Saturday, July 31, 2010

Is there a hadith or any verse of the qu'ran which commands all muslims to get married at a young age?

So as to prevent disatisfaction from lack of sex/relationship?


This is mainly addressed to ppl who feel the pressure of being without both of these. I'm aware there are ppl who can go a long time if not a whole lifetime without sex, but as for the people who can't go so long without sex, should they get married young?Is there a hadith or any verse of the qu'ran which commands all muslims to get married at a young age?
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (20/421):





What is required is to hasten to get married, and no young man or young woman should delay marriage for the sake of studies, because marriage does not prevent any such thing. It is possible for a young man to get married in order to protect his religious commitment and morals, and enable him to lower his gaze. Marriage serves many purposes, especially in this day and age. Because delaying it is harmful for both young women and young men, every young man and every young woman should hasten to get married if there is a man who is compatible with the woman, and if a man can find the right woman.Is there a hadith or any verse of the qu'ran which commands all muslims to get married at a young age?
it is not if you can afford it or not, thats wrong.....


im muslim and people who cant wait to have sex or cant wait to be in a relationship, do it anyways without telling their families, and later on when they do get married they lie. Guys lie easily when it comes to the point of being a virgin or not, and if the girls did lose their virginity they just say they fell off of a bike or something. But getting married while young is great, because you are set for life. You are guranteed to love someone, have a family, etc. (But some arent, it all falls down to who the person is)
not a ';must';, but if there was nothing preventing a man/woman from getting married, I think they should.





The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, ';Oh youth! Whoever of you can get married should get married for it helps in lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity'; (Agreed upon).





The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, ';When a person gets married he has completed half of his religion, so let him fear Allah with regard to the remaining half.'; (authenticated by Al-Albani)





This was recorded by al-Bukhari and Muslim. The Prophet (peace be upon him) also said, ';If one whose religion and character pleases you proposes to you, you should marry him. If you do not do so, them will be tribulations in the land and great evil.';
If he/she can afford it.





Plz see this Question about Muawiyah(RA)





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
getting married at a young age is a ';recommendation'; and not an ';order';.....

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