wouldn't wanna hurt him or lose him. Hes a cheater, do you really want him?
Some guys think that an emotional affair is not cheating but a physical affair is.
Stay away from starting any kind of relationship with a married man.
You are a home wrecker...find a single guy and stay out of other peoples lives.
Women like you make me ashamed...regain your self respect if you know what that is, if not look in the dictionary.
It means neither of you have any morals or respect for marriage. Have some self respect, find your own man.
Maybe he's scared to catch something from someone who is obviously so easy.
why are you messing around with a married man? Maybe you should try dating people who aren't already in a committed relationship.
Perhaps he is struggling and trying to keep the last thread of his MARRIAGE INTACT and hope you will obtain some morals and DISAPPEAR from his life
How about you just stay away from married men?
And Presto! Problem solved.
You should put yourself in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if your man went and cheated on you?
I think you have his number. But why would you bother, to risk heartache from such a relationship?
Please have mercy on his wife. Get out of there.
Why don't you ask his WIFE!!!
or maybe because he is MARRIED and he doesn't want to cheat on his WIFE!!
He is at least maintaining a degree of integrity!
not a lot, just a bit!
can't you find an unmarried man!?!?!?
Could it be that if he has sex with me he is scared that I would expect more from him than he is willing to give?When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
it means that he doesn't have the cojones to break it off with his wife and he wants to string you along.When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
I have a suggestion...do not have relationships with married men. one day when you are married you will know exactly where I and every other married person answering your question is coming from.
Its cheap and disgusting.
He wont have sex with you because he IS NOT GOING TO leave his wife for you. He has no intention on turning your relationship into something that would definitely be a deal breaker with his wife. And IF or when he does have sex with you he still wont leave his wife. Most married men have no intentions on leaving their wives.
Is he really a quality person that you would want to be with if he is ';cheating on his wife emotionally'; with the option to physically cheat? seriously....Havent you ever heard the line- If he does it with you, he'll do it TO YOU.
Run away and find yourself a nice single man.
1. He wants to string you along until he decides if he is really going to cheat on his wife.
2. He already has another adulteress in the wings and maybe she isn't working out and he's trying to replace her with you.
3. He has never cheated on his wife, and his morals and his flesh are warring.
4. He really likes you and may not be feeling the same with his wife, for whatever reason, and he hasn't decided whether he is willing to ruin what he has at home in order to pursue what the two of you may have. To him, it may turn out to be a great relationship, or it could bomb, and he'll regret leaving his wife only to end up alone again. Which is why he got married in the first place, so he wouldn't be alone anymore.
5. He may have children and are considering their lives if this thing blows up in his face.
6. He has to make sure that if he does decide to keep you as his ';Sideline Girl';, that you won't walk up to his wife and rat him out. Since, now, he has no plans of leaving her for you.
It can't end well, and if you get involved with this man, and I suggest you don't, you should keep a stable head and remember this: If he doesn't leave her for you, then he's telling you, you aren't worthy of all of me.
If he does leave her for you, he's unstable, and he really doesn't know what he wants, and he may do the same to you.
Pam :: This is a simple situation.. Step back from it and really look at it objectively.. Your man is MARRIED!! For whatever reason,,he is not happy in that marriage,,or is wanting to have a fling on the side..When he says he wants things to happen naturally,,he means he's setting the stage to have sex with you,,but wants you to think it will be something ''SPECIAL'; with more than just sex..Like a relationship,,or even marriage..THAT';S so YOU will be comfortable doing whatever he has in mind for you to do with him..Believe me,,this man is going to USE you.. You have NOTHING to gain with this relationship,,no matter how handsome,,endearing,,love-able,,giving,,鈥?adjective you want to attach to him..Your course of action is to RUN not walk away from, this situation..Period!! This is NOT a relationship which can go anywhere without heart break and aggrevation for you.. PLUS,,you will be the one who gets used, abused,and eventually cast off..You are going to hear his wife doesn't understand him..He doesn't love her,,she's using him,,Whatever it takes to convince you he is sincere with YOU.. Right now,,you are not comitted and are in control..Keep it that way.. If you are smart,,you'll tell him you won't date married men..And if he is unmarried you would consider dating him.. Lastly,,think of his wife,,if he is willing to ''Cheat'; on her with YOU,,what makes you think once he has you,,he won't move on to another,,or just use YOU on the side?? Be a smart girl !! There's lots of other fishes in the stream to choose from !! I wish you well !! SCOTTY
what the heck are you doing with a married man... for one yes you can be there for emotional support but for sex.. NO that is just messed up.. I mean he is a married man maybe he just wants someone to talk to that he can't share with his wife.. now if he wants sex then he should be divorced first because that is just wrong .. i mean what would you say if you knew ur husband was doing this behind ur back... u would want anything to happen now would you..
he really might not be sure he wants to end his marriage, and once some men cross that line like my ex did, he wasn't comfortable with what he had done so he moved in with her. because once that line is crossed and they have to go home to the wife, its really hard for some men to even look her in the face. but he's not exactly ready to give u the boot either. so the next time him and his wife really get into it, he will probably want the sex, because some men use the other woman to get out of a marriage, its the cowards way of leaving. he wants to keep a back up just in case things at home go badly because men really don't like being alone. he also doesn't want u to think he pushed u into it,because later on if he doesn't leave her and wants to break it off with u, he doesn't want u to be able to blame him. so the longer he can keep u emotionally attached to him, and interested, the better the chance it will be all your idea. he is probably having trouble in his marriage right now, and is lining up someone for the future.
It means he's not sure if he's ready to get in trouble yet for cheating. It means he's not sure he really wants to give up his wife and family (if he has one) for someone like you. You should not be involved with a MARRIED man! What kind of woman are you? Can't you find your own man? I'm saying this and I'm not a married woman. Have some self respect, common sense and also realize he's just using you.
It simply means that her want to get to know you before he has sex with you. Yes, you are both human beings who connect on different levels, trying to find out if you like each other, if you have similar interests, if you can get along. Yes, it it alikeness that bonds two people and anything else is less than human. Read more about emotional relationships in my source.
My guess is that he has never had a physical affair and is nervous. Take it from me...if it is already emotional it will only get worse when you sleep together. I am in no way judging you, as I did it myself more than once. Chances are, he will never leave her so do yourself a favor and save a LOT of heartache....find someone else.
ok first off he is married back off!
if he is not happy with his woman thats his problem i would not get involved or in the middle ..
you need to just be friends and find someone who is single ..
you don't want to be known as a home wrecker do you?
if he is out of love with his wife tell him he needs to leave her before you go any farther and if he did leave maybe its because he still has love for his wife ...
so he does not want to move so fast and he maybe trying to work things out with his wife behind your back...
easy.
that's guy talk for
';as i continue to cheat on my wife, break my sacred wedding vows, lie to her every second of the day, hide information from her, and sneak off to be with you because I am a spineless douche who can't confront a woman, i am willing to let *you* bring up sex so after i have porked you for a few months and i move on to the next stupid chippy, i can say it was all your idea. until then, i will make you my personal c*m dumpster, because that is all you are good for.';
why - did you think it meant something romantic?
Maybe he's scared he'll ruin what he has with his wife/family and that when she finds out she'll take him for all he's worth... possibly even pull a Lorena Bobbitt. :o)
As for you, have more respect for yourself and find a man who wants to be with you 100%.
He's not sure he wants to damage his marriage any further. He's hesitating because he doesn't want the guilt of an affair if he decides to stay married.
Let him go. He's not good for you and you not good for him.
It means he's not planning on leaving his wife. I've never heard of a guy that is having an affair with you making up an excuse not to sleep with you! That is pretty low, you must feel like trash! Kick this d-bag to the curb!!
It means he is setting you up with the emotional attachment so that when you do have sex you wont tell his wife cuz you wouldn't wanna hurt him or lose him. Hes a cheater, do you really want him?
Some guys think that an emotional affair is not cheating but a physical affair is.
Stay away from starting any kind of relationship with a married man.
You are a home wrecker...find a single guy and stay out of other peoples lives.
Women like you make me ashamed...regain your self respect if you know what that is, if not look in the dictionary.
It means neither of you have any morals or respect for marriage. Have some self respect, find your own man.
Maybe he's scared to catch something from someone who is obviously so easy.
why are you messing around with a married man? Maybe you should try dating people who aren't already in a committed relationship.
Perhaps he is struggling and trying to keep the last thread of his MARRIAGE INTACT and hope you will obtain some morals and DISAPPEAR from his life
How about you just stay away from married men?
And Presto! Problem solved.
You should put yourself in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if your man went and cheated on you?
I think you have his number. But why would you bother, to risk heartache from such a relationship?
Please have mercy on his wife. Get out of there.
Why don't you ask his WIFE!!!
or maybe because he is MARRIED and he doesn't want to cheat on his WIFE!!
He is at least maintaining a degree of integrity!
not a lot, just a bit!
can't you find an unmarried man!?!?!?
For a man who won 3 world titles, got married and spent vacation in Hell, did Edge have an interesting 2008?
Yep, very interesting...
... don't forget he grew a beard.For a man who won 3 world titles, got married and spent vacation in Hell, did Edge have an interesting 2008?
Well....Getting married has nothing to do with being superstar of the year. And he was out of action for like 3 months was he not? But yah an interesting year still.For a man who won 3 world titles, got married and spent vacation in Hell, did Edge have an interesting 2008?
because he was sent to hell by the undertaker and spent some time
cooling off...[or burning in hell??]
whereas Y2J was present at all WWE events throughout the year.
it's close , Y2J dominated RAW and edge ruled SD !
but , in the end , Y2J did not take time off , so ,he's the star of 2OO8 .
yup he spend half of the year on the honeymoon on hell then came back as SANTA LOL!! thanx for the funny question : )
I would say yes, he did have an interesting year
oh yea, for sure lol. This was an amazing year for him(Y)
yea i think so.
... don't forget he grew a beard.For a man who won 3 world titles, got married and spent vacation in Hell, did Edge have an interesting 2008?
Well....Getting married has nothing to do with being superstar of the year. And he was out of action for like 3 months was he not? But yah an interesting year still.For a man who won 3 world titles, got married and spent vacation in Hell, did Edge have an interesting 2008?
because he was sent to hell by the undertaker and spent some time
cooling off...[or burning in hell??]
whereas Y2J was present at all WWE events throughout the year.
it's close , Y2J dominated RAW and edge ruled SD !
but , in the end , Y2J did not take time off , so ,he's the star of 2OO8 .
yup he spend half of the year on the honeymoon on hell then came back as SANTA LOL!! thanx for the funny question : )
I would say yes, he did have an interesting year
oh yea, for sure lol. This was an amazing year for him(Y)
yea i think so.
I am married for 16 years and i have been cheating to my husband for more than 10.Whats wrong with me?
And i just can't stop. We don't sleep together. I ask him for divorce but he doesn't want and tells me if i do it he will commit suicide.I am married for 16 years and i have been cheating to my husband for more than 10.Whats wrong with me?
The kind of man who threatens suicide in order to control his wife's actions may not be the kind of man who is a good husband.
However, if my wife had been cheating on me for 10 years that might very well make me suicidal...
I assume you no longer have feelings for him. I see no hope for your marriage. If it continues you will both stay unhappy, if you end it there is a chance you can both be happy one day.
When a partner threatens suicide in this way, that person is basically telling you that they don't or can't care for your feelings. You need to be free and he wants to stop you by any means necessary. That's not love, and even if you left and he immediately threw himself off a building you would still have the right to walk away without guilt. It would not be your fault, it would be his choice.I am married for 16 years and i have been cheating to my husband for more than 10.Whats wrong with me?
DOES HE KNOW YOU HAVE BEEN UNFAITHFUL FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS.OBVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM.HAVE YOU EXPLAINED TO HIM THAT YOUR NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM AND YOU HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. (OR A LOT OF SOMEONE ELSES OBVIOUS0LY HE KNOWS THAT AT SOME LEVEL SINCE YOU DON'T SLEEP TOGETHER ANY MORE. BUT HE MIGHT BE IN DENIAL AND NEEDS TO HEAR THE AWFUL TRUTH. HE NEEDS THERAPY. OBVIOUSLY YOU NEED HELP TOO.IF YOU HAVE CHEATED ON YOU HUSBAND FOR 10 YRS YOU ALSO HAVE SERIOUS ISSUES.IT IS NOT NORMAL.YOU ALSO NEED SOME TYPE OF MARRIAGE COUNSELING.NOT TO FIX THE MARRIAGE BUT TO HAVE SOMEONE IN THE ROOM WITH YOU TO KEEP ON TRACK WHILE TALKING. TO PREVENT USELESS ARGUING AND YOU WILL EACH HAVE A CHANCE TO EXPRESS YOURSELVES. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR HUBBY I HOPE HE CAN GET HELP TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND GET IN TOUCH WITH THE REASONS HE STAYED WITH YOU. HE'S VERY DEPRESSED,BETRAYED AND POSSIBLY MUCH MORE. HE DESERVES SOMEONE WHO TREATS HIM MUCH BETTER THAN YOU HAVE. I WISH BOTH OF YOU LUCK AND HAPPINESS. YOU'LL NEED HELP TO GET THROUGH THIS PHASE IN YOUR LIFE AND FREE YOU BOTH FOR A HAPPY FUTURE.
You don't love him but are trapped! Do you really think he will take his own life if you leave him?...Tell him to see doctor!!
If you haven't done this already then maybe you should sleep in different rooms, stop doing anything for him...no cooking, cleaning etc...he will stop depending on you and you can start to break away from him!!
shame on you for cheating, if you dont want to be with someone u should leave instead of cheating. he needs to get help if he's willing to go to that kind of permanency. he should find someone who really loves him. doesnt sound like a healthy relationship to be in anyway. get him help, make sure he doesnt do anything drastic and then leave and find someone else
He is trapping you...all he is doing is hanging it over your head and that is definitely not what you deserve. Divorce him and be done with it
Thats his problem. leave him why should you feel guilty if you want to move on with your life if you dont love him and he commits suicide then you have no troubles easier divorce...
Tell him time to go..........
Blimey no wonder youve been having affairs. If youre not happy then leave, dont be stopped by emotional blackmail.
you may have slutaritis
You're trapped in a disfunctional marriage. You need to get out of it. What your husband does is on his head, not yours.
Ag,shame. I think you might need some help. Make sure it's a female professional that helps too.
The kind of man who threatens suicide in order to control his wife's actions may not be the kind of man who is a good husband.
However, if my wife had been cheating on me for 10 years that might very well make me suicidal...
I assume you no longer have feelings for him. I see no hope for your marriage. If it continues you will both stay unhappy, if you end it there is a chance you can both be happy one day.
When a partner threatens suicide in this way, that person is basically telling you that they don't or can't care for your feelings. You need to be free and he wants to stop you by any means necessary. That's not love, and even if you left and he immediately threw himself off a building you would still have the right to walk away without guilt. It would not be your fault, it would be his choice.I am married for 16 years and i have been cheating to my husband for more than 10.Whats wrong with me?
DOES HE KNOW YOU HAVE BEEN UNFAITHFUL FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS.OBVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM.HAVE YOU EXPLAINED TO HIM THAT YOUR NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM AND YOU HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. (OR A LOT OF SOMEONE ELSES OBVIOUS0LY HE KNOWS THAT AT SOME LEVEL SINCE YOU DON'T SLEEP TOGETHER ANY MORE. BUT HE MIGHT BE IN DENIAL AND NEEDS TO HEAR THE AWFUL TRUTH. HE NEEDS THERAPY. OBVIOUSLY YOU NEED HELP TOO.IF YOU HAVE CHEATED ON YOU HUSBAND FOR 10 YRS YOU ALSO HAVE SERIOUS ISSUES.IT IS NOT NORMAL.YOU ALSO NEED SOME TYPE OF MARRIAGE COUNSELING.NOT TO FIX THE MARRIAGE BUT TO HAVE SOMEONE IN THE ROOM WITH YOU TO KEEP ON TRACK WHILE TALKING. TO PREVENT USELESS ARGUING AND YOU WILL EACH HAVE A CHANCE TO EXPRESS YOURSELVES. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR HUBBY I HOPE HE CAN GET HELP TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND GET IN TOUCH WITH THE REASONS HE STAYED WITH YOU. HE'S VERY DEPRESSED,BETRAYED AND POSSIBLY MUCH MORE. HE DESERVES SOMEONE WHO TREATS HIM MUCH BETTER THAN YOU HAVE. I WISH BOTH OF YOU LUCK AND HAPPINESS. YOU'LL NEED HELP TO GET THROUGH THIS PHASE IN YOUR LIFE AND FREE YOU BOTH FOR A HAPPY FUTURE.
You don't love him but are trapped! Do you really think he will take his own life if you leave him?...Tell him to see doctor!!
If you haven't done this already then maybe you should sleep in different rooms, stop doing anything for him...no cooking, cleaning etc...he will stop depending on you and you can start to break away from him!!
shame on you for cheating, if you dont want to be with someone u should leave instead of cheating. he needs to get help if he's willing to go to that kind of permanency. he should find someone who really loves him. doesnt sound like a healthy relationship to be in anyway. get him help, make sure he doesnt do anything drastic and then leave and find someone else
He is trapping you...all he is doing is hanging it over your head and that is definitely not what you deserve. Divorce him and be done with it
Thats his problem. leave him why should you feel guilty if you want to move on with your life if you dont love him and he commits suicide then you have no troubles easier divorce...
Tell him time to go..........
Blimey no wonder youve been having affairs. If youre not happy then leave, dont be stopped by emotional blackmail.
you may have slutaritis
You're trapped in a disfunctional marriage. You need to get out of it. What your husband does is on his head, not yours.
Ag,shame. I think you might need some help. Make sure it's a female professional that helps too.
Are there any beautiful girls waiting till they are married?
Im 19 years old and a Catholic who is waiting till Im married and I just wanted to see how many like minded chicks there are out there. Please do not write any silly or vulgar answers if the question doesnt pertain to you then dont answer. ThanksAre there any beautiful girls waiting till they are married?
Im 22 years old and I am also waiting until I get married!Are there any beautiful girls waiting till they are married?
There's still quite a few. Surprisingly, many are traditional American gals like you might find participating in beauty pageants or other activities that require a ';skeleton-free'; closet.
But, I believe your best odds lay with first or second-generation immigrants from certain cultures, such as Eastern, as well as certain Latin-American of Catholic persuasion.
Note regarding Latinas: they generally don't keep for too long beyond age 18.
Good luck - since this is what you want.
No , don't know about the beautiful bit cos i don't think that much of myself but no not waiting
Im 22 years old and I am also waiting until I get married!Are there any beautiful girls waiting till they are married?
There's still quite a few. Surprisingly, many are traditional American gals like you might find participating in beauty pageants or other activities that require a ';skeleton-free'; closet.
But, I believe your best odds lay with first or second-generation immigrants from certain cultures, such as Eastern, as well as certain Latin-American of Catholic persuasion.
Note regarding Latinas: they generally don't keep for too long beyond age 18.
Good luck - since this is what you want.
No , don't know about the beautiful bit cos i don't think that much of myself but no not waiting
What age is good for a female to get married?
I'm 26 and i am not married yet. Sometimes i feel old and bad about myself. i feel like i am no longer good looking or as young to attract guys. i am afraid not to be able to find anyone any more. but i still look good. is it too late for me, i will turn 26 in a couple of days :(. do guys actually go after a 26 year old girl?What age is good for a female to get married?
Oh please. 26? I know people who are actively dating who have clothes older than you.
At 26, you're actually saying ';...still look good';? Incredible. If you think you're over the hill at 26, you need a therapist.What age is good for a female to get married?
You are quite welcome, darling! Anytime!!
And oh yes...happy birthday!!!
You're just getting started; I'm 54 and divorced, and yet there's no doubt in my mind that *I* can get a guy if I decide to, so for someone half my age, it should be a piece of cake. My advice: Quit worrying about being married, and start concerning yourself with LIVING, and the rest will follow.
there is no *good* age, people should get married when they are ready.... know what it is all about, etc.... My son is getting married this saturday, he is 30 the bride to be is 24..... they both have good jobs, good heads on their shoulders and are READY..... soooooo....... go in peace.... God bless
In my opinion, 28 is a good age to be married. You're young, 26 is still in the epitome of youth. Don't be self conscious, guys generally don't like that anyway.
26 is a good age to get married. So what if you haven't found a husband yet, keep looking, and you will find your prince charming.
The formula is that a man should marry a woman half his age PLUS ten years.
So... you'd be looking for a bloke of 32.
How old should SHE be?
Well... to my mind she should be at least old enough to vote.
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i'm 27 and i havent dated in years. I just take it as it comes. Nothing to feel down about.
Frankly you should be older when you marry because your more mature (hopefully).
It's different for everyone. My sister is 28 and unmarried, but I think I'll get married young; I'm 18. It depends on what you want.
If I wasn't already married, I wouldn't hesitate for one second. I prefer a mature woman over a child.
19yo is the perfect age for females (and males) to get married.
i know this cuz we were 19yo when we got married.
you better hurry up before it starts growing cobwebs
42....wait, you did ask what the meaning of life was, didn't you?cosmetics products
Oh please. 26? I know people who are actively dating who have clothes older than you.
At 26, you're actually saying ';...still look good';? Incredible. If you think you're over the hill at 26, you need a therapist.What age is good for a female to get married?
You are quite welcome, darling! Anytime!!
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You're just getting started; I'm 54 and divorced, and yet there's no doubt in my mind that *I* can get a guy if I decide to, so for someone half my age, it should be a piece of cake. My advice: Quit worrying about being married, and start concerning yourself with LIVING, and the rest will follow.
there is no *good* age, people should get married when they are ready.... know what it is all about, etc.... My son is getting married this saturday, he is 30 the bride to be is 24..... they both have good jobs, good heads on their shoulders and are READY..... soooooo....... go in peace.... God bless
In my opinion, 28 is a good age to be married. You're young, 26 is still in the epitome of youth. Don't be self conscious, guys generally don't like that anyway.
26 is a good age to get married. So what if you haven't found a husband yet, keep looking, and you will find your prince charming.
The formula is that a man should marry a woman half his age PLUS ten years.
So... you'd be looking for a bloke of 32.
How old should SHE be?
Well... to my mind she should be at least old enough to vote.
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i'm 27 and i havent dated in years. I just take it as it comes. Nothing to feel down about.
Frankly you should be older when you marry because your more mature (hopefully).
It's different for everyone. My sister is 28 and unmarried, but I think I'll get married young; I'm 18. It depends on what you want.
If I wasn't already married, I wouldn't hesitate for one second. I prefer a mature woman over a child.
19yo is the perfect age for females (and males) to get married.
i know this cuz we were 19yo when we got married.
you better hurry up before it starts growing cobwebs
42....wait, you did ask what the meaning of life was, didn't you?
I am married to a sergeant in the Army & want to go Officer in the MC. Will we be separated on my Commission?
We've been married 4 years. He was in the Marines 8 years before going Army. We are both very familiar with military life, I just want to know what other have experienced.I am married to a sergeant in the Army %26amp; want to go Officer in the MC. Will we be separated on my Commission?
Hi,
As JAG NCO, I can tell you that you are good since you were married before your commission. As long as you are not ever going to be his direct supervisor, your golden. Now, yes, there will be some frowns in the officer world, but they'll get over it real quick.
The Army Command policy AR 600-20, chapter 4 has all the facts.
Here is a quick link to read also:
http://students.ed.uiuc.edu/annweber/Web鈥?/a>
Good luck! Airborne!I am married to a sergeant in the Army %26amp; want to go Officer in the MC. Will we be separated on my Commission?
It's very likely that you would be stationed separately. You have to consider how many bases have both army and marine personnel, and that have positions for each of your specialties - not likely to be many. And assignments are based on the needs of the service - they take your preferences into account, but if it doesn't suit their needs to rearrange things to get you both on the same or nearby bases, they won't.
spousal colocation is never guaranteed, even less so when the branches are different.
More likely than not. Two different branches and the probability of you being stationed where he is will be slim.
You will be able to stay married however it will be difficult for them to station both of you in close proximity depending on your specialties. The Military usualy tries to keep married couples within 50 miles of each other but it can never be guaranteed.
You will not be forced to get divorced, but you will not be together.
There are very few places that Marines and Army are stationed together.
Even married couples within one service have a hard time staying together.
Hi,
As JAG NCO, I can tell you that you are good since you were married before your commission. As long as you are not ever going to be his direct supervisor, your golden. Now, yes, there will be some frowns in the officer world, but they'll get over it real quick.
The Army Command policy AR 600-20, chapter 4 has all the facts.
Here is a quick link to read also:
http://students.ed.uiuc.edu/annweber/Web鈥?/a>
Good luck! Airborne!I am married to a sergeant in the Army %26amp; want to go Officer in the MC. Will we be separated on my Commission?
It's very likely that you would be stationed separately. You have to consider how many bases have both army and marine personnel, and that have positions for each of your specialties - not likely to be many. And assignments are based on the needs of the service - they take your preferences into account, but if it doesn't suit their needs to rearrange things to get you both on the same or nearby bases, they won't.
spousal colocation is never guaranteed, even less so when the branches are different.
More likely than not. Two different branches and the probability of you being stationed where he is will be slim.
You will be able to stay married however it will be difficult for them to station both of you in close proximity depending on your specialties. The Military usualy tries to keep married couples within 50 miles of each other but it can never be guaranteed.
You will not be forced to get divorced, but you will not be together.
There are very few places that Marines and Army are stationed together.
Even married couples within one service have a hard time staying together.
When attending a wedding where both parties have been married before is it okay to spend less on the present?
yes or no in your opinion. They don`t need another 4 toasters etc.. Times are hard.When attending a wedding where both parties have been married before is it okay to spend less on the present?
I agree, it's not like a young couple just starting out. We asked for a £20 donation instead of wedding presents which helped towards the £35 a head meal.When attending a wedding where both parties have been married before is it okay to spend less on the present?
Do they have a wedding gift list. I have known couples who have lived together for years to put a gift list together for their wedding. I even thought my cousin who had been living with his girlfriend for 20 years might be getting married just so they could replace old for new!!
If there is no list and you know them well, why not suggest to them that the guests contribute money towards a honeymoon or even better to a charity of the couples choice.
In terms of how much you spend, this should be at your discretion. Even if they have never been married before.
I think the best solution in this case would be to give them money towards a honeymoon/trip. Get together with friends and put the money together and buy a certificate from a travel agent.
I would treat it like any other wedding and spend what I'm comfortable with. They should not be penalized for not being successful the first time around in my opinion.
Whatever you can afford I suppose.
Don't bother with a present.Go to the do,and eat as much food %26amp; drink as you can!
a present is a gift from your heart....and if you can only afford a congratulations card, that should be accepted
yes it's okay unless the second wedding has better food than the first
The amount spent is beside the point.
It's the thought that counts.
yes
yap its ok
get them a sandwich maker this time. it'll come in handy :)
I agree, it's not like a young couple just starting out. We asked for a £20 donation instead of wedding presents which helped towards the £35 a head meal.When attending a wedding where both parties have been married before is it okay to spend less on the present?
Do they have a wedding gift list. I have known couples who have lived together for years to put a gift list together for their wedding. I even thought my cousin who had been living with his girlfriend for 20 years might be getting married just so they could replace old for new!!
If there is no list and you know them well, why not suggest to them that the guests contribute money towards a honeymoon or even better to a charity of the couples choice.
In terms of how much you spend, this should be at your discretion. Even if they have never been married before.
I think the best solution in this case would be to give them money towards a honeymoon/trip. Get together with friends and put the money together and buy a certificate from a travel agent.
I would treat it like any other wedding and spend what I'm comfortable with. They should not be penalized for not being successful the first time around in my opinion.
Whatever you can afford I suppose.
Don't bother with a present.Go to the do,and eat as much food %26amp; drink as you can!
a present is a gift from your heart....and if you can only afford a congratulations card, that should be accepted
yes it's okay unless the second wedding has better food than the first
The amount spent is beside the point.
It's the thought that counts.
yes
yap its ok
get them a sandwich maker this time. it'll come in handy :)
Can i file my 07 taxes if i havent filed my 06 yet? I m waiting for my 06 in the mail? and if I'm married?
Can i file separately?Can i file my 07 taxes if i havent filed my 06 yet? I m waiting for my 06 in the mail? and if I'm married?
U should get with either your tax person or the IRS.
U probably can file 07 without knowing 06 yet..
But often u can use data off the previous years return as deductables on the next year.
Ie; the cost of doign the return is a deductable.
Since most people get refunds on their returns, it follows that if u file the return by feb of a year you should have it long before apr 15.Can i file my 07 taxes if i havent filed my 06 yet? I m waiting for my 06 in the mail? and if I'm married?
You can file both your returns together!!
See here how you can file your prior year taxes and your current year -
http://www.qcktax.com/file_prior_year_ta鈥?/a>
You file the years in either order.
Yes, you can choose to file separately.
You can file your 2007 tax return before filing your 2006 but if you are due a refund for the 2007 tax return IRS will hold the refund until your 2006 is received and processed. After you have filed you 2007 return IRS will send you a letter telling you they are holding the refund and will let you know that 2006 (and any other years from 2001 to 2006) has not been filed and the refund is on hold, IRS holds the check in case you owe they can offset to the balance owed.
IF IRS does hold your refund there will be a different address you must mail you 2006 return.
U should get with either your tax person or the IRS.
U probably can file 07 without knowing 06 yet..
But often u can use data off the previous years return as deductables on the next year.
Ie; the cost of doign the return is a deductable.
Since most people get refunds on their returns, it follows that if u file the return by feb of a year you should have it long before apr 15.Can i file my 07 taxes if i havent filed my 06 yet? I m waiting for my 06 in the mail? and if I'm married?
You can file both your returns together!!
See here how you can file your prior year taxes and your current year -
http://www.qcktax.com/file_prior_year_ta鈥?/a>
You file the years in either order.
Yes, you can choose to file separately.
You can file your 2007 tax return before filing your 2006 but if you are due a refund for the 2007 tax return IRS will hold the refund until your 2006 is received and processed. After you have filed you 2007 return IRS will send you a letter telling you they are holding the refund and will let you know that 2006 (and any other years from 2001 to 2006) has not been filed and the refund is on hold, IRS holds the check in case you owe they can offset to the balance owed.
IF IRS does hold your refund there will be a different address you must mail you 2006 return.
Do the Liberal Elites really want gays to be married, or will that hurt their platform?
If gays could get married, and if abortions where resolved.
Wouldn't that cripple Liberal platform and hurt their voters base? Since it would be resolved and they can't use it as a crutch to get votes.
I wonder this because Obama isn't doing anything for the gay community. Neither is Hillary Clinton. They kind of just forget about it.
Plus Liberal states keep rejecting gay marriage. Like California and Maine.
They don't want it to pass. They'll lose a ';political issue'; that they easily have.Do the Liberal Elites really want gays to be married, or will that hurt their platform?
Yes, I want gay people to have rights. christian supremacists dehumanizing people based on bronze age fairy tales makes me sick, just like you.Do the Liberal Elites really want gays to be married, or will that hurt their platform?
The truth is that nobody really cares much about the gays except for the Republicans.
Republicans love to talk about the gays and seem to have a habit of voting them into office more than the Dems do.
If a gay wanted to get ahead he should get into Republican politics like so many of them do.
They are so fragmented now... that if the GOP actually became a responsible fiscally Conservative party, then many would move over. May I remind everyone that 40% of the PORK in the spendulus bill was Conservative.
because some liberals actually can have good morals, but not usually. i live in california and i think it was that because the court overruled our vote which angered more people into saying yes on 8, which banned gay marriage.
They are using the issue for two reasons . One , to break down the family culture and two to create division among the people .
No because if it were legalized conservatives would continuously try to get it overturned, like abortion.
Did the eventual Abolition of Slavery hurt the Republican platform, because Abolitionists had founded the Republican party? If Republicans can find new planks to build a platform, then so can the Democrats.
It would make me really happy. A secular government and equal rights! =)
why, it would be so damn un-PC to be against *gay marriage and similar issues! Hell, yes, it would hurt their platform.
No it would be OK.
Humans tend to view their adversaries (and other groups in general) as more homogeneous than they are. Liberals consist of a wide variety of groups who want the government to take action on their behalf; some care a lot about homosexual marriage (and make a lot of noise about it), some don't.
In California, if I remember correctly, ';civil unions'; were and are already legally recognized, giving many or all of the legal rights of marriage. The fight there was largely about what to call it.
This issue and homosexuals voting for Democrats remind me of the old joke about the two guys confronted with an angry bear. One guy (the Democrat?) immediately reached down to put on his tennis shoes. His friend asked him, ';You don't seriously think you can outrun a bear?'; The response: ';I don't have to be faster than the bear. I just have to be faster than you!';
Has nothing to do with a platform, just freedom for people to live their lives with the same freedoms as I have.
I have no problem with gay people getting married.
Demographics say that this will happen because the redneck ways of the US are dying out with the generational shift. Thank god.
Wouldn't that cripple Liberal platform and hurt their voters base? Since it would be resolved and they can't use it as a crutch to get votes.
I wonder this because Obama isn't doing anything for the gay community. Neither is Hillary Clinton. They kind of just forget about it.
Plus Liberal states keep rejecting gay marriage. Like California and Maine.
They don't want it to pass. They'll lose a ';political issue'; that they easily have.Do the Liberal Elites really want gays to be married, or will that hurt their platform?
Yes, I want gay people to have rights. christian supremacists dehumanizing people based on bronze age fairy tales makes me sick, just like you.Do the Liberal Elites really want gays to be married, or will that hurt their platform?
The truth is that nobody really cares much about the gays except for the Republicans.
Republicans love to talk about the gays and seem to have a habit of voting them into office more than the Dems do.
If a gay wanted to get ahead he should get into Republican politics like so many of them do.
They are so fragmented now... that if the GOP actually became a responsible fiscally Conservative party, then many would move over. May I remind everyone that 40% of the PORK in the spendulus bill was Conservative.
because some liberals actually can have good morals, but not usually. i live in california and i think it was that because the court overruled our vote which angered more people into saying yes on 8, which banned gay marriage.
They are using the issue for two reasons . One , to break down the family culture and two to create division among the people .
No because if it were legalized conservatives would continuously try to get it overturned, like abortion.
Did the eventual Abolition of Slavery hurt the Republican platform, because Abolitionists had founded the Republican party? If Republicans can find new planks to build a platform, then so can the Democrats.
It would make me really happy. A secular government and equal rights! =)
why, it would be so damn un-PC to be against *gay marriage and similar issues! Hell, yes, it would hurt their platform.
No it would be OK.
Humans tend to view their adversaries (and other groups in general) as more homogeneous than they are. Liberals consist of a wide variety of groups who want the government to take action on their behalf; some care a lot about homosexual marriage (and make a lot of noise about it), some don't.
In California, if I remember correctly, ';civil unions'; were and are already legally recognized, giving many or all of the legal rights of marriage. The fight there was largely about what to call it.
This issue and homosexuals voting for Democrats remind me of the old joke about the two guys confronted with an angry bear. One guy (the Democrat?) immediately reached down to put on his tennis shoes. His friend asked him, ';You don't seriously think you can outrun a bear?'; The response: ';I don't have to be faster than the bear. I just have to be faster than you!';
Has nothing to do with a platform, just freedom for people to live their lives with the same freedoms as I have.
I have no problem with gay people getting married.
Demographics say that this will happen because the redneck ways of the US are dying out with the generational shift. Thank god.
I am getting married and want ideas since I am not hiring a coordinator. ?
I want to know how to set up the tables and if there are any websites of table arrangements out there when I look I find nothing. I want the table number holders and also want something unique as a favor but not something ppl will throw away. HELP!I am getting married and want ideas since I am not hiring a coordinator. ?
Okay I just got married July 12, 2008 and I did not have a wedding coordinator and I do not regret it at all however,
1) I agree theknot.com really helpful- they have some cute ideas there but are rather expensive, if you are on a tight budget try orientaltrading.com. they have a GREAT weeding section. I got a lot of stuff there.
2) You don't need a wedding coordinator. EXPENSIVE!!! However I would recommend recuriting some of your friends NOT in the wedding party to help. I had two friends that helped me with everything, they knew going in they would be constantly on the move. I would have never gotten it done with out them.
3) As for a favor that someone would not through away I would suggest a candle or picture frame of some sort. -
We did candy- There was a hug, a promise and kiss in a small box, the outside a tag that said ';Sweet Bliss begins with a hug, a promise and kiss.'; everyone loved them.
4) Table set up try bridal magazines. - also trying typing into yahoo search ';pictures of wedding tables'; I came up with a lot of pictures when I did so.
This was they way I found my cake too, type in ';pictures of wedding cakes';
Good luckI am getting married and want ideas since I am not hiring a coordinator. ?
IM TELLING YOU HIRE A COORDIANTOR.
it will be so worth it .
don't you want you wedding to be memorable.
you will have sooooo much work so do.
do yourself a favor %26amp; dont be cheap.
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-plann鈥?/a>
Theknot.com
So helpful!
Congrats! :D
Here is a great website. Check it out if you want to: http://weddingkits.org/, http://beautykits.org/
You need TheKnot.com
Okay I just got married July 12, 2008 and I did not have a wedding coordinator and I do not regret it at all however,
1) I agree theknot.com really helpful- they have some cute ideas there but are rather expensive, if you are on a tight budget try orientaltrading.com. they have a GREAT weeding section. I got a lot of stuff there.
2) You don't need a wedding coordinator. EXPENSIVE!!! However I would recommend recuriting some of your friends NOT in the wedding party to help. I had two friends that helped me with everything, they knew going in they would be constantly on the move. I would have never gotten it done with out them.
3) As for a favor that someone would not through away I would suggest a candle or picture frame of some sort. -
We did candy- There was a hug, a promise and kiss in a small box, the outside a tag that said ';Sweet Bliss begins with a hug, a promise and kiss.'; everyone loved them.
4) Table set up try bridal magazines. - also trying typing into yahoo search ';pictures of wedding tables'; I came up with a lot of pictures when I did so.
This was they way I found my cake too, type in ';pictures of wedding cakes';
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What's my child's citizenship if Im greencard holder married to a citizen & want to give birth to Philippines?
I'm pregnant and have no health insurance so I'm planning to give birth in th Philippines. I'm married to a citizen but I'm not sure what will be my child's citizenship because I'm just a green card holder?What's my child's citizenship if Im greencard holder married to a citizen %26amp; want to give birth to Philippines?
As long as you register the birth with the US embassy in Manila you will have no problem.
You'll need.
1. The child's birth certificate from the National Records Office in Manila.
2. A certified true copy of your marriage certificate.
3. Proof of your husband's American citizenship.
4. Your Green Card, airline tickets and passport showing the date you arrived in the Philippines.
File the Report of Birth Abroad form and pay a fee. In about two weeks the US embassy will issue a passport and social security card for the baby.
You'll need to take the baby's new American passport and birth certificate to Philippines Immigration. They will put an arrival stamp on the passport so that the baby can legally leave the country.What's my child's citizenship if Im greencard holder married to a citizen %26amp; want to give birth to Philippines?
your kid is America due to the fact his or her father is American Citizen!!!
good luck
Americans Born Overseas
The birth of a child abroad to U.S. citizen parent(s) should be reported as soon as possible to the nearest American consular office for the purpose of establishing an official record of the child鈥檚 claim to U.S. citizenship at birth. The official record is in the form of a Consular Report of Birth Abroad of a Citizen of the United States of America. This document, referred to as the Consular Report of Birth or FS-240, is considered a basic United States citizenship document. An original FS-240 is furnished to the parent(s) at the time the registration is approved.
If the father is an American Citizen you can apply for Citizenship for your son that way (after hes born). If the Philippines have ';birth Citizenship'; then your son is automatically considerd a philippino, when he gets his US citizenship (not hard to get as you and your husband are Americans, it should be almost instant.), he will become a dual citizen. Very good to have!
As your baby has a citizen father, it will most probably be a dual American-Filipino citizen. :-)
He can become US citizen.
In most countries.. the childs citizenship is based on where the child is born NOT the citizenship of the parents. This is why so many illegals come to the US to have their babies.. because then the babies can be born here, be US citizens and get benefits form Food Stamps to Welfare!
1) Your greencard holder status is irrelevant for the child's US citizenship. If it is born in US territory it is a US citizen, if it is not, you will not pass it any status.
2) Assuming that, (A) the ';citizen'; you are married to is a US citizen AND he is the father or registers the child as his, then there are conditions for him to pass the US citizenship to the child.
2.1) If the father (or mother) was born in US territory, they can pass on the citizenship to the non US territory born child, but this process should be done as soon as possible.
2.2) If the father's (or mother's) citizenship was not gained by birthplace but by bloodline (one or both of his/hers parents was US citizen, for example), then, he (or she) must of have lived for at least 5 non consecutive years in the US.
(You might want to check these facts, but they were passed to me by a friend who is in the exact same situation as described in 2.2)
PS: Congratulations on the baby.
OMG no have the child in the US and then it is an American citizen. He/she wont need to become a citizen they will be a citizen as their father is a citizen and child born in the US.
Your child will have Filipino citizenship since it was born in the Philippines.
It used to be a CONSALER REPORT BIRTH ABROAD OF A CITIZEN OF THE UNITED STATES.Your child is automacially a citezen by birth.
Your child will be a US. citzen. don't care where the child was or is born, his father is a US. citzen so If the child were born in the Philippines he or she is a Douala citizenship so you can apply for a US pass port for the child.cosmetics products
As long as you register the birth with the US embassy in Manila you will have no problem.
You'll need.
1. The child's birth certificate from the National Records Office in Manila.
2. A certified true copy of your marriage certificate.
3. Proof of your husband's American citizenship.
4. Your Green Card, airline tickets and passport showing the date you arrived in the Philippines.
File the Report of Birth Abroad form and pay a fee. In about two weeks the US embassy will issue a passport and social security card for the baby.
You'll need to take the baby's new American passport and birth certificate to Philippines Immigration. They will put an arrival stamp on the passport so that the baby can legally leave the country.What's my child's citizenship if Im greencard holder married to a citizen %26amp; want to give birth to Philippines?
your kid is America due to the fact his or her father is American Citizen!!!
good luck
Americans Born Overseas
The birth of a child abroad to U.S. citizen parent(s) should be reported as soon as possible to the nearest American consular office for the purpose of establishing an official record of the child鈥檚 claim to U.S. citizenship at birth. The official record is in the form of a Consular Report of Birth Abroad of a Citizen of the United States of America. This document, referred to as the Consular Report of Birth or FS-240, is considered a basic United States citizenship document. An original FS-240 is furnished to the parent(s) at the time the registration is approved.
If the father is an American Citizen you can apply for Citizenship for your son that way (after hes born). If the Philippines have ';birth Citizenship'; then your son is automatically considerd a philippino, when he gets his US citizenship (not hard to get as you and your husband are Americans, it should be almost instant.), he will become a dual citizen. Very good to have!
As your baby has a citizen father, it will most probably be a dual American-Filipino citizen. :-)
He can become US citizen.
In most countries.. the childs citizenship is based on where the child is born NOT the citizenship of the parents. This is why so many illegals come to the US to have their babies.. because then the babies can be born here, be US citizens and get benefits form Food Stamps to Welfare!
1) Your greencard holder status is irrelevant for the child's US citizenship. If it is born in US territory it is a US citizen, if it is not, you will not pass it any status.
2) Assuming that, (A) the ';citizen'; you are married to is a US citizen AND he is the father or registers the child as his, then there are conditions for him to pass the US citizenship to the child.
2.1) If the father (or mother) was born in US territory, they can pass on the citizenship to the non US territory born child, but this process should be done as soon as possible.
2.2) If the father's (or mother's) citizenship was not gained by birthplace but by bloodline (one or both of his/hers parents was US citizen, for example), then, he (or she) must of have lived for at least 5 non consecutive years in the US.
(You might want to check these facts, but they were passed to me by a friend who is in the exact same situation as described in 2.2)
PS: Congratulations on the baby.
OMG no have the child in the US and then it is an American citizen. He/she wont need to become a citizen they will be a citizen as their father is a citizen and child born in the US.
Your child will have Filipino citizenship since it was born in the Philippines.
It used to be a CONSALER REPORT BIRTH ABROAD OF A CITIZEN OF THE UNITED STATES.Your child is automacially a citezen by birth.
Your child will be a US. citzen. don't care where the child was or is born, his father is a US. citzen so If the child were born in the Philippines he or she is a Douala citizenship so you can apply for a US pass port for the child.
I just got married and my landlord won't add him to my lease what can i have done about this? I live in wv
I have lived here for 2 years, and my ex used to live here but he moved out, my husband has a clean background history and good credit. I think their just being pricks about it but is there any law that can protect us here? We're married and we'd like to live together.I just got married and my landlord won't add him to my lease what can i have done about this? I live in wv
Yes...if you are married, then he doesn't need to be on the lease at all if you credit qualify alone.
The landlord cannot legally bar him from staying there without a LEGAL reason for doing so and you have the right to have your husband to live with you.
You gave the opportunity to the landlord to put your husband on the lease and if the landlord refuses to that is HIS PROBLEM....not yours.I just got married and my landlord won't add him to my lease what can i have done about this? I live in wv
when u are married , u do not have to add him to lease in any state NOR can ur 'landlord' bar husband from the premises.
should they continue to be hassle visit local legal aid society.
seek legal advice.
Yes...if you are married, then he doesn't need to be on the lease at all if you credit qualify alone.
The landlord cannot legally bar him from staying there without a LEGAL reason for doing so and you have the right to have your husband to live with you.
You gave the opportunity to the landlord to put your husband on the lease and if the landlord refuses to that is HIS PROBLEM....not yours.I just got married and my landlord won't add him to my lease what can i have done about this? I live in wv
when u are married , u do not have to add him to lease in any state NOR can ur 'landlord' bar husband from the premises.
should they continue to be hassle visit local legal aid society.
seek legal advice.
Advice on love life, as deadly in love with a married man?
I am love with a married Man, He does the same to me as well. I am dying to marry him without hurting or disturbing anyone's life, Please find me a way. Advice on love life, as deadly in love with a married man?
Someone WILL be hurt. My guess is...it will be you. The person who falls in love with another while married does not know what love is and will most likely never be true to anyone.Advice on love life, as deadly in love with a married man?
Basically there are two types of people and two types of romantic love (although type two has a variation for most types of platonic relationships also. You see it often with mothers toward their children.)
Love type one: Eros love
- This is what they are talking about when you read about the love chemical. It has a huge effect on this stage of love. This is the love Jack and Rose had for each other in Titanic. You feel it in the beginning of a relationship. You are completely obsessed with the other person. Passion and fire is rampant. You rarely think of other things. You tell people you are in love. They can do no wrong in your eyes. It is exciting. You feel completely desired, wanted, and worthwhile. This love has an expiration date. It wears off. You start to see their flaws. It gets old. I've heard this can last up to about three years. Some people let the ';love'; go, saying it has become boring and they don't feel the same way. Often this is for the best, but sometimes they let go because of immaturity and look for the next best thing, the next high. This first stage of love has to happen to get to the next one. I'm sort of glad it expires, because you wouldn't be very productive or balanced if you were completely obsessed with a person forever.
Love type two: Agape love (agape is an old greek word for ';love feast'; and I've often heard it adopted in this culture to describe this second type of love)
- If you are lucky, you go into this second stage. This is commitment love. It is characterised by unconditional positive regard, patience, and self-sacrifice. There are ups and downs, but you stick with it bc you realize that real love isn't a feeling, it's actions, loyalty, and grace. This takes maturity and you generally have to have developed a real friendship with the person that will whether the ebb and flow of emotions. Sometimes the fire re-surfaces on special occasions, but it's not as all-consuming or long-lasting and brainless as eros was. This is what the 80 year olds celebrating their 60th anniversary have. This love protects the other's heart and shows love with actions even when they don't FEEL love for the other. Obviously, it seems like this is rare, and it is pretty rare. It requires unselfishness and for people to lay down their pride from time to time. That also takes intelligence. But it happens. They may not always be perfect to each other, but by and large, they go the distance because the majority of the time spent together is this kind of eternal love. You just have to realize that in real life, it's not the fantasy people represent it to be. It's work, it's family. It's not everlasting eros. There is more of a choice, and I think this means more. If it's easy to love and treat you right, you should expect it. If it's a constant effort that reaps sweet rewards, it means a lot.
Love is patient, Love is kind,
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud, It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
L o v e N e v e r F a i l s.
Two types of people: people capable of agape, and people who aren't.
No matter how you play this, you will disturb someone's life and hurt someone. It's just the way it's going to be.
I don't know you guys or your situation, but I can say for dang sure, unless you are positive it's the second type of love between BOTH of you, it's not going to be worth it.
If you married him, he'd cheat on you too. Walk away.
get over it and find someone that's not married.
Someone WILL be hurt. My guess is...it will be you. The person who falls in love with another while married does not know what love is and will most likely never be true to anyone.Advice on love life, as deadly in love with a married man?
Basically there are two types of people and two types of romantic love (although type two has a variation for most types of platonic relationships also. You see it often with mothers toward their children.)
Love type one: Eros love
- This is what they are talking about when you read about the love chemical. It has a huge effect on this stage of love. This is the love Jack and Rose had for each other in Titanic. You feel it in the beginning of a relationship. You are completely obsessed with the other person. Passion and fire is rampant. You rarely think of other things. You tell people you are in love. They can do no wrong in your eyes. It is exciting. You feel completely desired, wanted, and worthwhile. This love has an expiration date. It wears off. You start to see their flaws. It gets old. I've heard this can last up to about three years. Some people let the ';love'; go, saying it has become boring and they don't feel the same way. Often this is for the best, but sometimes they let go because of immaturity and look for the next best thing, the next high. This first stage of love has to happen to get to the next one. I'm sort of glad it expires, because you wouldn't be very productive or balanced if you were completely obsessed with a person forever.
Love type two: Agape love (agape is an old greek word for ';love feast'; and I've often heard it adopted in this culture to describe this second type of love)
- If you are lucky, you go into this second stage. This is commitment love. It is characterised by unconditional positive regard, patience, and self-sacrifice. There are ups and downs, but you stick with it bc you realize that real love isn't a feeling, it's actions, loyalty, and grace. This takes maturity and you generally have to have developed a real friendship with the person that will whether the ebb and flow of emotions. Sometimes the fire re-surfaces on special occasions, but it's not as all-consuming or long-lasting and brainless as eros was. This is what the 80 year olds celebrating their 60th anniversary have. This love protects the other's heart and shows love with actions even when they don't FEEL love for the other. Obviously, it seems like this is rare, and it is pretty rare. It requires unselfishness and for people to lay down their pride from time to time. That also takes intelligence. But it happens. They may not always be perfect to each other, but by and large, they go the distance because the majority of the time spent together is this kind of eternal love. You just have to realize that in real life, it's not the fantasy people represent it to be. It's work, it's family. It's not everlasting eros. There is more of a choice, and I think this means more. If it's easy to love and treat you right, you should expect it. If it's a constant effort that reaps sweet rewards, it means a lot.
Love is patient, Love is kind,
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud, It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
L o v e N e v e r F a i l s.
Two types of people: people capable of agape, and people who aren't.
No matter how you play this, you will disturb someone's life and hurt someone. It's just the way it's going to be.
I don't know you guys or your situation, but I can say for dang sure, unless you are positive it's the second type of love between BOTH of you, it's not going to be worth it.
If you married him, he'd cheat on you too. Walk away.
get over it and find someone that's not married.
If you are married and have sex w/ a prostitute is worse then cheating and having a real relationship?
If your husband or wife was going to cheat on you would you prefer it to be a quickie with a prostitute or a real affair. Is one worse then another or are both equally as bad.
some men believe it is not cheating if there is no ongoing relationship going on do you agree?If you are married and have sex w/ a prostitute is worse then cheating and having a real relationship?
I think the STD risk is comparable to the emotional side of a relationship-affair so yesIf you are married and have sex w/ a prostitute is worse then cheating and having a real relationship?
You are really feeling controversial today...Aren't you JR?
Having sex with anyone other than your spouse is infidelity. Even a prostitute is a real human being. Cheating is cheating. Any time you have an interaction with a member of the opposite sex that disrespects your marriage, you are at least on the road to cheating.
Just love, honor and respect your spouses and your marriage vows. Everyone has feelings of guilt when they know they are doing something wrong. Listen to your heart and do the right things.
My ex-husband did both. He had affairs with 'girlfriends' and he hired escorts as well. Both kinds of cheating hurt a lot but to be honest it hurt me much more when he was cheating with someone he had a 'relationship' with.
I don't care if he believed it was cheating or not. He's not my problem anymore.
Both are equally as bad. And having sex with a prostitute hightens the chance of STDs occurring. Both are cheating, both are wrong. Relationship or not, once you've had sex with someone other than your wife or husband, it's cheating.
Sex with prostitute is worse. It is 2 morally repugnant things, infidelity and paying a hooker.
Infidelity on its own is not so bad but if you pay for it, its worse.
Well if it is legal (as it is in Vegas and Belgium) then clearly it is not cheating. It is clearly just a business transaction.
None of the above. Having sex with someone other than your spouse is having sex with someone other than your spouse, whether it cost money or lasted only a few minutes. It's all cheating and it's all ';worse';.
I get what you are thinking ';its just sex';, but it is sex with all kinds of disease you can take back to your wife who trusts you.
Don't destroy your family %26amp; future over sex
Sex with a prostitute IS cheating.
And an affair where you're cheating on your partner is NEVER a real relationship.
Cheating is cheating. There is no better or worse. Stick it where it doesn't belong and you've cheated. Sorry!
These are all same .......wat matters if he has it with a prostitute or any girl??
The wife's life is screwed now and she should definitly leave him
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No. It is all infidelity, don't try it unless you want to find your @$$ divorced.
IN FOR A PENNY, IN FOR A POUND.. A FULL BLOWN AFFAIR...
its cheating. but how about a bottle of ky and Rosy palmer
For me cheating is cheating .. doesn't matter if its with a pros or a real affair
Cheating is cheating regardless of whom they do it with. If my spouse cheats on me at all, he's gone. End of story.
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both are bad
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It's just plain stupid!
some men believe it is not cheating if there is no ongoing relationship going on do you agree?If you are married and have sex w/ a prostitute is worse then cheating and having a real relationship?
I think the STD risk is comparable to the emotional side of a relationship-affair so yesIf you are married and have sex w/ a prostitute is worse then cheating and having a real relationship?
You are really feeling controversial today...Aren't you JR?
Having sex with anyone other than your spouse is infidelity. Even a prostitute is a real human being. Cheating is cheating. Any time you have an interaction with a member of the opposite sex that disrespects your marriage, you are at least on the road to cheating.
Just love, honor and respect your spouses and your marriage vows. Everyone has feelings of guilt when they know they are doing something wrong. Listen to your heart and do the right things.
My ex-husband did both. He had affairs with 'girlfriends' and he hired escorts as well. Both kinds of cheating hurt a lot but to be honest it hurt me much more when he was cheating with someone he had a 'relationship' with.
I don't care if he believed it was cheating or not. He's not my problem anymore.
Both are equally as bad. And having sex with a prostitute hightens the chance of STDs occurring. Both are cheating, both are wrong. Relationship or not, once you've had sex with someone other than your wife or husband, it's cheating.
Sex with prostitute is worse. It is 2 morally repugnant things, infidelity and paying a hooker.
Infidelity on its own is not so bad but if you pay for it, its worse.
Well if it is legal (as it is in Vegas and Belgium) then clearly it is not cheating. It is clearly just a business transaction.
None of the above. Having sex with someone other than your spouse is having sex with someone other than your spouse, whether it cost money or lasted only a few minutes. It's all cheating and it's all ';worse';.
I get what you are thinking ';its just sex';, but it is sex with all kinds of disease you can take back to your wife who trusts you.
Don't destroy your family %26amp; future over sex
Sex with a prostitute IS cheating.
And an affair where you're cheating on your partner is NEVER a real relationship.
Cheating is cheating. There is no better or worse. Stick it where it doesn't belong and you've cheated. Sorry!
These are all same .......wat matters if he has it with a prostitute or any girl??
The wife's life is screwed now and she should definitly leave him
Yes!!!!!!
Yes!!!!!!
I Agreee!!!
yes, i am
No. It is all infidelity, don't try it unless you want to find your @$$ divorced.
IN FOR A PENNY, IN FOR A POUND.. A FULL BLOWN AFFAIR...
its cheating. but how about a bottle of ky and Rosy palmer
For me cheating is cheating .. doesn't matter if its with a pros or a real affair
Cheating is cheating regardless of whom they do it with. If my spouse cheats on me at all, he's gone. End of story.
not agree with that
no, i am not agree
no, i am not agree
yes, agree with that
no, i am not agree
not agree with that
both are bad
yes, i agree
no, i am
no, i am
It's just plain stupid!
Im 23 n married 3 months back. Im so afraid of sex.Can anyone tell me what can i do to involve myself in sex?
We tried to have sex for 4-5 times. But each time, it hurted me a lott n not able to proceed further. So now whenever we are about to have sex, im becoming so scared and not getting real mood to involve in it. My husband is kind, gentle and told me that he can wait until im comfortable. Please help me.Im 23 n married 3 months back. Im so afraid of sex.Can anyone tell me what can i do to involve myself in sex?
If these few times are the first few, it make take time for you vaginal area to ';get used'; to having sex. If you were a virgin, then you might still have some ';break in'; period. Try taking a hot bath prior to having sex. Try to use some lube....flavored can be fun. Try to relax, take your time and extend foreplay if possible. If your of age, maybe a glass of wine might help to relax you. It will get easier and more enjoyable the more you do it. If you persist in having difficulties, it may a wise idea to talk to your doctor about the discomfort. Hope this helps...Im 23 n married 3 months back. Im so afraid of sex.Can anyone tell me what can i do to involve myself in sex?
The brain receives less pain messages when relaxed, so maybe you could google ';ways to relax before sex'; I've read in a book before where a man gave a girl a bit of whiskey to relax her. Just make try to relax and make sure your comfortable before you try again because the more tense you are the worse it is. Another way is to make sure that there is enough excitement. The wetter you are the easier it will be. Just think about how pleasurable the sex will be after you get through the temporary pain. I know that there are some vaginal exercises that may minimize the pain.
Good luck :)
I have the same problem, sex is painful for me. Usually its just that your muscles are contracted and you need to learn to control them and relax. Seems to be physiological in most cases. Unfortunately for me I am just small and have had the misfortune of falling for guys who are fairly well endowed, so I just have to do my best. Definitely go to the gyno and talk to them about it. They can probably help.
I think that you should 1rst tell him that you are not comfrortable but then try and get in the mood more like flirt alot just relax my first time i felt weard i am 23 also but i wish you luck 2nd. When you flirt alot he'll flirt back with you and touch alot and that will probably get you in the mood all i can say is try loosen up a bit GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
relax and enjoy the moment.
You might need to see a gybo there is all kinds of reasons that you are having troubles
If these few times are the first few, it make take time for you vaginal area to ';get used'; to having sex. If you were a virgin, then you might still have some ';break in'; period. Try taking a hot bath prior to having sex. Try to use some lube....flavored can be fun. Try to relax, take your time and extend foreplay if possible. If your of age, maybe a glass of wine might help to relax you. It will get easier and more enjoyable the more you do it. If you persist in having difficulties, it may a wise idea to talk to your doctor about the discomfort. Hope this helps...Im 23 n married 3 months back. Im so afraid of sex.Can anyone tell me what can i do to involve myself in sex?
The brain receives less pain messages when relaxed, so maybe you could google ';ways to relax before sex'; I've read in a book before where a man gave a girl a bit of whiskey to relax her. Just make try to relax and make sure your comfortable before you try again because the more tense you are the worse it is. Another way is to make sure that there is enough excitement. The wetter you are the easier it will be. Just think about how pleasurable the sex will be after you get through the temporary pain. I know that there are some vaginal exercises that may minimize the pain.
Good luck :)
I have the same problem, sex is painful for me. Usually its just that your muscles are contracted and you need to learn to control them and relax. Seems to be physiological in most cases. Unfortunately for me I am just small and have had the misfortune of falling for guys who are fairly well endowed, so I just have to do my best. Definitely go to the gyno and talk to them about it. They can probably help.
I think that you should 1rst tell him that you are not comfrortable but then try and get in the mood more like flirt alot just relax my first time i felt weard i am 23 also but i wish you luck 2nd. When you flirt alot he'll flirt back with you and touch alot and that will probably get you in the mood all i can say is try loosen up a bit GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
relax and enjoy the moment.
You might need to see a gybo there is all kinds of reasons that you are having troubles
Can you be married without living with each other?
not to confuse you. I don't mean living away from each other for work or other reasons. But as a choice.Can you be married without living with each other?
Yes. I was married to my first Husband and he ';chose'; not to live with me. We were in the military and I had no ';idea'; that he wasn't going to live with me. We were in Germany when we got married and for the first couple of years he made absolutely no attempt to live with me until I filed for legal separation and made it clear that I was going to divorce him. He was doing his own thing and living in NCO quarters and I was living in the barracks. It went on for almost three years until I reenlisted to go to another base and when he got there I applied for housing and he was either forced to live with me or get a divorce. We finally ended up dirvorced...he had another woman.
Peace, Love %26amp; HappinessCan you be married without living with each other?
You would definitely have a lot of space and personal time. lol.
answer: I would not think so. Marriage is a life 'together' not apart. I think having a room to vacate to will be quite enough. Or just the understanding that sometimes one or the other needs to steel away, it's nothing personal- just for one's own mental well-being. If that's established upfront, there should be no qualms with living together.
What would be the point?
Point of marriage is to share your life and everything with it. If your living apart your being selective about joining your lives. Seems to defeat the purpose of marriage to me. Besides if your married legally you share all obligations... what would be the point of having them divided?
Actually it sounds very much like a couple that got married because one got paid and one got a green card.
There is no law stopping you, only you.
So if the other person agrees to it i don't see why not.
But if you don't have any plans of moving in with them in the future, I think it would be a waste of time/money getting married. I would just keep it to dating.
Yes you can. But it would be best to be single since you are living like single people anyway. It would not work out in my opinion. Why would you want to be married but seperated?
this would, I guarantee, be a divorce proof marriage.
not living together would ensure that everyone would be happy.
great idea.
Yes. It happens.
Do an internet search. I can't remember what they call it (married living apart?) but I've read some blogs and articles about it recently.
Why getting married when you wanna leave away from each other by choice. It wont work.
Of course you could but the marriage probably wouldnt work out very long.
It used to be the way it worked, but now the sequence has been changed.
Yes. Some do this. I think MOST people are not well suited for this - but a few are.
That is a choice I would love to make....
Uh ok.
yep
i am in the states
he decided to go to germany
not working out though
Yes. I was married to my first Husband and he ';chose'; not to live with me. We were in the military and I had no ';idea'; that he wasn't going to live with me. We were in Germany when we got married and for the first couple of years he made absolutely no attempt to live with me until I filed for legal separation and made it clear that I was going to divorce him. He was doing his own thing and living in NCO quarters and I was living in the barracks. It went on for almost three years until I reenlisted to go to another base and when he got there I applied for housing and he was either forced to live with me or get a divorce. We finally ended up dirvorced...he had another woman.
Peace, Love %26amp; HappinessCan you be married without living with each other?
You would definitely have a lot of space and personal time. lol.
answer: I would not think so. Marriage is a life 'together' not apart. I think having a room to vacate to will be quite enough. Or just the understanding that sometimes one or the other needs to steel away, it's nothing personal- just for one's own mental well-being. If that's established upfront, there should be no qualms with living together.
What would be the point?
Point of marriage is to share your life and everything with it. If your living apart your being selective about joining your lives. Seems to defeat the purpose of marriage to me. Besides if your married legally you share all obligations... what would be the point of having them divided?
Actually it sounds very much like a couple that got married because one got paid and one got a green card.
There is no law stopping you, only you.
So if the other person agrees to it i don't see why not.
But if you don't have any plans of moving in with them in the future, I think it would be a waste of time/money getting married. I would just keep it to dating.
Yes you can. But it would be best to be single since you are living like single people anyway. It would not work out in my opinion. Why would you want to be married but seperated?
this would, I guarantee, be a divorce proof marriage.
not living together would ensure that everyone would be happy.
great idea.
Yes. It happens.
Do an internet search. I can't remember what they call it (married living apart?) but I've read some blogs and articles about it recently.
Why getting married when you wanna leave away from each other by choice. It wont work.
Of course you could but the marriage probably wouldnt work out very long.
It used to be the way it worked, but now the sequence has been changed.
Yes. Some do this. I think MOST people are not well suited for this - but a few are.
That is a choice I would love to make....
Uh ok.
yep
i am in the states
he decided to go to germany
not working out though
Police Background: When i was 19 i slept with a married woman. I quit my job to move on to become a new person?
I don't have anything bad on my record, except for ONE speeding ticket 2 and a half years ago. The married girl thing was at my first job. I was young, and dumb. People found out and gossipped about it because it was obvious. I plan on disclosing this in my police background investigation packet. Should I disclose it to the interviewer when he asks me if there's anything else? If i disclose it will it be ok? Thanks.Police Background: When i was 19 i slept with a married woman. I quit my job to move on to become a new person?
When it comes to things like that, that are unethical but not illegal I'd hold off on telling anyone. Those things have no bearing on you getting hired, unless you want to be a bodyguard for the Pope (JK!). Take it easy, and communicate all your concerns to your background investigators.
Good luck!Police Background: When i was 19 i slept with a married woman. I quit my job to move on to become a new person?
If there is a question that applies to that answer it honestly, however, I can't think of any question in a background that would even ask that.
That isn't illegal so... I don't see what the problem is...cosmetics products
When it comes to things like that, that are unethical but not illegal I'd hold off on telling anyone. Those things have no bearing on you getting hired, unless you want to be a bodyguard for the Pope (JK!). Take it easy, and communicate all your concerns to your background investigators.
Good luck!Police Background: When i was 19 i slept with a married woman. I quit my job to move on to become a new person?
If there is a question that applies to that answer it honestly, however, I can't think of any question in a background that would even ask that.
That isn't illegal so... I don't see what the problem is...
I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
Now he came with the different idea that he nees to have a baby with out getting married.His main reason to said that he doesn't have money to do any cermony.I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
RUN!I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
girl 5 yrs is too long to be ';shacking up'; with someone especially if he is showing no initiative to make you his wife. However, if you never told him you expect to be married one day at the beginning of the relationship you can't expect him to jump up and ';put a ring on it'; now. Women have to demand what they expect from men at the beginning of the relationship. If you moved in with him and were cool with the living arrangement and have been doing so for five years, he'll never understand why all of a sudden you want to be married now? Like my mom says, ';Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'; You should re-evaluate where your relationship is going with this guy. if he hasn't progressed in the five years you two have been together and if he is seriously not thinking of tying the knot then you may need to move on or else 5yrs will turn into 10yrs and then you'll be too old and have invested too much into him to find someone who would truly want to marry you and make you their wife. Oh yeah, and most definitely don't have a baby for him...if he can't value you enough to make you his wife he surely doesn't deserve to have you carrying his seed for nine months!!!!!
Please don't have a child with him, it doesn't make any sense that he would want to have a child and not be married. At this point you need to decide what you want because marriage may not be an option with this man, obviously he's not interested in it. You don't have to have a big extravagant wedding to get married which I'm sure you know. I think the question that you should be asking is whether you are going to continue to be with this man knowing he has no intentions of marrying you.
Getting married would cost less than having a baby. If he doesn't want to get married, then I would go my way and he could go his, because if you did have a baby, that will be his excuse to leave. He will tell everyone that you where trying to trap him into getting married. It isn't fair to bring a child into this world and not have both parents there to raise them. Have him leave and make up his mind what he wants, and you make up your mind that you will not live with someone without the marriage license.
He doesn't have money for a ceremony, but he has money for a baby??? COME ON. You have every right to want to marry the person you've been living with for half a decade. If he ignores you when you ask him about something as important as marriage, then I'm wondering if he's worth spending another 5 years with. Whatever you do, DO NOT have a baby with this guy. Take some time to really think about where you want your relationship to go and what YOU want for yourself. Good Luck....
I have also been with my partner 5 years and we have children together already and we aren't married.
We choose to be unmarried as we are happy the way we are and would change it.
Don't pressure him about getting married its not everything. Just be happy!
if marriage is what you want and you cant remain satisfied with the status quo, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS PERSON. he has no intentions of marrying you. real love doesnt require a big ceremony. but he knows this. and so do you.
I hope you're not gonna fall for this. If he wants you to have his child, he should be more than happy to have you as his wife!
maybe hes not ready to get married yet but if u been wit him for 5 years them maybe u should talk to him about why hes ignoring the idea of getting married.
That's BS and you know it. And to bring a child into the picture is wrong. Break up with him now.
well it take 18 yrs of support for a kid so i would get married any day before i have a baby
What a crock of bull crap.
if you don't have money for marraige how does he have money for a child?
RUN!
he`s full of ****....your in trouble if you have a baby by him.
RUN!I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
girl 5 yrs is too long to be ';shacking up'; with someone especially if he is showing no initiative to make you his wife. However, if you never told him you expect to be married one day at the beginning of the relationship you can't expect him to jump up and ';put a ring on it'; now. Women have to demand what they expect from men at the beginning of the relationship. If you moved in with him and were cool with the living arrangement and have been doing so for five years, he'll never understand why all of a sudden you want to be married now? Like my mom says, ';Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'; You should re-evaluate where your relationship is going with this guy. if he hasn't progressed in the five years you two have been together and if he is seriously not thinking of tying the knot then you may need to move on or else 5yrs will turn into 10yrs and then you'll be too old and have invested too much into him to find someone who would truly want to marry you and make you their wife. Oh yeah, and most definitely don't have a baby for him...if he can't value you enough to make you his wife he surely doesn't deserve to have you carrying his seed for nine months!!!!!
Please don't have a child with him, it doesn't make any sense that he would want to have a child and not be married. At this point you need to decide what you want because marriage may not be an option with this man, obviously he's not interested in it. You don't have to have a big extravagant wedding to get married which I'm sure you know. I think the question that you should be asking is whether you are going to continue to be with this man knowing he has no intentions of marrying you.
Getting married would cost less than having a baby. If he doesn't want to get married, then I would go my way and he could go his, because if you did have a baby, that will be his excuse to leave. He will tell everyone that you where trying to trap him into getting married. It isn't fair to bring a child into this world and not have both parents there to raise them. Have him leave and make up his mind what he wants, and you make up your mind that you will not live with someone without the marriage license.
He doesn't have money for a ceremony, but he has money for a baby??? COME ON. You have every right to want to marry the person you've been living with for half a decade. If he ignores you when you ask him about something as important as marriage, then I'm wondering if he's worth spending another 5 years with. Whatever you do, DO NOT have a baby with this guy. Take some time to really think about where you want your relationship to go and what YOU want for yourself. Good Luck....
I have also been with my partner 5 years and we have children together already and we aren't married.
We choose to be unmarried as we are happy the way we are and would change it.
Don't pressure him about getting married its not everything. Just be happy!
if marriage is what you want and you cant remain satisfied with the status quo, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS PERSON. he has no intentions of marrying you. real love doesnt require a big ceremony. but he knows this. and so do you.
I hope you're not gonna fall for this. If he wants you to have his child, he should be more than happy to have you as his wife!
maybe hes not ready to get married yet but if u been wit him for 5 years them maybe u should talk to him about why hes ignoring the idea of getting married.
That's BS and you know it. And to bring a child into the picture is wrong. Break up with him now.
well it take 18 yrs of support for a kid so i would get married any day before i have a baby
What a crock of bull crap.
if you don't have money for marraige how does he have money for a child?
RUN!
he`s full of ****....your in trouble if you have a baby by him.
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