When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?

says that he does not want to sleep with you yet, he wants things to happen naturally, what does that mean?


Could it be that if he has sex with me he is scared that I would expect more from him than he is willing to give?When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
it means that he doesn't have the cojones to break it off with his wife and he wants to string you along.When a married man has an emotional affair with you but?
I have a suggestion...do not have relationships with married men. one day when you are married you will know exactly where I and every other married person answering your question is coming from.





Its cheap and disgusting.





He wont have sex with you because he IS NOT GOING TO leave his wife for you. He has no intention on turning your relationship into something that would definitely be a deal breaker with his wife. And IF or when he does have sex with you he still wont leave his wife. Most married men have no intentions on leaving their wives.





Is he really a quality person that you would want to be with if he is ';cheating on his wife emotionally'; with the option to physically cheat? seriously....Havent you ever heard the line- If he does it with you, he'll do it TO YOU.





Run away and find yourself a nice single man.
1. He wants to string you along until he decides if he is really going to cheat on his wife.


2. He already has another adulteress in the wings and maybe she isn't working out and he's trying to replace her with you.


3. He has never cheated on his wife, and his morals and his flesh are warring.


4. He really likes you and may not be feeling the same with his wife, for whatever reason, and he hasn't decided whether he is willing to ruin what he has at home in order to pursue what the two of you may have. To him, it may turn out to be a great relationship, or it could bomb, and he'll regret leaving his wife only to end up alone again. Which is why he got married in the first place, so he wouldn't be alone anymore.





5. He may have children and are considering their lives if this thing blows up in his face.


6. He has to make sure that if he does decide to keep you as his ';Sideline Girl';, that you won't walk up to his wife and rat him out. Since, now, he has no plans of leaving her for you.











It can't end well, and if you get involved with this man, and I suggest you don't, you should keep a stable head and remember this: If he doesn't leave her for you, then he's telling you, you aren't worthy of all of me.


If he does leave her for you, he's unstable, and he really doesn't know what he wants, and he may do the same to you.
Pam :: This is a simple situation.. Step back from it and really look at it objectively.. Your man is MARRIED!! For whatever reason,,he is not happy in that marriage,,or is wanting to have a fling on the side..When he says he wants things to happen naturally,,he means he's setting the stage to have sex with you,,but wants you to think it will be something ''SPECIAL'; with more than just sex..Like a relationship,,or even marriage..THAT';S so YOU will be comfortable doing whatever he has in mind for you to do with him..Believe me,,this man is going to USE you.. You have NOTHING to gain with this relationship,,no matter how handsome,,endearing,,love-able,,giving,,鈥?adjective you want to attach to him..Your course of action is to RUN not walk away from, this situation..Period!! This is NOT a relationship which can go anywhere without heart break and aggrevation for you.. PLUS,,you will be the one who gets used, abused,and eventually cast off..You are going to hear his wife doesn't understand him..He doesn't love her,,she's using him,,Whatever it takes to convince you he is sincere with YOU.. Right now,,you are not comitted and are in control..Keep it that way.. If you are smart,,you'll tell him you won't date married men..And if he is unmarried you would consider dating him.. Lastly,,think of his wife,,if he is willing to ''Cheat'; on her with YOU,,what makes you think once he has you,,he won't move on to another,,or just use YOU on the side?? Be a smart girl !! There's lots of other fishes in the stream to choose from !! I wish you well !! SCOTTY
what the heck are you doing with a married man... for one yes you can be there for emotional support but for sex.. NO that is just messed up.. I mean he is a married man maybe he just wants someone to talk to that he can't share with his wife.. now if he wants sex then he should be divorced first because that is just wrong .. i mean what would you say if you knew ur husband was doing this behind ur back... u would want anything to happen now would you..
he really might not be sure he wants to end his marriage, and once some men cross that line like my ex did, he wasn't comfortable with what he had done so he moved in with her. because once that line is crossed and they have to go home to the wife, its really hard for some men to even look her in the face. but he's not exactly ready to give u the boot either. so the next time him and his wife really get into it, he will probably want the sex, because some men use the other woman to get out of a marriage, its the cowards way of leaving. he wants to keep a back up just in case things at home go badly because men really don't like being alone. he also doesn't want u to think he pushed u into it,because later on if he doesn't leave her and wants to break it off with u, he doesn't want u to be able to blame him. so the longer he can keep u emotionally attached to him, and interested, the better the chance it will be all your idea. he is probably having trouble in his marriage right now, and is lining up someone for the future.
It means he's not sure if he's ready to get in trouble yet for cheating. It means he's not sure he really wants to give up his wife and family (if he has one) for someone like you. You should not be involved with a MARRIED man! What kind of woman are you? Can't you find your own man? I'm saying this and I'm not a married woman. Have some self respect, common sense and also realize he's just using you.
It simply means that her want to get to know you before he has sex with you. Yes, you are both human beings who connect on different levels, trying to find out if you like each other, if you have similar interests, if you can get along. Yes, it it alikeness that bonds two people and anything else is less than human. Read more about emotional relationships in my source.
My guess is that he has never had a physical affair and is nervous. Take it from me...if it is already emotional it will only get worse when you sleep together. I am in no way judging you, as I did it myself more than once. Chances are, he will never leave her so do yourself a favor and save a LOT of heartache....find someone else.
ok first off he is married back off!


if he is not happy with his woman thats his problem i would not get involved or in the middle ..


you need to just be friends and find someone who is single ..


you don't want to be known as a home wrecker do you?


if he is out of love with his wife tell him he needs to leave her before you go any farther and if he did leave maybe its because he still has love for his wife ...


so he does not want to move so fast and he maybe trying to work things out with his wife behind your back...
easy.








that's guy talk for





';as i continue to cheat on my wife, break my sacred wedding vows, lie to her every second of the day, hide information from her, and sneak off to be with you because I am a spineless douche who can't confront a woman, i am willing to let *you* bring up sex so after i have porked you for a few months and i move on to the next stupid chippy, i can say it was all your idea. until then, i will make you my personal c*m dumpster, because that is all you are good for.';








why - did you think it meant something romantic?
Maybe he's scared he'll ruin what he has with his wife/family and that when she finds out she'll take him for all he's worth... possibly even pull a Lorena Bobbitt. :o)





As for you, have more respect for yourself and find a man who wants to be with you 100%.
He's not sure he wants to damage his marriage any further. He's hesitating because he doesn't want the guilt of an affair if he decides to stay married.





Let him go. He's not good for you and you not good for him.
It means he's not planning on leaving his wife. I've never heard of a guy that is having an affair with you making up an excuse not to sleep with you! That is pretty low, you must feel like trash! Kick this d-bag to the curb!!
It means he is setting you up with the emotional attachment so that when you do have sex you wont tell his wife cuz you wouldn't wanna hurt him or lose him. Hes a cheater, do you really want him?
Some guys think that an emotional affair is not cheating but a physical affair is.





Stay away from starting any kind of relationship with a married man.
You are a home wrecker...find a single guy and stay out of other peoples lives.





Women like you make me ashamed...regain your self respect if you know what that is, if not look in the dictionary.
It means neither of you have any morals or respect for marriage. Have some self respect, find your own man.





Maybe he's scared to catch something from someone who is obviously so easy.
why are you messing around with a married man? Maybe you should try dating people who aren't already in a committed relationship.
Perhaps he is struggling and trying to keep the last thread of his MARRIAGE INTACT and hope you will obtain some morals and DISAPPEAR from his life
How about you just stay away from married men?





And Presto! Problem solved.
You should put yourself in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if your man went and cheated on you?
I think you have his number. But why would you bother, to risk heartache from such a relationship?
Please have mercy on his wife. Get out of there.
Why don't you ask his WIFE!!!
or maybe because he is MARRIED and he doesn't want to cheat on his WIFE!!
He is at least maintaining a degree of integrity!


not a lot, just a bit!


can't you find an unmarried man!?!?!?