I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?

Now he came with the different idea that he nees to have a baby with out getting married.His main reason to said that he doesn't have money to do any cermony.I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
RUN!I and my boyfriend have been livining together for 5 years however when i asked him to get married he ignored?
girl 5 yrs is too long to be ';shacking up'; with someone especially if he is showing no initiative to make you his wife. However, if you never told him you expect to be married one day at the beginning of the relationship you can't expect him to jump up and ';put a ring on it'; now. Women have to demand what they expect from men at the beginning of the relationship. If you moved in with him and were cool with the living arrangement and have been doing so for five years, he'll never understand why all of a sudden you want to be married now? Like my mom says, ';Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'; You should re-evaluate where your relationship is going with this guy. if he hasn't progressed in the five years you two have been together and if he is seriously not thinking of tying the knot then you may need to move on or else 5yrs will turn into 10yrs and then you'll be too old and have invested too much into him to find someone who would truly want to marry you and make you their wife. Oh yeah, and most definitely don't have a baby for him...if he can't value you enough to make you his wife he surely doesn't deserve to have you carrying his seed for nine months!!!!!
Please don't have a child with him, it doesn't make any sense that he would want to have a child and not be married. At this point you need to decide what you want because marriage may not be an option with this man, obviously he's not interested in it. You don't have to have a big extravagant wedding to get married which I'm sure you know. I think the question that you should be asking is whether you are going to continue to be with this man knowing he has no intentions of marrying you.
Getting married would cost less than having a baby. If he doesn't want to get married, then I would go my way and he could go his, because if you did have a baby, that will be his excuse to leave. He will tell everyone that you where trying to trap him into getting married. It isn't fair to bring a child into this world and not have both parents there to raise them. Have him leave and make up his mind what he wants, and you make up your mind that you will not live with someone without the marriage license.
He doesn't have money for a ceremony, but he has money for a baby??? COME ON. You have every right to want to marry the person you've been living with for half a decade. If he ignores you when you ask him about something as important as marriage, then I'm wondering if he's worth spending another 5 years with. Whatever you do, DO NOT have a baby with this guy. Take some time to really think about where you want your relationship to go and what YOU want for yourself. Good Luck....
I have also been with my partner 5 years and we have children together already and we aren't married.


We choose to be unmarried as we are happy the way we are and would change it.


Don't pressure him about getting married its not everything. Just be happy!
if marriage is what you want and you cant remain satisfied with the status quo, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS PERSON. he has no intentions of marrying you. real love doesnt require a big ceremony. but he knows this. and so do you.
I hope you're not gonna fall for this. If he wants you to have his child, he should be more than happy to have you as his wife!
maybe hes not ready to get married yet but if u been wit him for 5 years them maybe u should talk to him about why hes ignoring the idea of getting married.
That's BS and you know it. And to bring a child into the picture is wrong. Break up with him now.
well it take 18 yrs of support for a kid so i would get married any day before i have a baby
What a crock of bull crap.





if you don't have money for marraige how does he have money for a child?





RUN!
he`s full of ****....your in trouble if you have a baby by him.