I kind of remember someone once saying that if you date someone for 10 years you automatically become legally married. Is this true? and if it is, does it only apply if you've lived together for 10 years or just dated?If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
Common law marriage differs from state to state.If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
No, you're not automatically married. What they are refering to is if a couple has been together 10 years and living together they can recieve married benefits. Meaning you can file taxes jointly -as if you are married- though you're not married. Also, most insurance companies will let you add your partner on and recieve benefits even though they're not married.
So, after 10 years, and currently living together, I guess you can see as in some legal sence you get married benefits. However, there are some benefits you may not get like visitation at hospitals or perhaps other death benefits if the case arose.
Good luck!
It depends on the State in which you live. There are a lot of States that do not recognize that type of thing. If there are children involved it complicates the legal aspect of things if your pardner dies.Why don't you get married? That the simple and right thing to do.
i'm pretty sure that's only for cohabitation, not just dating. dating would be pretty hard to prove legally anyways, so the living together and having the same address thing would make a lot more sense.
It depends on the state. Not all states recognize common law marriages and the length of time varies from state to state. You'd have to google your state common laws to find out for sure.
Good Luck!
No, you could date someone forever and you would never be considered legally married.
Your not married. Some states have common law marriage.
Sorry to disappoint you but no, you are not....and very few states recognize Common Law marriages, too.
NO
but if you live together you became common law spouse
I think you need to be living together
No.
Check with your state's laws.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
There is no penalty, but the total taxes paid by the two of you may be more than if you filed together.
But it may be worth it if you are married to someone in their own business and you don't know what goes on there. If your spouse hides income from the IRS, you won't be on the hook for it if you did not file a joint return.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
If you're married, you may want to file separately if filing a joint tax return would bump you up to a higher tax bracket and cause you to pay more taxes. For example, if both the husband and wife make $50,000 a year they will pay less in taxes if they file separately. This is because the percentage paid in tax for a person making $50,000 is less than half of what a person making $100,000 will pay because taxes increase as your income increases.
When each partner makes about the same amount of money, usually they are better off filing separately. When one partner makes significantly more than the other, filing jointly is better.
I know this is kind of complicated, and it's difficult to explain. See the attached link for a better explanation.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
Why would you want to??? You pay higher taxes if you file single than if you file married.
There's no penalty, but the additional tax would be brutal.
If they catch you, they get to go back as many as 7 years and audit you.
But it may be worth it if you are married to someone in their own business and you don't know what goes on there. If your spouse hides income from the IRS, you won't be on the hook for it if you did not file a joint return.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
If you're married, you may want to file separately if filing a joint tax return would bump you up to a higher tax bracket and cause you to pay more taxes. For example, if both the husband and wife make $50,000 a year they will pay less in taxes if they file separately. This is because the percentage paid in tax for a person making $50,000 is less than half of what a person making $100,000 will pay because taxes increase as your income increases.
When each partner makes about the same amount of money, usually they are better off filing separately. When one partner makes significantly more than the other, filing jointly is better.
I know this is kind of complicated, and it's difficult to explain. See the attached link for a better explanation.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
Why would you want to??? You pay higher taxes if you file single than if you file married.
There's no penalty, but the additional tax would be brutal.
If they catch you, they get to go back as many as 7 years and audit you.
Who here was married within the last 4 months?
When did you get married? How old were each of you? How are things going now?
I got married almost 4 months ago on July 5th. I was 20, he was 25. He's going to be 26 in December and I'm going to be 21 in May. We've been living as if married for a little over a year and our actual marriage didn't change our relationship and things are going well. I don't really understand people for whom marriage changes things.Who here was married within the last 4 months?
HEY! I was married 2 days after you. July 7th. Almost 4 months for us. We're older than you guys though. I'm 37 %26amp; he's 39. I don't see much change. We had some stress over finances but I think that was just bad timing %26amp; poor economy. If anything I think we're learning how to communicate better.Who here was married within the last 4 months?
I did!
We got Married July 12th, and I was 24, and he was 23 (Since then I have turned 25).
Things are going really well! Marriage has already changed us so much for the better-we are a lot more selfless and so far we've really hit our stride. We were long distance for the last year and a half of our relationship, so it has been so wonderful to just be together! We both work all day, and so we look forward to seeing each other at the end of the day.
Marriage changed our circumstances, because now we live together and whatnot, but those changes have all been only an improvement for our relationship.
I got married June 24th. I am 20 (will be 21 in Feb) and he just turned 22. We've been together for a little over 3 years and living together for about 2 years (shared bank account, everything). The only thing that really changed for us was that he joined the military, but when i go see him its just as good as it ever was!!
We got married June 25th, I was 20,he was 25,we both have birthdays in June. Things are going good,theyd be a lot better if he wasnt in Iraq right now :( But we're doing well considering. Nothing really changed for us either,it really was just a piece of paper.
I got married almost 4 months ago on July 5th. I was 20, he was 25. He's going to be 26 in December and I'm going to be 21 in May. We've been living as if married for a little over a year and our actual marriage didn't change our relationship and things are going well. I don't really understand people for whom marriage changes things.Who here was married within the last 4 months?
HEY! I was married 2 days after you. July 7th. Almost 4 months for us. We're older than you guys though. I'm 37 %26amp; he's 39. I don't see much change. We had some stress over finances but I think that was just bad timing %26amp; poor economy. If anything I think we're learning how to communicate better.Who here was married within the last 4 months?
I did!
We got Married July 12th, and I was 24, and he was 23 (Since then I have turned 25).
Things are going really well! Marriage has already changed us so much for the better-we are a lot more selfless and so far we've really hit our stride. We were long distance for the last year and a half of our relationship, so it has been so wonderful to just be together! We both work all day, and so we look forward to seeing each other at the end of the day.
Marriage changed our circumstances, because now we live together and whatnot, but those changes have all been only an improvement for our relationship.
I got married June 24th. I am 20 (will be 21 in Feb) and he just turned 22. We've been together for a little over 3 years and living together for about 2 years (shared bank account, everything). The only thing that really changed for us was that he joined the military, but when i go see him its just as good as it ever was!!
We got married June 25th, I was 20,he was 25,we both have birthdays in June. Things are going good,theyd be a lot better if he wasnt in Iraq right now :( But we're doing well considering. Nothing really changed for us either,it really was just a piece of paper.
Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
And should i call the producers to set up a sting in this section. A lot of IT goes on here you know!!
Was it called busted or cheaters??Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters..........it was american and they used actors!Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters. It was insane.
The name of the program was Cheaters.cure acne
Was it called busted or cheaters??Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters..........it was american and they used actors!Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters. It was insane.
The name of the program was Cheaters.
Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
I always watch the biggest loser, and i always wondered if Jillian MIchaels and Bob Harper were married, or even dating. Could some one please help me answer this. Thanks!Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
no, they certainly are not.Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
Bob is gay, and my guess is that Jillian is a lesbian.
Bob is Not GAY!!! I read somewhere He is a Mormon and has like 5 kids.
They both prefer members of the same sex so no.
I don't think so since I read somewhere that Bob is Gay
I don't think so. Plus, Bob is kind of gay.
Hell no!! I actually think they are both gay.
I don't think so u know people like 2 keep their lifes private =]
no, they certainly are not.Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
Bob is gay, and my guess is that Jillian is a lesbian.
Bob is Not GAY!!! I read somewhere He is a Mormon and has like 5 kids.
They both prefer members of the same sex so no.
I don't think so since I read somewhere that Bob is Gay
I don't think so. Plus, Bob is kind of gay.
Hell no!! I actually think they are both gay.
I don't think so u know people like 2 keep their lifes private =]
I am american and my wife is bulgarian. Does being married to a member of the EU make it easier to work in UK?
I just married a beautiful Bulgarian woman. We would like to move to England from the U.S.. Does the fact that she is a citizen of a country in the EU make it easier for us to obtain visa's to relocate to the UK.I am american and my wife is bulgarian. Does being married to a member of the EU make it easier to work in UK?
Come on over - there's plenty of work. We already have about half a million Americans working here in London alone and heaven knows how many UK wide altogether.
These links should help. . . . .
American Expats In The UK - bringing the American community ...If you are planning to move to the UK to work, you must get your work permit before arriving in the UK. You cannot apply for a work permit yourself, ...
http://www.americanexpats.co.uk/workvisa鈥?/a>
Not sure if this next site is applicable - but hey!. . . .
How to Get an EU Work Permit Acquiring a work permit in Europe comes down to doing your homework and plenty .... and UK citizens have the normal rights of any EU citizens, e.g. can live ...
http://www.thetravelersnotebook.com/feat鈥?/a>
Have a read but don't fill anything in unless you're 100% sure etc. You might prefer to take professional advice first. . . .
http://www.migrationexpert.com/uk/visa/w鈥?/a>
What is UK like?
I'm a Londoner and can only really talk sensibly about London, which I know well.
Here are some 360-pans of London
http://www.urban75.org/photos/london/pan鈥?/a>
Central London - Trafalgar Square webcam refreshes every 5 seconds
http://www.camvista.com/england/london/t鈥?/a>
Yes, it's all true. London is a mad city - here's what we do on St. Georges's Day here in London - patron saint of England.
http://www.camvista.com/england/london/t鈥?/a>
London Pride by Noel Coward
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-pYvloAA鈥?/a>
Queen's Birthday Parade - Massed Bands - Brigade of Guards
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zofhv9KWo鈥?/a>
Here's how we do business in the House of Commons
House of Commons PMQs November 2006
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpVycRpa2鈥?/a>I am american and my wife is bulgarian. Does being married to a member of the EU make it easier to work in UK?
Whilst being a member of the EU entitles your wife to live in the UK, you will have to apply for a visa - marriage gives you no rights just to come and live here.
I am from the UK and my spouse is not from an EU country - he wasn't able to come here without a visa so ignore the people who seem to think you can. Contrary to popular belief emigration to the UK from outside the EU is a difficult and expensive process.
I agree with neill USA. One of the freedoms of being a citizen of the EU is the free movement of persons as laid down in Article 39 in the Treaty Establishing the European Community. The rights of family arent spoken about in this Article but Directive 2004/38 deals with this in some detail.
The treaty does put a legal definition of a ';family member'; at Article 2 (2) (a). You can read all these articles and directives at the European Community website (the address of which I have forgotten - sorry).
Yes. She can get a work visa, while you can live in the country as her spouse. While in the United Kingdom, you can also apply for a work permit.
btw, South England is an expensive place to live - try North England, Scotland, Wales or Northen Ireland.
I would think so as different rules of entry apply to Europeans %26amp; usa citizens.Being married will help,I am not sure what restrictions apply but having a skilled trade or profession which we have a shortage of or ';wanted';by the government will help.
yes. as long as she is exercising her treaty rights (working or studying)in another country like UK. you will become her dependant and luckily she doesn't need to prove that she can accomodate and maintain you. :)
The UK has restrictions on the amount of Hungarian and Bulgarian immigrants as too many wanted to move here. However if you can get in it will make it easier on you.
Oh yes. EU citizens have more rights than UK citizens.
no being married to a bulgarian does not make it easy to get int the uk
Absolutely!
Come on over - there's plenty of work. We already have about half a million Americans working here in London alone and heaven knows how many UK wide altogether.
These links should help. . . . .
American Expats In The UK - bringing the American community ...If you are planning to move to the UK to work, you must get your work permit before arriving in the UK. You cannot apply for a work permit yourself, ...
http://www.americanexpats.co.uk/workvisa鈥?/a>
Not sure if this next site is applicable - but hey!. . . .
How to Get an EU Work Permit Acquiring a work permit in Europe comes down to doing your homework and plenty .... and UK citizens have the normal rights of any EU citizens, e.g. can live ...
http://www.thetravelersnotebook.com/feat鈥?/a>
Have a read but don't fill anything in unless you're 100% sure etc. You might prefer to take professional advice first. . . .
http://www.migrationexpert.com/uk/visa/w鈥?/a>
What is UK like?
I'm a Londoner and can only really talk sensibly about London, which I know well.
Here are some 360-pans of London
http://www.urban75.org/photos/london/pan鈥?/a>
Central London - Trafalgar Square webcam refreshes every 5 seconds
http://www.camvista.com/england/london/t鈥?/a>
Yes, it's all true. London is a mad city - here's what we do on St. Georges's Day here in London - patron saint of England.
http://www.camvista.com/england/london/t鈥?/a>
London Pride by Noel Coward
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-pYvloAA鈥?/a>
Queen's Birthday Parade - Massed Bands - Brigade of Guards
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zofhv9KWo鈥?/a>
Here's how we do business in the House of Commons
House of Commons PMQs November 2006
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpVycRpa2鈥?/a>I am american and my wife is bulgarian. Does being married to a member of the EU make it easier to work in UK?
Whilst being a member of the EU entitles your wife to live in the UK, you will have to apply for a visa - marriage gives you no rights just to come and live here.
I am from the UK and my spouse is not from an EU country - he wasn't able to come here without a visa so ignore the people who seem to think you can. Contrary to popular belief emigration to the UK from outside the EU is a difficult and expensive process.
I agree with neill USA. One of the freedoms of being a citizen of the EU is the free movement of persons as laid down in Article 39 in the Treaty Establishing the European Community. The rights of family arent spoken about in this Article but Directive 2004/38 deals with this in some detail.
The treaty does put a legal definition of a ';family member'; at Article 2 (2) (a). You can read all these articles and directives at the European Community website (the address of which I have forgotten - sorry).
Yes. She can get a work visa, while you can live in the country as her spouse. While in the United Kingdom, you can also apply for a work permit.
btw, South England is an expensive place to live - try North England, Scotland, Wales or Northen Ireland.
I would think so as different rules of entry apply to Europeans %26amp; usa citizens.Being married will help,I am not sure what restrictions apply but having a skilled trade or profession which we have a shortage of or ';wanted';by the government will help.
yes. as long as she is exercising her treaty rights (working or studying)in another country like UK. you will become her dependant and luckily she doesn't need to prove that she can accomodate and maintain you. :)
The UK has restrictions on the amount of Hungarian and Bulgarian immigrants as too many wanted to move here. However if you can get in it will make it easier on you.
Oh yes. EU citizens have more rights than UK citizens.
no being married to a bulgarian does not make it easy to get int the uk
Absolutely!
Do you believe that unified gay and lesbian couples should be able to have the same rights as married couples?
There is some lobbying for gay and lesbian couples to have the right to marry and gain the same rights as a traditional husband and wife marriage.
Personally, i believe that new legislation should be drawn up to cater for unions that give similar rights to couples that are married.
However i do not think that legislation should be changed to allow same sex couples to marry as traditional couples do now, specifically because this original legislation was chartered to apply to 'traditional' husband wife couples, not same sex couples.
What is your opinion on the issue?Do you believe that unified gay and lesbian couples should be able to have the same rights as married couples?
I believe that committed, same-sex couples should have the same legal rights as committed, heterosexual couples. Whether they ';marry'; or not has always seemed more of a religious distinction to me, depending on one's church, and something the government has shouldn't have much say over (except, again, in the legal sense).
If we start deciding based on who has children, then it seems we'd have to disqualify heterosexual couples who don't have children. If we start deciding based on the ';sanctity of marriage,'; then we need to start making divorces far, far less easy to get.Do you believe that unified gay and lesbian couples should be able to have the same rights as married couples?
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. --That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.
The paragraph before this one is one of the most powerful groups of words in all of our rich and storied past. A handful of men and woman stood up against what seemed like impossible odds and demanded the right to live their lives the wanted to.
Now we stand at a simliar crossroads; our brothers and sisters are being systematcially attacked. Are they a threat to anyone on any level? NO. Are they trying to force their way of life upon the rest of us? NO. All they want is a chance to pursuit life, liberty, and happiness like the rest of us.
So let's get down to the real fundamental issue here; What is love? If you read the Bible it talks about the love between a man and a woman; alternaive lifestyles don't get very good press from the Bible. Now if the Bible is right then by denying equal rights to gay and lesbian couples you are helping to save them from destruction and the wrath of God. It would be very noble if it were true; but it isn't.
The same creative force that stood on high and made everything; well made everything. Now everything is a very scary word in this context. After all if God made everything then didn't it make Gays, Lesbians, Hermaphrodites, Straight folk, Black, White, Brown, Yellow, Red and every other color and kind of human being.
More imprtantly if that same creative force that we label as God made everything then condemning another because they don't live the exact same way that youdo is a condemntion of God's creation and a turning away from God's plan.
We weren't meant to all be the same; we were made to be diverse.
There is a part of you long buried by the rules and standards that you live by thatcries out in rage at the thought of another living being being denied their freedoms; listen to it.
I have died twice due to illness and found myself before my creator before being sent back and I can tell you one thing: To deny the inalianable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness to a group that only seeks to follow their hearts is a sin more horrible then you can imagine.
It is a horror that in the end you will be made to see; you can only run from your own heart so long before it gives out and you find yourself before the creator as I did.
Sorry bit I just can't get my head around the same sex marriages. Maybe its because I'm too old to relate but I have a hard time accepting the gay/lesbian family concept.
I guess it really doesn't matter much to me in the long run.
Firstly .. I am a straight married woman, so my answer isn't based on anything that would affect me directly.....
AND Yes .. I believe they should have the same rights as a Hetrosexual couple......
and please DON'T anybody give me the old marriage is for procreation..... because .. many people these days elect NOT to have children .... many people can't have children ... and many people marry again when they are no longer in their fertile years ...
marriage is for people who care about one another and who love one another and who want to make a committment.. what else matters so long as they are consenting adults.
It is not my business how other hetrosexual couples conduct their sex lives, what goes on between their sheets or anywhere else they select to *do it* in their own own is purely their own business ... SO WHY do some people consider it is their business what a gay couple do and then place boundaries upon them.......
That's My Opinion
I think they should get equal rights at least. I don't care if they want to call it marriage or something else. Long as they get same rights as traditional married couples. They'll live together whether our law changes or not. I do think being able to chose you life partner is your fundamental human rights. I think the law should accommodate this.
To look at it another way we used to guarantee constitutional rights just to white folks not that long ago. We eventually extended that protections %26amp; rights to other races.
Marriage is two things. It is a ceremony done in a church with religious meaning, and also a civil contract sharing wealth, children, etc. People who aren't married should be able to enter an equivalent civil contract, like for instance two widows who want to buy a house together and be companions but not necessarily sexual partners. That's just a matter of equality under the law. I guess we agree on that part.
You could call that 'civil union' or 'civil marriage'.
But also, I know there are gay-friendly churches. If some church decides that it's theology allows gays to marry, then how could the state interfere with that? Does the state have the right to declare that churches can't define 'marriage' for themselves?
In fact, Christians who say a marriage has to be between a man and a woman, who are they to tell -other- churches what they can't do?
Two consenting adults who want to get married should all be in the same category. Man and woman, man and man, woman and woman, is irrelevant.
I believe that someone should be able to name a beneficiary to their estate whoever that person is that they want.
I believe a person should be able to share their benefits such as medical with a partner of their choice.
What other things were you thinking about?
It wouldnt be the same in my mind as a man and a woman being married but for legal purposes of the things I stated I cant see anything wrong with it.
i dont care what you call it, 'marriage' or not, my partner and i just want the same rights that marriage provides. believe me, it won't take a marriage certificate for us to feel committed to each other, it would just be nice for the government to recognize us as a cohabitating, committed couple. we are having a holy union (non-recognised gay marriage) in a month with our friends and family there to support us, and a pastor to officiate. we are married in the eyes of our families and ourselves, we're just waiting on the world to change. we are raising a baby together also, my partner works and i'm a stay at home mom. we are a family regardless of the law.
as soon as they start getting each other pregnant i think they should allow it for the children's sake.
As a born again Bible believing Christian, I find it an abomination to God, as He gave a woman to man, not a man to man. A man and a woman are suppose to get married and reproduce. Tell me, how does a man and a man reproduce or a woman and a woman. People are ignoring the word of God and wonder why the world is going to hell. The answer to your question is in the Bible. My answer to your question, is that I agree with the word of God. No, gay couples should not have the same rights as real couples.
I only wish Jesus would hurry and come and rapture us Christians from this evil world.
shouldn't they seek medication to cure them first?
Personally, i believe that new legislation should be drawn up to cater for unions that give similar rights to couples that are married.
However i do not think that legislation should be changed to allow same sex couples to marry as traditional couples do now, specifically because this original legislation was chartered to apply to 'traditional' husband wife couples, not same sex couples.
What is your opinion on the issue?Do you believe that unified gay and lesbian couples should be able to have the same rights as married couples?
I believe that committed, same-sex couples should have the same legal rights as committed, heterosexual couples. Whether they ';marry'; or not has always seemed more of a religious distinction to me, depending on one's church, and something the government has shouldn't have much say over (except, again, in the legal sense).
If we start deciding based on who has children, then it seems we'd have to disqualify heterosexual couples who don't have children. If we start deciding based on the ';sanctity of marriage,'; then we need to start making divorces far, far less easy to get.Do you believe that unified gay and lesbian couples should be able to have the same rights as married couples?
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. --That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.
The paragraph before this one is one of the most powerful groups of words in all of our rich and storied past. A handful of men and woman stood up against what seemed like impossible odds and demanded the right to live their lives the wanted to.
Now we stand at a simliar crossroads; our brothers and sisters are being systematcially attacked. Are they a threat to anyone on any level? NO. Are they trying to force their way of life upon the rest of us? NO. All they want is a chance to pursuit life, liberty, and happiness like the rest of us.
So let's get down to the real fundamental issue here; What is love? If you read the Bible it talks about the love between a man and a woman; alternaive lifestyles don't get very good press from the Bible. Now if the Bible is right then by denying equal rights to gay and lesbian couples you are helping to save them from destruction and the wrath of God. It would be very noble if it were true; but it isn't.
The same creative force that stood on high and made everything; well made everything. Now everything is a very scary word in this context. After all if God made everything then didn't it make Gays, Lesbians, Hermaphrodites, Straight folk, Black, White, Brown, Yellow, Red and every other color and kind of human being.
More imprtantly if that same creative force that we label as God made everything then condemning another because they don't live the exact same way that youdo is a condemntion of God's creation and a turning away from God's plan.
We weren't meant to all be the same; we were made to be diverse.
There is a part of you long buried by the rules and standards that you live by thatcries out in rage at the thought of another living being being denied their freedoms; listen to it.
I have died twice due to illness and found myself before my creator before being sent back and I can tell you one thing: To deny the inalianable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness to a group that only seeks to follow their hearts is a sin more horrible then you can imagine.
It is a horror that in the end you will be made to see; you can only run from your own heart so long before it gives out and you find yourself before the creator as I did.
Sorry bit I just can't get my head around the same sex marriages. Maybe its because I'm too old to relate but I have a hard time accepting the gay/lesbian family concept.
I guess it really doesn't matter much to me in the long run.
Firstly .. I am a straight married woman, so my answer isn't based on anything that would affect me directly.....
AND Yes .. I believe they should have the same rights as a Hetrosexual couple......
and please DON'T anybody give me the old marriage is for procreation..... because .. many people these days elect NOT to have children .... many people can't have children ... and many people marry again when they are no longer in their fertile years ...
marriage is for people who care about one another and who love one another and who want to make a committment.. what else matters so long as they are consenting adults.
It is not my business how other hetrosexual couples conduct their sex lives, what goes on between their sheets or anywhere else they select to *do it* in their own own is purely their own business ... SO WHY do some people consider it is their business what a gay couple do and then place boundaries upon them.......
That's My Opinion
I think they should get equal rights at least. I don't care if they want to call it marriage or something else. Long as they get same rights as traditional married couples. They'll live together whether our law changes or not. I do think being able to chose you life partner is your fundamental human rights. I think the law should accommodate this.
To look at it another way we used to guarantee constitutional rights just to white folks not that long ago. We eventually extended that protections %26amp; rights to other races.
Marriage is two things. It is a ceremony done in a church with religious meaning, and also a civil contract sharing wealth, children, etc. People who aren't married should be able to enter an equivalent civil contract, like for instance two widows who want to buy a house together and be companions but not necessarily sexual partners. That's just a matter of equality under the law. I guess we agree on that part.
You could call that 'civil union' or 'civil marriage'.
But also, I know there are gay-friendly churches. If some church decides that it's theology allows gays to marry, then how could the state interfere with that? Does the state have the right to declare that churches can't define 'marriage' for themselves?
In fact, Christians who say a marriage has to be between a man and a woman, who are they to tell -other- churches what they can't do?
Two consenting adults who want to get married should all be in the same category. Man and woman, man and man, woman and woman, is irrelevant.
I believe that someone should be able to name a beneficiary to their estate whoever that person is that they want.
I believe a person should be able to share their benefits such as medical with a partner of their choice.
What other things were you thinking about?
It wouldnt be the same in my mind as a man and a woman being married but for legal purposes of the things I stated I cant see anything wrong with it.
i dont care what you call it, 'marriage' or not, my partner and i just want the same rights that marriage provides. believe me, it won't take a marriage certificate for us to feel committed to each other, it would just be nice for the government to recognize us as a cohabitating, committed couple. we are having a holy union (non-recognised gay marriage) in a month with our friends and family there to support us, and a pastor to officiate. we are married in the eyes of our families and ourselves, we're just waiting on the world to change. we are raising a baby together also, my partner works and i'm a stay at home mom. we are a family regardless of the law.
as soon as they start getting each other pregnant i think they should allow it for the children's sake.
As a born again Bible believing Christian, I find it an abomination to God, as He gave a woman to man, not a man to man. A man and a woman are suppose to get married and reproduce. Tell me, how does a man and a man reproduce or a woman and a woman. People are ignoring the word of God and wonder why the world is going to hell. The answer to your question is in the Bible. My answer to your question, is that I agree with the word of God. No, gay couples should not have the same rights as real couples.
I only wish Jesus would hurry and come and rapture us Christians from this evil world.
shouldn't they seek medication to cure them first?
What are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
They got married 1 yr. ago,the lady has a daughter but not married to the father. Now that she is married to an American,the gut want them to follow him in the US.What are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
The American citizen have to petition for his wife and step daughter.
there are so many requirements for filipina to submit.
here is the site www.uscis.govWhat are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
go to this page to read all the paper work, did this couple not do the necessary translation, transcriptions first? such as a the consulate?
there will be a ton of paper, if she was married before? have they done this yet?
ALTERNATIVE TO MARRIAGE ABROAD:
# In lieu of the procedures presented above, it is possible to file a petition for an alien to enter the United States as the fianc茅/fianc茅e of an American citizen thus enabling the parties to marry in the United States. Note that this is only possible if you have previously physically met your fianc茅/fianc茅e. Contact your nearest Bureau of Citizenship and Immigration Services in the Department of Homeland Security office for further information. #
read all above first to insure the marriage is valid, and then go on to the paragraph i put here,
at this page,
http://travel.state.gov/law/citizenship/鈥?/a>
The American citizen have to petition for his wife and step daughter.
there are so many requirements for filipina to submit.
here is the site www.uscis.govWhat are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
go to this page to read all the paper work, did this couple not do the necessary translation, transcriptions first? such as a the consulate?
there will be a ton of paper, if she was married before? have they done this yet?
ALTERNATIVE TO MARRIAGE ABROAD:
# In lieu of the procedures presented above, it is possible to file a petition for an alien to enter the United States as the fianc茅/fianc茅e of an American citizen thus enabling the parties to marry in the United States. Note that this is only possible if you have previously physically met your fianc茅/fianc茅e. Contact your nearest Bureau of Citizenship and Immigration Services in the Department of Homeland Security office for further information. #
read all above first to insure the marriage is valid, and then go on to the paragraph i put here,
at this page,
http://travel.state.gov/law/citizenship/鈥?/a>
Qualifying relative on tax return- can be filed joint or married separately?
I'm looking to add my mother in law because my husband supports her but was unsure if we would need to file separately or can continue to file as married filing jointly? Thanks!Qualifying relative on tax return- can be filed joint or married separately?
You can continue to file jointly.
You can continue to file jointly.
If my kids dad was deported but were still technicaly married?
but have not been together for 5 yrs and idk where he is, can i get passports for my children? im confused because i know under 18 needs both parents, but hes not here nor do i know of him, how do i go about this? please help and no wise cracks im serious.If my kids dad was deported but were still technicaly married?
An option: file for divorce, get a sole custody of your children, then apply for their passports without any trouble (as a sole custodial parent).If my kids dad was deported but were still technicaly married?
For passports if u have a written paper noterized, stating why he could not sign then they will let them get passports.
** you can do this, who ever thumbs down me must not have one bc it says so on the passport application.
Buenas Suertecure acne
An option: file for divorce, get a sole custody of your children, then apply for their passports without any trouble (as a sole custodial parent).If my kids dad was deported but were still technicaly married?
For passports if u have a written paper noterized, stating why he could not sign then they will let them get passports.
** you can do this, who ever thumbs down me must not have one bc it says so on the passport application.
Buenas Suerte
Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
And should i call the producers to set up a sting in this section. A lot of IT goes on here you know!!
Was it called busted or cheaters??Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters..........it was american and they used actors!Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters. It was insane.
The name of the program was Cheaters.
Was it called busted or cheaters??Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters..........it was american and they used actors!Does anybody remember the RTV show where women cheating with married men were caught out?
Cheaters. It was insane.
The name of the program was Cheaters.
Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
I always watch the biggest loser, and i always wondered if Jillian MIchaels and Bob Harper were married, or even dating. Could some one please help me answer this. Thanks!Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
no, they certainly are not.Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
Bob is gay, and my guess is that Jillian is a lesbian.
Bob is Not GAY!!! I read somewhere He is a Mormon and has like 5 kids.
They both prefer members of the same sex so no.
I don't think so since I read somewhere that Bob is Gay
I don't think so. Plus, Bob is kind of gay.
Hell no!! I actually think they are both gay.
I don't think so u know people like 2 keep their lifes private =]
no, they certainly are not.Are Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper from the Biggest Loser Married?
Bob is gay, and my guess is that Jillian is a lesbian.
Bob is Not GAY!!! I read somewhere He is a Mormon and has like 5 kids.
They both prefer members of the same sex so no.
I don't think so since I read somewhere that Bob is Gay
I don't think so. Plus, Bob is kind of gay.
Hell no!! I actually think they are both gay.
I don't think so u know people like 2 keep their lifes private =]
What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
There is no penalty, but the total taxes paid by the two of you may be more than if you filed together.
But it may be worth it if you are married to someone in their own business and you don't know what goes on there. If your spouse hides income from the IRS, you won't be on the hook for it if you did not file a joint return.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
If you're married, you may want to file separately if filing a joint tax return would bump you up to a higher tax bracket and cause you to pay more taxes. For example, if both the husband and wife make $50,000 a year they will pay less in taxes if they file separately. This is because the percentage paid in tax for a person making $50,000 is less than half of what a person making $100,000 will pay because taxes increase as your income increases.
When each partner makes about the same amount of money, usually they are better off filing separately. When one partner makes significantly more than the other, filing jointly is better.
I know this is kind of complicated, and it's difficult to explain. See the attached link for a better explanation.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
Why would you want to??? You pay higher taxes if you file single than if you file married.
There's no penalty, but the additional tax would be brutal.
If they catch you, they get to go back as many as 7 years and audit you.
But it may be worth it if you are married to someone in their own business and you don't know what goes on there. If your spouse hides income from the IRS, you won't be on the hook for it if you did not file a joint return.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
If you're married, you may want to file separately if filing a joint tax return would bump you up to a higher tax bracket and cause you to pay more taxes. For example, if both the husband and wife make $50,000 a year they will pay less in taxes if they file separately. This is because the percentage paid in tax for a person making $50,000 is less than half of what a person making $100,000 will pay because taxes increase as your income increases.
When each partner makes about the same amount of money, usually they are better off filing separately. When one partner makes significantly more than the other, filing jointly is better.
I know this is kind of complicated, and it's difficult to explain. See the attached link for a better explanation.What is the penalty for filing single if your legally married?
Why would you want to??? You pay higher taxes if you file single than if you file married.
There's no penalty, but the additional tax would be brutal.
If they catch you, they get to go back as many as 7 years and audit you.
If aheists get married in church would`nt that make them Hypocrites?
Just asking your opinion.If aheists get married in church would`nt that make them Hypocrites?
It would make them married. They already are hypocrites for saying they are not a part of a religion.If aheists get married in church would`nt that make them Hypocrites?
If there are two atheists getting married, then I am quite sure it would not be in a church.
If there is an atheist married to a christian, then out of respect for the christian partner, he/she might marry in church. That does not mean he believes in christianity, therefore does not make him a hypocrite.
It's not really that big of a deal.
I mean, it is just a tradition to get married in churches. You don't have to be religious or believe in God to get married. You just have to believe that you and the man/women that you love can spend the rest of their lives together, and be happy.
Of course, a couple of hardcore atheists could just as easily get married in a courthouse, or on a ship.
no
as a church is nowadays where people can and do get married
its a beautifil building to have a wedding, a gorgeous set, usually looks amazing
i wont be married in one, but, i think its fine for those who do
its up to the individuals, but, sadly,many people still do soem things just to please soem family memebers
If my spouse was religious and wanted to get married in a church I would have no problem with that. It wouldn't make me a hypocrite though. Otherwise I would get married in a civil ceremony.
it depends on their reason for getting married in a church i think. it would be possible that they would do it to make their family happy, or just because they thought the church was a pretty place just with no special meaning.
I didn't marry in a church because I do believe it to be hypocritical for me. Some do though to please their spouse to be. To each his/her own.
to an athiest a church is only a building, typically an expensive building some of which look really nice
aheists?
IF an atheist got married in a church with a religious ceremony it would be because it is what THEIR partner wants.
No. Getting married in a big church is a status symbol these days, but more likely they are doing so to appease family
If anyone gets married anywhere wouldn't that make them stupid.
To call someone a hypocrite is hypocrisy in itself.
WE ARE ALL HYPOCRITES.
We get married in courthouses.
No different than those who profess to believe and later divorce.
i would think so...im an atheist and i certainly dont plan on setting foot in a church for as long as im alive.
I doubt a true Atheist would marry some one who wanted to get married in a church.
Marriage doesn't have to be based on religion. ;)
No, and why would they.
Um, no....because they're just getting married....
Nope. We don't have a rule against it.
when did atheists say people shouldn't marry in churches?
wtf... spell check...
annoying...
It would make them married. They already are hypocrites for saying they are not a part of a religion.If aheists get married in church would`nt that make them Hypocrites?
If there are two atheists getting married, then I am quite sure it would not be in a church.
If there is an atheist married to a christian, then out of respect for the christian partner, he/she might marry in church. That does not mean he believes in christianity, therefore does not make him a hypocrite.
It's not really that big of a deal.
I mean, it is just a tradition to get married in churches. You don't have to be religious or believe in God to get married. You just have to believe that you and the man/women that you love can spend the rest of their lives together, and be happy.
Of course, a couple of hardcore atheists could just as easily get married in a courthouse, or on a ship.
no
as a church is nowadays where people can and do get married
its a beautifil building to have a wedding, a gorgeous set, usually looks amazing
i wont be married in one, but, i think its fine for those who do
its up to the individuals, but, sadly,many people still do soem things just to please soem family memebers
If my spouse was religious and wanted to get married in a church I would have no problem with that. It wouldn't make me a hypocrite though. Otherwise I would get married in a civil ceremony.
it depends on their reason for getting married in a church i think. it would be possible that they would do it to make their family happy, or just because they thought the church was a pretty place just with no special meaning.
I didn't marry in a church because I do believe it to be hypocritical for me. Some do though to please their spouse to be. To each his/her own.
to an athiest a church is only a building, typically an expensive building some of which look really nice
aheists?
IF an atheist got married in a church with a religious ceremony it would be because it is what THEIR partner wants.
No. Getting married in a big church is a status symbol these days, but more likely they are doing so to appease family
If anyone gets married anywhere wouldn't that make them stupid.
To call someone a hypocrite is hypocrisy in itself.
WE ARE ALL HYPOCRITES.
We get married in courthouses.
No different than those who profess to believe and later divorce.
i would think so...im an atheist and i certainly dont plan on setting foot in a church for as long as im alive.
I doubt a true Atheist would marry some one who wanted to get married in a church.
Marriage doesn't have to be based on religion. ;)
No, and why would they.
Um, no....because they're just getting married....
Nope. We don't have a rule against it.
when did atheists say people shouldn't marry in churches?
wtf... spell check...
annoying...
If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
I kind of remember someone once saying that if you date someone for 10 years you automatically become legally married. Is this true? and if it is, does it only apply if you've lived together for 10 years or just dated?If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
Common law marriage differs from state to state.If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
No, you're not automatically married. What they are refering to is if a couple has been together 10 years and living together they can recieve married benefits. Meaning you can file taxes jointly -as if you are married- though you're not married. Also, most insurance companies will let you add your partner on and recieve benefits even though they're not married.
So, after 10 years, and currently living together, I guess you can see as in some legal sence you get married benefits. However, there are some benefits you may not get like visitation at hospitals or perhaps other death benefits if the case arose.
Good luck!
It depends on the State in which you live. There are a lot of States that do not recognize that type of thing. If there are children involved it complicates the legal aspect of things if your pardner dies.Why don't you get married? That the simple and right thing to do.
i'm pretty sure that's only for cohabitation, not just dating. dating would be pretty hard to prove legally anyways, so the living together and having the same address thing would make a lot more sense.
It depends on the state. Not all states recognize common law marriages and the length of time varies from state to state. You'd have to google your state common laws to find out for sure.
Good Luck!
No, you could date someone forever and you would never be considered legally married.
Your not married. Some states have common law marriage.
Sorry to disappoint you but no, you are not....and very few states recognize Common Law marriages, too.
NO
but if you live together you became common law spouse
I think you need to be living together
No.
Check with your state's laws.
Common law marriage differs from state to state.If you date someone for 10 years are you legally married?
No, you're not automatically married. What they are refering to is if a couple has been together 10 years and living together they can recieve married benefits. Meaning you can file taxes jointly -as if you are married- though you're not married. Also, most insurance companies will let you add your partner on and recieve benefits even though they're not married.
So, after 10 years, and currently living together, I guess you can see as in some legal sence you get married benefits. However, there are some benefits you may not get like visitation at hospitals or perhaps other death benefits if the case arose.
Good luck!
It depends on the State in which you live. There are a lot of States that do not recognize that type of thing. If there are children involved it complicates the legal aspect of things if your pardner dies.Why don't you get married? That the simple and right thing to do.
i'm pretty sure that's only for cohabitation, not just dating. dating would be pretty hard to prove legally anyways, so the living together and having the same address thing would make a lot more sense.
It depends on the state. Not all states recognize common law marriages and the length of time varies from state to state. You'd have to google your state common laws to find out for sure.
Good Luck!
No, you could date someone forever and you would never be considered legally married.
Your not married. Some states have common law marriage.
Sorry to disappoint you but no, you are not....and very few states recognize Common Law marriages, too.
NO
but if you live together you became common law spouse
I think you need to be living together
No.
Check with your state's laws.
Why would a married woman try to make friend with my boyriend?
She is married he has me she knows about me.He told her he couldnt give his phone number but then she asked for his email .Wanted to stay in touch see how nursing progran was going for him.Was his lab partner.i didnt know about her.Why would she do this.if she is happily married and very faithful to her husband.Why would a married woman try to make friend with my boyriend?
so far as i know, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a married woman having friends that are males or that have girlfriends.....why are you trying to see the wrong in something that might be just FRIENDSHIP?
if you are secure in your relationship then your boyfriend would deal with it accordingly and you don't need to be all worried about it.Why would a married woman try to make friend with my boyriend?
Married women can usually spot a guy who isn't getting enough and would be eager for something on the side.
They drive their husbands to cheat, and can spot when another woman is doing the same thing.
Are you sure he is being straightforward with you? If he is, she may have just wanted to remain friends..
Maybe she just wants to be friends with him
She wants to be his nursing program.cure acne
so far as i know, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a married woman having friends that are males or that have girlfriends.....why are you trying to see the wrong in something that might be just FRIENDSHIP?
if you are secure in your relationship then your boyfriend would deal with it accordingly and you don't need to be all worried about it.Why would a married woman try to make friend with my boyriend?
Married women can usually spot a guy who isn't getting enough and would be eager for something on the side.
They drive their husbands to cheat, and can spot when another woman is doing the same thing.
Are you sure he is being straightforward with you? If he is, she may have just wanted to remain friends..
Maybe she just wants to be friends with him
She wants to be his nursing program.
A married M E4 is sleeping with mulitiple F in his unit incl a married F E4. Does he get in trouble?
';If an married male specialist is has been sleeping with mulitiple females in his unit (same rank or lower married and single) including a female specialist who is married to a sgt who is deployed to iraq will he get in trouble? What type of proof is needed to turn this creep in?'; The unit knows this is happening but chooses to ignore the situation.A married M E4 is sleeping with mulitiple F in his unit incl a married F E4. Does he get in trouble?
Someone should bring it to the attention of his Commanding Officer. It is against military law (UCMJ) and goes against good order and discipline. Behavior such as this will rot a unit.A married M E4 is sleeping with mulitiple F in his unit incl a married F E4. Does he get in trouble?
yes they can both get in trouble. a maximum of 2 years in prison, and depending on the situation and rank he can get down stipped if u know wat that means. i believe he can loose one or two stripes depending on the seriousness of the offense. it happened to one of my friends in the military.
Yes he can and should. You say the unit knows the key point is who in the unit? If his senior personnel, his OIC, SNCOIC or NCOIC and CO/CSM know and are ';winking'; at it they are as guilty as the individual of violating the UCMJ and service regulations. If it is reported to his Commanding Officer or senior enlisted (CSM/SgtMaj etc) and they do nothing it should be reported to the Provost Marshall or legal personnel above the unit level for investigation.
Nice to see you have appointed yourself to the MORAL POLICE to end this.
Nothing better to do with your sad life??
Technically, if he's married, he can get in trouble regardless of rank. However, this happens all the time unfortunately, but it's difficult to prove. Unless someone has witnessed the actual act, and even then it's he-said/she-said. So unless they tell on themselves, or someone has pictures or video or some sort of hard proof, he will probably continue to get away with it.
Yes he can get in trouble. Adultry is Punishable under the UCMJ. Report him to his first sergeant or OSI. Bring valid proof and he will be dealt with accordngly.
yes, he can get in a lot of trouble. he should be reported to the CO, if that wont help, keep going up the chain. It will all come down eventually
ever heard of adultery, and yes it is illegal in the armed forces, regardless of rank. I know a female E5 that got caught sleeping with a male O3. She is a E4 now and he has been discharged.
It is a clear violation of the UCMJ, which falls under Article 134 Adultery and Prostitution. And I think there are other articles he is violating with all the sleeping around.
The only proof you need is for one of the females to come clean, get him to come clean, or something. If you report him, an investigation will start where the Junior Officers will have to find out what is going on. Just make sure you are right, and that he is doing this. Also know you may ruin the careers of these other people in the process. So by taking him down, you could potentially ruin 4 people's career.
As long as there just sleeping , no problem
A male E-4, sleeping with a female E-4 is not the question. The question is the authority. If he is sleeping with a subordinate he can get in trouble. Say he is a squad leader and she is in his squad then yes, he can get in trouble because even though he is the same rank as her he is still in a position of authority. On the question of ';proof'; there does have to be some kind of evidence. Just gossip is not enough. Best advice: don't worry about it unless it affects you directly...ie the mission doesn't get done. Other than that dear there is not a whole lot you can do. People will be people no matter where you go or what your occupation is. It sucks sometimes but that is how it is!
he can get in trouble only if he failed...
this very usual situation with M E4 and typical
Doesnt matter what rank any of these Soldiers are it is adultry.. now as I answered someone elses question about this .. the Army says without vidoe or photos there is no proof but* the accused can always fight the video and photos saying its not them , but if 1 or both parties admit to this yes he/she (both) will be punished under ucmj, now because noone will admit to adultry , and if your the spouse in any of this, talk to all members involved Chain of command , if you are the spouse go to Jag if you want a divorce to get a list of lawyers off post , also Jag can inform you of your rights and your Soldiers.
UCMJ is up the the Commander.
I know all of this because my 2 friends went through the same thing, trust me nothing happen to their cheating husbands (ex now).
Good Luck!
ANG Soldier%26amp;Armywife
This is a serious breech of the Code of Conduct. Notify his CO. An investigation will commence and discplinary actions will follow if the charges are true.
Someone should bring it to the attention of his Commanding Officer. It is against military law (UCMJ) and goes against good order and discipline. Behavior such as this will rot a unit.A married M E4 is sleeping with mulitiple F in his unit incl a married F E4. Does he get in trouble?
yes they can both get in trouble. a maximum of 2 years in prison, and depending on the situation and rank he can get down stipped if u know wat that means. i believe he can loose one or two stripes depending on the seriousness of the offense. it happened to one of my friends in the military.
Yes he can and should. You say the unit knows the key point is who in the unit? If his senior personnel, his OIC, SNCOIC or NCOIC and CO/CSM know and are ';winking'; at it they are as guilty as the individual of violating the UCMJ and service regulations. If it is reported to his Commanding Officer or senior enlisted (CSM/SgtMaj etc) and they do nothing it should be reported to the Provost Marshall or legal personnel above the unit level for investigation.
Nice to see you have appointed yourself to the MORAL POLICE to end this.
Nothing better to do with your sad life??
Technically, if he's married, he can get in trouble regardless of rank. However, this happens all the time unfortunately, but it's difficult to prove. Unless someone has witnessed the actual act, and even then it's he-said/she-said. So unless they tell on themselves, or someone has pictures or video or some sort of hard proof, he will probably continue to get away with it.
Yes he can get in trouble. Adultry is Punishable under the UCMJ. Report him to his first sergeant or OSI. Bring valid proof and he will be dealt with accordngly.
yes, he can get in a lot of trouble. he should be reported to the CO, if that wont help, keep going up the chain. It will all come down eventually
ever heard of adultery, and yes it is illegal in the armed forces, regardless of rank. I know a female E5 that got caught sleeping with a male O3. She is a E4 now and he has been discharged.
It is a clear violation of the UCMJ, which falls under Article 134 Adultery and Prostitution. And I think there are other articles he is violating with all the sleeping around.
The only proof you need is for one of the females to come clean, get him to come clean, or something. If you report him, an investigation will start where the Junior Officers will have to find out what is going on. Just make sure you are right, and that he is doing this. Also know you may ruin the careers of these other people in the process. So by taking him down, you could potentially ruin 4 people's career.
As long as there just sleeping , no problem
A male E-4, sleeping with a female E-4 is not the question. The question is the authority. If he is sleeping with a subordinate he can get in trouble. Say he is a squad leader and she is in his squad then yes, he can get in trouble because even though he is the same rank as her he is still in a position of authority. On the question of ';proof'; there does have to be some kind of evidence. Just gossip is not enough. Best advice: don't worry about it unless it affects you directly...ie the mission doesn't get done. Other than that dear there is not a whole lot you can do. People will be people no matter where you go or what your occupation is. It sucks sometimes but that is how it is!
he can get in trouble only if he failed...
this very usual situation with M E4 and typical
Doesnt matter what rank any of these Soldiers are it is adultry.. now as I answered someone elses question about this .. the Army says without vidoe or photos there is no proof but* the accused can always fight the video and photos saying its not them , but if 1 or both parties admit to this yes he/she (both) will be punished under ucmj, now because noone will admit to adultry , and if your the spouse in any of this, talk to all members involved Chain of command , if you are the spouse go to Jag if you want a divorce to get a list of lawyers off post , also Jag can inform you of your rights and your Soldiers.
UCMJ is up the the Commander.
I know all of this because my 2 friends went through the same thing, trust me nothing happen to their cheating husbands (ex now).
Good Luck!
ANG Soldier%26amp;Armywife
This is a serious breech of the Code of Conduct. Notify his CO. An investigation will commence and discplinary actions will follow if the charges are true.
My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
She's in a commited relationship and i'm afraid she's gonna back off from it because of college and legal issues but they're really in love. Help?My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
Help what? Your sister will get married when she is ready. Trying to force someone is the quickest way for them to run in the opposite direction. You should be happy that your sister wants to finish school and square away her legal issues before taking on a husband and a house hold, thats called responsibility, you seem to thinking the opposite, you must be younger than her? There are more important things to do before marriage, education is one of them.My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
You need to stay out of her business. If she is in a truly committed relationship and she thinks she wants to get married then she should go for it. Don't make her do something that she doesn't want to, even though you think it may be for the best. She might want to get college and legal issues out of the way first.
It's your sister's life. Not yours. You don't get to make that decision. IF they ever do get married, it should be when %26amp; because they want to.
I got married when I was 19 %26amp; my husband was 23. I am now 22 and still in college. It will take me a total of 6 years to get my bachelor's degree because I took part time loads when I got married %26amp; when we bought our house. Things were definitely trying at times. However, we are in a strong, wonderful marriage %26amp; I wouldn't go back %26amp; change things just so I could graduate on time.
Mind your own kid. She's got the right idea and it seems that you don't.
Go to school, get a career, define yourself a bit and if possible find a mate. If you choose the reverse of this, things may get harder to accomplish.
20 is far too young to get married, IMO. You can tell her how you feel, but for god's sake, don't pressure her to give up one of the most fun times of her life (college) at this point.
Don't get involved with your sisters relationship. She would be smart not to get married so young. She should focus on her college education and not rush into getting married. It is her life and her decision. Stay out of it.
It's HER life and she will have to live with the choices she makes, not you. Let her live her own life. She's still very young and college is very important. Let it go.
This is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
20 is very, very young to be married. Let her finish college and decide for herself if she wants to get married.
That's young to marry. She is even allowed to drink alchol. Leave her alone and mind your business its her life. Its not she is harming herself.
Leave her alone! 20 is WAY too young. She needs to enjoy college and work through the other stuff, that is life. Adding marriage will only worsen the situations right now.
Shes should be going to college and growing before she gets married. If it is right for her it will eventually happen.
You need the help----leave her alone!!
Not any of your business, so let her do that on her own. No need to add to the divorce issue.
It's not your decision to make! She is far too young anyway, do you want her divorced by 25?? Stay out of it.
Mind your own business.
Keep out. Don't say anything. It is not your life and none of your business.
You've been warned.
its her life and not yours... when she is ready.. she'll be..... what if he just havent popp out the question yet............
Advice her but mind ur own.
stay out of grown folks business
Help what? Your sister will get married when she is ready. Trying to force someone is the quickest way for them to run in the opposite direction. You should be happy that your sister wants to finish school and square away her legal issues before taking on a husband and a house hold, thats called responsibility, you seem to thinking the opposite, you must be younger than her? There are more important things to do before marriage, education is one of them.My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
You need to stay out of her business. If she is in a truly committed relationship and she thinks she wants to get married then she should go for it. Don't make her do something that she doesn't want to, even though you think it may be for the best. She might want to get college and legal issues out of the way first.
It's your sister's life. Not yours. You don't get to make that decision. IF they ever do get married, it should be when %26amp; because they want to.
I got married when I was 19 %26amp; my husband was 23. I am now 22 and still in college. It will take me a total of 6 years to get my bachelor's degree because I took part time loads when I got married %26amp; when we bought our house. Things were definitely trying at times. However, we are in a strong, wonderful marriage %26amp; I wouldn't go back %26amp; change things just so I could graduate on time.
Mind your own kid. She's got the right idea and it seems that you don't.
Go to school, get a career, define yourself a bit and if possible find a mate. If you choose the reverse of this, things may get harder to accomplish.
20 is far too young to get married, IMO. You can tell her how you feel, but for god's sake, don't pressure her to give up one of the most fun times of her life (college) at this point.
Don't get involved with your sisters relationship. She would be smart not to get married so young. She should focus on her college education and not rush into getting married. It is her life and her decision. Stay out of it.
It's HER life and she will have to live with the choices she makes, not you. Let her live her own life. She's still very young and college is very important. Let it go.
This is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
20 is very, very young to be married. Let her finish college and decide for herself if she wants to get married.
That's young to marry. She is even allowed to drink alchol. Leave her alone and mind your business its her life. Its not she is harming herself.
Leave her alone! 20 is WAY too young. She needs to enjoy college and work through the other stuff, that is life. Adding marriage will only worsen the situations right now.
Shes should be going to college and growing before she gets married. If it is right for her it will eventually happen.
You need the help----leave her alone!!
Not any of your business, so let her do that on her own. No need to add to the divorce issue.
It's not your decision to make! She is far too young anyway, do you want her divorced by 25?? Stay out of it.
Mind your own business.
Keep out. Don't say anything. It is not your life and none of your business.
You've been warned.
its her life and not yours... when she is ready.. she'll be..... what if he just havent popp out the question yet............
Advice her but mind ur own.
stay out of grown folks business
Can somebody file head of household even if he is married and lives with his wife his wife didnt have any inc?
she is a nonresident alien with an itin number she lived with him all year but she did not have any income at all does he still needs to file as marriedCan somebody file head of household even if he is married and lives with his wife his wife didnt have any inc?
he cannot file head of household but they can file married filing jointly even if she did not have income or he can file married filing single however he can not file hoh idon't think but if he has dependants he probaly can i don't know.call irs at 1-800-829-1040 and ask them.Can somebody file head of household even if he is married and lives with his wife his wife didnt have any inc?
She's a resident alien for tax purposes because she lived here all year. A spouse is NEVER a dependent. You are married - you file either married joint or married separate regardless of her income.
If he can claim her as a dependant he can claim Head of household or if they have children, b ut if he cannot claim her he needs to file married - on turbo tax you can try it both ways to see which way it comes out better, but legally as long as they are legitamitly married and he can claim her it should be fine!
She is NOT a non-resident alien unless she is here on an F-1 or J-1 visa.
Living in the US ';all year'; generally meets the 183day substantial presence test.
he cannot file head of household but they can file married filing jointly even if she did not have income or he can file married filing single however he can not file hoh idon't think but if he has dependants he probaly can i don't know.call irs at 1-800-829-1040 and ask them.Can somebody file head of household even if he is married and lives with his wife his wife didnt have any inc?
She's a resident alien for tax purposes because she lived here all year. A spouse is NEVER a dependent. You are married - you file either married joint or married separate regardless of her income.
If he can claim her as a dependant he can claim Head of household or if they have children, b ut if he cannot claim her he needs to file married - on turbo tax you can try it both ways to see which way it comes out better, but legally as long as they are legitamitly married and he can claim her it should be fine!
She is NOT a non-resident alien unless she is here on an F-1 or J-1 visa.
Living in the US ';all year'; generally meets the 183day substantial presence test.
Did Elizabethan women get a choice as to whom they married?
well did they have a choice, please state your resources as this is part of my english GCSE coursewok.Did Elizabethan women get a choice as to whom they married?
Contrary to common belief, women of this period and earlier periods did have the choice of who they wanted to marry and did not want to marry. Sometimes they even went to court to re enforce their decision if their families disagreed with them.
The belief that they did not have the choice was a misconception perpetrated by the Victorian male to subjugate their women. The Victorians distorted a lot of the truth of history to meet and cover up their own failings to society.Did Elizabethan women get a choice as to whom they married?
If you are completing your GCSE course work, you should be at a standard to be able to find this information out in your Learning Resource Centre.
Oh come on. Arranged marriages in England were still going on at the start of WWI.
Don't know why we now think it's such a big deal, when it is still practised.
Contrary to common belief, women of this period and earlier periods did have the choice of who they wanted to marry and did not want to marry. Sometimes they even went to court to re enforce their decision if their families disagreed with them.
The belief that they did not have the choice was a misconception perpetrated by the Victorian male to subjugate their women. The Victorians distorted a lot of the truth of history to meet and cover up their own failings to society.Did Elizabethan women get a choice as to whom they married?
If you are completing your GCSE course work, you should be at a standard to be able to find this information out in your Learning Resource Centre.
Oh come on. Arranged marriages in England were still going on at the start of WWI.
Don't know why we now think it's such a big deal, when it is still practised.
If you are married to a Thai and your spouse dies?
Who gets ownership of the family property if its not in your name? Will you get kicked out of the house that you built? Or will your kids get ownership of it?If you are married to a Thai and your spouse dies?
If you are a foreigner and your name is not on a lease for the house you have little to no rights at all. But better advice is to get a lawyer which I am not. My condolences for you and your family.If you are married to a Thai and your spouse dies?
Thai law says that the properties (and any other assets) that belong to the dead is 50% goes to the spouse, the rest are divided between the kids, brothers, sisters and parents. That is of course without will. If there is a will, then the properties and the rest belong to person in the will.
If such happens, and your wife dies without any other people to inherit all her worldly belongings, all goes to you. Of course, you then will be asked to sell the properties that you cannot own. I strongly believe you will have a period of time doing so. It is pretty much the same as owning more than 49% shares in a company, you won't loose it all. You will be given a period of time for a decent selling off. In any case, all the proceeds will go to you.
The problem is many foreigners buy lands under their husband or wife name. Once they die, there are so many people that you will need to share the assets with.
It will depend on whether the Thai spouse has a will or not.
http://www.in-phuket-realestate.com/succ鈥?/a>
If there is no will, then based on the above link, blood relatives seem to have priority.
If there is a will, then it is a matter of whether the children are Thai citizens. If they are then no problem. If they are not, then you will have to sell the property.
So, the 2 keys to minimizing problems is having a will, if there are children making sure they are Thai citizens so the line of succession is maintained.
Good luck
I live in Phuket Thailand so I can answer this! Ok if you are living in the house and your wife or husband dies (who is Thai) you wont get kicked out of the house the next day however I'm sure you will be asked to leave at some point. It depends on who ';the spouse'; willed it too. And NO the house that you built will not go the kids unless.... They are Thai citizens. If the kids are Thai citizens then you can stay in the house to raise them and you can kind of keep the house! you can also get a Special Visa because you are the kids parent. If the house was willed to lets say her sister or a family member they might just take it or sell it... the rules towards ';foreigners'; in Thailand are just Crazy and they change like every day! I hope this helped?
You have no property rights in Thailand as a foreigner. Better to buy a Condo in your name or a house in the name of a corporation you form (must be 51% owned by a Thai person,wink wink, use a local attorney for incorporation), never in the name of your spouse. Just to avoid the situation you are writing about. I am an expat married to a Thai spouse who I love but I would never put my property in her name.
As you stated, the property is not in your name. If your spouse had a will stating that you kids would obtain ownership to the land, then you might get to continue living in the house. Otherwise, it's up to her next of kin. Don't be surprised if you're asked to pack your bags. That's just the way it is in Thailand, Farangs have NO rights!
I have heard enuf crazy stories, but irregardless of legal matters, if there is someone in the family that you are not aces with, there is a likelihood that they will make your life miserable... maybe more so if you live near any family members - - sorry for your loss and hopefully the family is ';good people'; and will keep the best interest of the children at heart
See the Thailand Land Code section 93. A foreigner can acquire land if they are the statutory heir, subject to approval by the Ministry and some limits on the size of the land.
pack your bags the game is up.........see how quickly the Land of Smiles changes to''Farang get out of my sisters house! We don't want you now kii nok,but can you still send money every month''
If you are a foreigner and your name is not on a lease for the house you have little to no rights at all. But better advice is to get a lawyer which I am not. My condolences for you and your family.If you are married to a Thai and your spouse dies?
Thai law says that the properties (and any other assets) that belong to the dead is 50% goes to the spouse, the rest are divided between the kids, brothers, sisters and parents. That is of course without will. If there is a will, then the properties and the rest belong to person in the will.
If such happens, and your wife dies without any other people to inherit all her worldly belongings, all goes to you. Of course, you then will be asked to sell the properties that you cannot own. I strongly believe you will have a period of time doing so. It is pretty much the same as owning more than 49% shares in a company, you won't loose it all. You will be given a period of time for a decent selling off. In any case, all the proceeds will go to you.
The problem is many foreigners buy lands under their husband or wife name. Once they die, there are so many people that you will need to share the assets with.
It will depend on whether the Thai spouse has a will or not.
http://www.in-phuket-realestate.com/succ鈥?/a>
If there is no will, then based on the above link, blood relatives seem to have priority.
If there is a will, then it is a matter of whether the children are Thai citizens. If they are then no problem. If they are not, then you will have to sell the property.
So, the 2 keys to minimizing problems is having a will, if there are children making sure they are Thai citizens so the line of succession is maintained.
Good luck
I live in Phuket Thailand so I can answer this! Ok if you are living in the house and your wife or husband dies (who is Thai) you wont get kicked out of the house the next day however I'm sure you will be asked to leave at some point. It depends on who ';the spouse'; willed it too. And NO the house that you built will not go the kids unless.... They are Thai citizens. If the kids are Thai citizens then you can stay in the house to raise them and you can kind of keep the house! you can also get a Special Visa because you are the kids parent. If the house was willed to lets say her sister or a family member they might just take it or sell it... the rules towards ';foreigners'; in Thailand are just Crazy and they change like every day! I hope this helped?
You have no property rights in Thailand as a foreigner. Better to buy a Condo in your name or a house in the name of a corporation you form (must be 51% owned by a Thai person,wink wink, use a local attorney for incorporation), never in the name of your spouse. Just to avoid the situation you are writing about. I am an expat married to a Thai spouse who I love but I would never put my property in her name.
As you stated, the property is not in your name. If your spouse had a will stating that you kids would obtain ownership to the land, then you might get to continue living in the house. Otherwise, it's up to her next of kin. Don't be surprised if you're asked to pack your bags. That's just the way it is in Thailand, Farangs have NO rights!
I have heard enuf crazy stories, but irregardless of legal matters, if there is someone in the family that you are not aces with, there is a likelihood that they will make your life miserable... maybe more so if you live near any family members - - sorry for your loss and hopefully the family is ';good people'; and will keep the best interest of the children at heart
See the Thailand Land Code section 93. A foreigner can acquire land if they are the statutory heir, subject to approval by the Ministry and some limits on the size of the land.
pack your bags the game is up.........see how quickly the Land of Smiles changes to''Farang get out of my sisters house! We don't want you now kii nok,but can you still send money every month''
When you are married in vegas, so you get your marraige certificate the same day?
My fiance is from England and is going to move to america via the fiance visa. He is not allowed to apply for a work permit unless he has our marraige certificate. I hear it can take a long time to receive this after you are married, but if you get married in vegas you receive your certificate the same day. is this true?When you are married in vegas, so you get your marraige certificate the same day?
yes its trueWhen you are married in vegas, so you get your marraige certificate the same day?
You get the informal copy of the certificate when you get married, but your officiant has 10 days to register the marriage formally with the Clark County Recorder. You can then apply to the Clark County Recorder 10 days after you marry (sending $10 along with the form you receive when you pick up your marriage licencve) and receive a certified copy of the official certificate.cosmetics products
yes its trueWhen you are married in vegas, so you get your marraige certificate the same day?
You get the informal copy of the certificate when you get married, but your officiant has 10 days to register the marriage formally with the Clark County Recorder. You can then apply to the Clark County Recorder 10 days after you marry (sending $10 along with the form you receive when you pick up your marriage licencve) and receive a certified copy of the official certificate.
Im a 20 yrold college student who wants to get married in 4 months. Will this negatively affect my financial?
im 19 yrs old,and female. i filed as dependent with my dad and mother. I got severa grants and a loan from fafsa. I want to get married in about 4 months and will this affect my future loans and grants? i mean,i really need that money ,so i dont want to risk any decreasement. Any my boyfriend doesnt earn much,prob. about 10,000 yearly.Im a 20 yrold college student who wants to get married in 4 months. Will this negatively affect my financial?
Well, that depends how much you make.
You will become INdependent instead of dependent.
If your combine (You and Husband) is less than what your mother and father make, then you are good, you make get an increase in Aid.
So, 10000 And How much do you make??
That will make the difference, and you can always take out the loans.Im a 20 yrold college student who wants to get married in 4 months. Will this negatively affect my financial?
If you are not sure if your loans and grants will decrease or not after you get married. What I would suggest that you do is call the place where you get your grants and loans from the number should be on the notices they send you eaxch time they inform you of the amount of money you will be receiving and just ask them.
good luck and congrats
Well, that depends how much you make.
You will become INdependent instead of dependent.
If your combine (You and Husband) is less than what your mother and father make, then you are good, you make get an increase in Aid.
So, 10000 And How much do you make??
That will make the difference, and you can always take out the loans.Im a 20 yrold college student who wants to get married in 4 months. Will this negatively affect my financial?
If you are not sure if your loans and grants will decrease or not after you get married. What I would suggest that you do is call the place where you get your grants and loans from the number should be on the notices they send you eaxch time they inform you of the amount of money you will be receiving and just ask them.
good luck and congrats
We have been married 6 days and my husband wants to be with his Friends!Help?
I am a little disappointed that my husband of 6 days has been with his Best-friend ALL day. We have not spent any time ';together'; except sleeping..How do I get my husbands to want to spend time with me?We have been married 6 days and my husband wants to be with his Friends!Help?
First, congrats on the marriage!
Second, chill out. Tell him you'd love to spend time with him too but don't be mean or defensive about it. You are going to be together presumably the rest of your lives. What is one day of spending time with his good friends? Would you appreciate it if he got worked up because you went out with the girls all day?We have been married 6 days and my husband wants to be with his Friends!Help?
You let him go out and pleasantly say have a good time. Anything that shows u wnat to resist him going out will maike him go out more. Its the old ';tell me I cant do it, and i want to do it more.'; rebelious attitude will kick in. Dont show you are dissapointed. But confident in yourself when he is away. Not thinking of only him. He will notice u being confident and want to be with you.
6 days and he can't have a day to spend some time with friends?
I seriously hope that you aren't going to be someone who says, ';My husband went out with his friends this month for an entire day and didn't spend any with me';... when it reaches 30 days.
Is this a everyday thing. If it is put your foot down... If this is only a one time thing then you need to chill and let him have a day a week with his friends..
give him a chance to get used to being married and afterawhile if he still doesn't spend time with you, then let him know politely that you'd like to spend more time with him.
First tell him he needs to take care of you and your needs, If he doesn't change his ways hang-out with your friends and don't give him sex for a few days; Good luck %26amp;Congrats...
dont get all clingy and annoying- (why do women do that?) If he wants to hang out with his friend every once in a while, let him.
6 days...welcome to life. Did you expect to be with him 24/7. Your married now, not stranded on an island.
First, congrats on the marriage!
Second, chill out. Tell him you'd love to spend time with him too but don't be mean or defensive about it. You are going to be together presumably the rest of your lives. What is one day of spending time with his good friends? Would you appreciate it if he got worked up because you went out with the girls all day?We have been married 6 days and my husband wants to be with his Friends!Help?
You let him go out and pleasantly say have a good time. Anything that shows u wnat to resist him going out will maike him go out more. Its the old ';tell me I cant do it, and i want to do it more.'; rebelious attitude will kick in. Dont show you are dissapointed. But confident in yourself when he is away. Not thinking of only him. He will notice u being confident and want to be with you.
6 days and he can't have a day to spend some time with friends?
I seriously hope that you aren't going to be someone who says, ';My husband went out with his friends this month for an entire day and didn't spend any with me';... when it reaches 30 days.
Is this a everyday thing. If it is put your foot down... If this is only a one time thing then you need to chill and let him have a day a week with his friends..
give him a chance to get used to being married and afterawhile if he still doesn't spend time with you, then let him know politely that you'd like to spend more time with him.
First tell him he needs to take care of you and your needs, If he doesn't change his ways hang-out with your friends and don't give him sex for a few days; Good luck %26amp;Congrats...
dont get all clingy and annoying- (why do women do that?) If he wants to hang out with his friend every once in a while, let him.
6 days...welcome to life. Did you expect to be with him 24/7. Your married now, not stranded on an island.
Why do some married men need to sleep around?
Why do they just not leave their spouse?Why do some married men need to sleep around?
It's not always so black and white. Many men (and wives do it too) are still in love with their wives, love their kids, love the family life. But they simply just don't get the action that they desire in the bedroom.
It's really sad.Why do some married men need to sleep around?
I would like to agree and disagree with a few people here.
Humans, like all living creatures have basic instincts.
Men have an instinct to have sex with everybody,because it is their body telling them to impregnate as many females as possible in order to produce many offspring.Females actually have the opposite instinct, their body tells them to be very picky and selective.So based on this,I find it hard to believe that more women cheat, however, both of these instincts can be overcome, as proof, look at all the females out there who are sluts and sleep around with everybody.They are ignoring their body.Look at all the men who choose to look away from slutty girls, and choose not to think dirty thoughts, and stay faithful to their partner.They are ignoring their body.Now, last thing, Katie is an insanely delusional person who will never be happy because they live off of retarded and non-factual beliefs about the world.
For some people (both men and women), the grass is always greener on the other side. And they have to keep checking to see for sure.
Perhaps the question should be, why would someone get married if they are not ready to stop sleeping around? I think these people are causing more damage to the sanctity of marriage than gays are.
Let me give you a different angle - western culture is very sex oriented and there is lots of money to be made from sex. From bill-boards to Magazines,movies, - sex,sex. Sex sells and is ';cool';. Last week I must have counted about 5-10 ***'s I saw on bill boards driving to work.
This is NO excuse to cheat but men who have high sex drive the above added with women who dress slutty and come-on does not help the situation.
If you check cheating men(or women) in western to no western society I met there is a hugh difference.
In response to KATIE.
You are so off base. Actually most men do not cheat. And in reality more women cheat than men, look it up.
You must have been hurt at some point, but don't let that put you off to all men.
Katie is wrong.
Some men sleep around because it makes them feel good physically as well as emotionally. Marriage doesn't have much to do with it.
That said, I'm not one of those men.
becuase they are not sensitive at heart like woman are. Dont get me wrong , some are, but some dcent woman thnk before they act. For all those who cheat curse themselves and sooner than later their punishment will come.
Because he do not want to leave his wife, but for sexual satisfaction he goes else where.But leaving his wife is not a option. HE LOVES HIS WIFE. JUST WANTS SEX.
Kids
Money
House
Its simple. It will cost them more to leave.
They sleep around because they are not getting what they need 100% from their wives.
A natural instinct that has outlived it's usefulness.
The same reason some married women sleep around. So they can have thier cake and eat it, too.
They think it is a macho thing. It impresses their mates. They are all Peter Pans- the little boy who never grew up.
Lack of morals !
They are greedy, selfish, and jerks.
i dont know...they want the best of both worlds
It's not always so black and white. Many men (and wives do it too) are still in love with their wives, love their kids, love the family life. But they simply just don't get the action that they desire in the bedroom.
It's really sad.Why do some married men need to sleep around?
I would like to agree and disagree with a few people here.
Humans, like all living creatures have basic instincts.
Men have an instinct to have sex with everybody,because it is their body telling them to impregnate as many females as possible in order to produce many offspring.Females actually have the opposite instinct, their body tells them to be very picky and selective.So based on this,I find it hard to believe that more women cheat, however, both of these instincts can be overcome, as proof, look at all the females out there who are sluts and sleep around with everybody.They are ignoring their body.Look at all the men who choose to look away from slutty girls, and choose not to think dirty thoughts, and stay faithful to their partner.They are ignoring their body.Now, last thing, Katie is an insanely delusional person who will never be happy because they live off of retarded and non-factual beliefs about the world.
For some people (both men and women), the grass is always greener on the other side. And they have to keep checking to see for sure.
Perhaps the question should be, why would someone get married if they are not ready to stop sleeping around? I think these people are causing more damage to the sanctity of marriage than gays are.
Let me give you a different angle - western culture is very sex oriented and there is lots of money to be made from sex. From bill-boards to Magazines,movies, - sex,sex. Sex sells and is ';cool';. Last week I must have counted about 5-10 ***'s I saw on bill boards driving to work.
This is NO excuse to cheat but men who have high sex drive the above added with women who dress slutty and come-on does not help the situation.
If you check cheating men(or women) in western to no western society I met there is a hugh difference.
In response to KATIE.
You are so off base. Actually most men do not cheat. And in reality more women cheat than men, look it up.
You must have been hurt at some point, but don't let that put you off to all men.
Katie is wrong.
Some men sleep around because it makes them feel good physically as well as emotionally. Marriage doesn't have much to do with it.
That said, I'm not one of those men.
becuase they are not sensitive at heart like woman are. Dont get me wrong , some are, but some dcent woman thnk before they act. For all those who cheat curse themselves and sooner than later their punishment will come.
Because he do not want to leave his wife, but for sexual satisfaction he goes else where.But leaving his wife is not a option. HE LOVES HIS WIFE. JUST WANTS SEX.
Kids
Money
House
Its simple. It will cost them more to leave.
They sleep around because they are not getting what they need 100% from their wives.
A natural instinct that has outlived it's usefulness.
The same reason some married women sleep around. So they can have thier cake and eat it, too.
They think it is a macho thing. It impresses their mates. They are all Peter Pans- the little boy who never grew up.
Lack of morals !
They are greedy, selfish, and jerks.
i dont know...they want the best of both worlds
If you are married to an immigrant what happens when you get divorced and you have children?
She wants desperately to go back to her home country.If you are married to an immigrant what happens when you get divorced and you have children?
Babies born in the US are automatically US citizens. US citizens who give birth to thier child in another country, the child is a citizen of that country and must go through legal process to become a US citizen. Whether it is legal for her to take her children to her home country all depends on if you want to fight it I guess. Call immegration they will speak to you on this.
Babies born in the US are automatically US citizens. US citizens who give birth to thier child in another country, the child is a citizen of that country and must go through legal process to become a US citizen. Whether it is legal for her to take her children to her home country all depends on if you want to fight it I guess. Call immegration they will speak to you on this.
I am getting married in Cambodia.Do i have to live in Cam for a time period before we go to the states?
Is the 130 form the best to file to get her into the USA? I work in Iraq so I am trying to figure when we get married if i have to stay there in cam for any amount of time. Also, once she is approved how much time does the Gov offer her to get to the USA before the paperwork expires?I am getting married in Cambodia.Do i have to live in Cam for a time period before we go to the states?
Contact the Cambodian embassy and ask them, but if both of you are in a different country and you want to bring her home with you then you need to contact the American embassy there in Iraq and find out.
Contact the Cambodian embassy and ask them, but if both of you are in a different country and you want to bring her home with you then you need to contact the American embassy there in Iraq and find out.
What percent of married women work in the us?
I was just wondering,,?
and do guys pay for girls on dates? or just share the bill??What percent of married women work in the us?
i dont know the % for women working in us but i do. on all my dates ive been on i have the guy pay the first few times then i treat him to something u gotta keep it even lol that's just me though i would feel bad if i kept my husband paying for all of our dates.What percent of married women work in the us?
the percentage is getting smaller with more people out of work. Paying depends on the relationship. For me, my last husband gave me his paychecks so i paid, this time he pays, either way men pay. Any self respecting man. The ones that don't, usually have a string of other issues that follow.
It's around 80%.
However, men consider an insult if you try to pay. A woman paying for a date indicates that she does not want to be indebted to him. And thus, she does not want to date him or have him court her as a provider.
Good Luck!
I think they share. High percentage works. more than not.
I think 79%cosmetics products
and do guys pay for girls on dates? or just share the bill??What percent of married women work in the us?
i dont know the % for women working in us but i do. on all my dates ive been on i have the guy pay the first few times then i treat him to something u gotta keep it even lol that's just me though i would feel bad if i kept my husband paying for all of our dates.What percent of married women work in the us?
the percentage is getting smaller with more people out of work. Paying depends on the relationship. For me, my last husband gave me his paychecks so i paid, this time he pays, either way men pay. Any self respecting man. The ones that don't, usually have a string of other issues that follow.
It's around 80%.
However, men consider an insult if you try to pay. A woman paying for a date indicates that she does not want to be indebted to him. And thus, she does not want to date him or have him court her as a provider.
Good Luck!
I think they share. High percentage works. more than not.
I think 79%
If I get married, does that mean I can't file separate taxes?
I want to get my taxes done at a different place, and so does sheIf I get married, does that mean I can't file separate taxes?
You do have the option to file separately but in most cases you get a better refund if you file jointly. Are there past due debts involved that would make you want to file separately?If I get married, does that mean I can't file separate taxes?
You can file as married filing separately, but it will almost certainly cost you more in total taxes than filing a joint return.
you can file separately
You do have the option to file separately but in most cases you get a better refund if you file jointly. Are there past due debts involved that would make you want to file separately?If I get married, does that mean I can't file separate taxes?
You can file as married filing separately, but it will almost certainly cost you more in total taxes than filing a joint return.
you can file separately
Can you get married if you are pregnant and 17 in Georgia?
Can you get married without parental consent if you are pregnant and 17 in the state of Georgia?Can you get married if you are pregnant and 17 in Georgia?
Yes you should be able to.
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you may apply if accompanied by both parents who have given written consent. If the bride is pregnant, no parental consent is required if you submit a statement from a licensed physician certifying that the bride is pregnant.
This can always change, I would ask the courthouse or someone who would know to be certain.Can you get married if you are pregnant and 17 in Georgia?
There is one city in Georgia that allows this. Or at least they did in the 90s, not sure if they still do. I'm sorry I can't remember the name of it. Try googling something like underage marriage in GA.
EDIT: I just googled it for you and I don't think they allow that anymore. Sounds like there is no way for you to get around the parental consent issue.
BTW sorry so many people are being mean to you on here.
Pregnancy has nothing to do with being able to get married.
You can get married when you are 17; however you need your parents to sign a form to okay it. And don't think you can get a friend to forge the signature. Your parents (or parent) need to sign it, in person, in front of a judge. Hope that helps.
No, you need your parents' permission. You can get married in GA at 16, but again, parents' approval, and in some counties, judge's approval. Maybe other states are different?
No you can't, pregnant or not. You have to be 18 years old unless you have parental consent. You're going to have to ask your parents or wait a year.
I THINK THAT YOU HAVE TO HAVE A CERTAIN AGE OF 18 2 GET MARRIED IN THE SITUATION OF BEING PREGNANT.
I think you can elope(how ever its spelled), which is a ';marriage'; with out your wedding licence, lots of young couples do that then once ther are settled they have a real wedding.
not without parental consent unless you are emancipated..you can divorce your parents %26amp; get married..
You probably have to have you parents sign papers. I suggest you wait to get married. You never know what the future brings! G/L either way!!
i think you have to be at least 18 years old to get married in the whole United States.. but you can search it up.
No. And its a good thing. Most children don't know what ';marriage'; even means.
Nope.
i believe so.
Nope
im sure with your parents permission you could
my granny and ma was married younger than that and we done all right. why don't you mind your own dang business, stranger.
go look it up...why are you asking us.
Yes you should be able to.
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you may apply if accompanied by both parents who have given written consent. If the bride is pregnant, no parental consent is required if you submit a statement from a licensed physician certifying that the bride is pregnant.
This can always change, I would ask the courthouse or someone who would know to be certain.Can you get married if you are pregnant and 17 in Georgia?
There is one city in Georgia that allows this. Or at least they did in the 90s, not sure if they still do. I'm sorry I can't remember the name of it. Try googling something like underage marriage in GA.
EDIT: I just googled it for you and I don't think they allow that anymore. Sounds like there is no way for you to get around the parental consent issue.
BTW sorry so many people are being mean to you on here.
Pregnancy has nothing to do with being able to get married.
You can get married when you are 17; however you need your parents to sign a form to okay it. And don't think you can get a friend to forge the signature. Your parents (or parent) need to sign it, in person, in front of a judge. Hope that helps.
No, you need your parents' permission. You can get married in GA at 16, but again, parents' approval, and in some counties, judge's approval. Maybe other states are different?
No you can't, pregnant or not. You have to be 18 years old unless you have parental consent. You're going to have to ask your parents or wait a year.
I THINK THAT YOU HAVE TO HAVE A CERTAIN AGE OF 18 2 GET MARRIED IN THE SITUATION OF BEING PREGNANT.
I think you can elope(how ever its spelled), which is a ';marriage'; with out your wedding licence, lots of young couples do that then once ther are settled they have a real wedding.
not without parental consent unless you are emancipated..you can divorce your parents %26amp; get married..
You probably have to have you parents sign papers. I suggest you wait to get married. You never know what the future brings! G/L either way!!
i think you have to be at least 18 years old to get married in the whole United States.. but you can search it up.
No. And its a good thing. Most children don't know what ';marriage'; even means.
Nope.
i believe so.
Nope
im sure with your parents permission you could
my granny and ma was married younger than that and we done all right. why don't you mind your own dang business, stranger.
go look it up...why are you asking us.
Has anyone gotten married in Vegas and had an officiant that you would recommend?
I'm looking for an offiicant for my wedding in Vegas next year and not from the area. I've looked online but not sure...Has anyone gotten married in Vegas and had an officiant that you would recommend?
I do not know of anyone in particular, but many of the chapels have a requirement you use their officiant or pay a substantial fee for using your own. But, if you find one you're comfortable with then it will be with the money.
One thing you may do is look on line and ';interview'; either over the phone or via email, officiants to find one you think will be compatible.
Best of luck in your search and congratulations on the upcoming marriage.Has anyone gotten married in Vegas and had an officiant that you would recommend?
There are so many it's difficult to choose, but we did our civil ceremony at the Little White Wedding Chapel Drive-Thru. The vows made us both cry. We're doing our formal ceremony at the Venetian, in a gondola. I guess for us it's more about the venue and atmosphere. With things as tight as they are now though, you can bet that the bad ones don't stay in business long. I'm still doing dome research for the wedding that I'm MOH in, so 'mail me sometime and I'll see what I can find. I need details; Where are you getting married, what time of day and year, what kind of theme are you going for? Let me know.
Congratulations!
I do not know of anyone in particular, but many of the chapels have a requirement you use their officiant or pay a substantial fee for using your own. But, if you find one you're comfortable with then it will be with the money.
One thing you may do is look on line and ';interview'; either over the phone or via email, officiants to find one you think will be compatible.
Best of luck in your search and congratulations on the upcoming marriage.Has anyone gotten married in Vegas and had an officiant that you would recommend?
There are so many it's difficult to choose, but we did our civil ceremony at the Little White Wedding Chapel Drive-Thru. The vows made us both cry. We're doing our formal ceremony at the Venetian, in a gondola. I guess for us it's more about the venue and atmosphere. With things as tight as they are now though, you can bet that the bad ones don't stay in business long. I'm still doing dome research for the wedding that I'm MOH in, so 'mail me sometime and I'll see what I can find. I need details; Where are you getting married, what time of day and year, what kind of theme are you going for? Let me know.
Congratulations!
I just got married and I'm not a good cook.....please help?
Just a few months ago I married this amazing man, but I'm not to creative when it comes to cooking. Please help with some ideas. You know, simple and easy.
He really enjoys steak and seafood, but we alos like fresh veggies, rice, and pasta! Thanks for the help.I just got married and I'm not a good cook.....please help?
Buy a cookbook. No I'm serious. My mom wouldn't teach me how to cook, she shaid she didn't want to waste food. Nice huh.
When I moved out with my fiance I had to teach myself. I had a Betty Crocker cookbook. It is the best for first time cooks. Truth is experience is the best instructor you will ever have.
If you can read, you can cook. Simple as that.
The Betty Crocker cookbook has timetables of cooking meats, whats-what in the herbage and spice dept. and troubleshooting in the baking department. It also has sections devoted to meat, fish vegetables etc etc.
It has recipes from pancakes to ratatouille and roast leg of lamb
Creativity comes later, once you have had a few years experienceI just got married and I'm not a good cook.....please help?
Get some cookbooks. Read them. Take some cooking classes. Cook with your husband to create meals you both love.
I wish I could give you cooking lessons but since thats not an option I'm going to suggest you invest in a ';betty crocker step by step cook book';. This cook book saved my mom who only knew how to mac hamburgers and mac n cheese when she first got married. she quickly learned and got creative
Stir fry is pretty easy- cook beef strips, chicken, or shrimp and drain-add fresh stir fry style veggies(Itend to use the frozen) and store bought stir fry sauce. combine until heated through and the veggies are tender/crisp. Serve over cooked rice or ramen noodles. You can add 1 can of drained mandarin oranges very last and top with almonds or sesame seeds.
I have found that the best and easiest recipes are one skillet or casserole style when you are learning to cook. Also watch the food network if its available to you. I have learned so muich from watching.
You're lucky...you have plenty of options. How about:
Pesto on Penne pasta (sautee some extra garlic in olive oil and mix with the sauce)
Grilled chicken (do you have a foreman?)
Sliced tomatoes
find you a really good quick and easy cookbook...
Simple and easy is always the best ticket. I noticed that y'all like fresh veggies, why not take some fresh veggies (brocolli *sp* carrots, water chestnuts, and a few others of your choice) and some chicken breast (chopped or whole) and make some chicken stir fry? All you have to do is cook your chicken and veggies, pour the mixture over some rice and you have chicken stir fry with rice. :)
Another easy recipe is Sheppards Pie:
1lb ground beef cooked and drained *seasoned to your tastes*
Mashed potatoes *seasoned to your taste*
Finely shredded cheese *whatever type you like, my personal favorite however is a mexican blend*
Preheat oven to 350. In a glass baking dish layer: potatoes-meat-cheese until the dish is full, having cheese as the top layer. Put dish in oven for 15-20 min or until cheese is melted. Remove from oven and serve.
I hope these help a little bit, if you need/want any other recipes, feel free to email me at rikkijolene@yahoo.com
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Hi!
Get a flank or skirt steak. Grill it or cook it in a grill pan. Buy the Penzey's spices chicago steak seasoning. Shake all over the steak. Sear the steak on both sides to carmelize, then turn heat down and cook to desired doneness.
Remove steak from heat and let it rest to redistribute the juices - don't cut it yet. It's fine to serve at room temp.
Prepare a salad of fresh baby spinach, fresh veggies (cooked or not) I've even put sauteed canned corn and it tastes great. You alsmost can't go wrong with the veggies you choose. They veggies taste better if sauteed in olive oil with a little onion and mushroom.
Heap all salad/ veggies, in bowl. I like to add avocado and goat cheese, but you can add anything you want!!!
Then layer sloced ssteak on top. Salt and pepper the entire plate. Then I drizzle with a little olive oil and balsamic vinegar to taste.
To really ';supe'; it up...mix mayo with a little olive oil, salt and pepper, garlic powder, a shake or two of dried basil, and fineley chopped sun dried tomatoes (avail in the grocery store, already sliced and in really flavorful oil...) Mix well together and put a dollop on the steak.
Never fails to please and is EASY, I promise!
good luck
I have a couple of easy reciepes
Soy Chicken:
3-4 Chick breast (boneless skinless works the best)
1cup soy sauce
1cup sugar
2-3 cups rice (depending on how big of an eater)
bring the soy sauce and sugar to a rapid boil and your chicken (i usually cut into squares)
while that is cooking I cook my rice (follow directions on box)
I use the minute rice (red box)
any other simple reciepes send me an email and I will be glad to share.
I learned to cook with a good cookbook when I got married. I messed up alot of things but my dear sweet hubby didn't mind...I would get a cookbook with pics so you will know what the dish is supposed to look like. Good luck,have patience....Also there are SO many cooking shows now on the foodnetwork...try watching them if you can access them.
Don't worry Becky.
It is quite common for new husbands to be fed like Gods, i.e. they have burnt offerings placed before them.
My suggestion is to buy a couple of good cookbooks, Betty Crocker, Better Homes, the Fanny Farmer Cooking School Cookbook and The Joy of Cooking are all great choices, and start experimenting.
In a few months you will be doing fine and you will be able to laugh about some of your beginner mistakes.
If it is any comfort, my first wife could barely boil water when we married, but she became a fairly good cook. My current wife was a great cook when I married her.
Doc
You will get the hang of it after a while. I suggest going on-line and checking out one of my favorite sites, www.allrecipes.com. It has some great things in there and you can also search a recipe by cut of meat, quick and easy, and etc. It helps me out when I want something new to cook for my family. Good Luck!!!
Have him cook?
Go to www.foodnetwork.com . They have tons and tons of recipes. They range from easy to hard to make and it tells you that on each recipe. Just to a search for steak, seafood, or pastas and you'll get tons of different dishes. I use this site very often and I look like a 5 star chef!!! I love it.
Here's a 64-year-old solution. My mother ran into the same problem when she married my father in 1943. So, being a scholarly type, she bought a copy of (1) the Fanny Farmer Cook Book and (2) the Joy of Cooking cookbook. From these, you can learn everything: the recipes are easy, the books have been updated for modern equipment, and they're available in paperback form from any bookstore or Amazon.com.
I've been married for 14 years and I still can't cook!!
peanut butter
eat out compensate by being great in bed buy him a grill this year or buy meals in a bag or a crockpot
He really enjoys steak and seafood, but we alos like fresh veggies, rice, and pasta! Thanks for the help.I just got married and I'm not a good cook.....please help?
Buy a cookbook. No I'm serious. My mom wouldn't teach me how to cook, she shaid she didn't want to waste food. Nice huh.
When I moved out with my fiance I had to teach myself. I had a Betty Crocker cookbook. It is the best for first time cooks. Truth is experience is the best instructor you will ever have.
If you can read, you can cook. Simple as that.
The Betty Crocker cookbook has timetables of cooking meats, whats-what in the herbage and spice dept. and troubleshooting in the baking department. It also has sections devoted to meat, fish vegetables etc etc.
It has recipes from pancakes to ratatouille and roast leg of lamb
Creativity comes later, once you have had a few years experienceI just got married and I'm not a good cook.....please help?
Get some cookbooks. Read them. Take some cooking classes. Cook with your husband to create meals you both love.
I wish I could give you cooking lessons but since thats not an option I'm going to suggest you invest in a ';betty crocker step by step cook book';. This cook book saved my mom who only knew how to mac hamburgers and mac n cheese when she first got married. she quickly learned and got creative
Stir fry is pretty easy- cook beef strips, chicken, or shrimp and drain-add fresh stir fry style veggies(Itend to use the frozen) and store bought stir fry sauce. combine until heated through and the veggies are tender/crisp. Serve over cooked rice or ramen noodles. You can add 1 can of drained mandarin oranges very last and top with almonds or sesame seeds.
I have found that the best and easiest recipes are one skillet or casserole style when you are learning to cook. Also watch the food network if its available to you. I have learned so muich from watching.
You're lucky...you have plenty of options. How about:
Pesto on Penne pasta (sautee some extra garlic in olive oil and mix with the sauce)
Grilled chicken (do you have a foreman?)
Sliced tomatoes
find you a really good quick and easy cookbook...
Simple and easy is always the best ticket. I noticed that y'all like fresh veggies, why not take some fresh veggies (brocolli *sp* carrots, water chestnuts, and a few others of your choice) and some chicken breast (chopped or whole) and make some chicken stir fry? All you have to do is cook your chicken and veggies, pour the mixture over some rice and you have chicken stir fry with rice. :)
Another easy recipe is Sheppards Pie:
1lb ground beef cooked and drained *seasoned to your tastes*
Mashed potatoes *seasoned to your taste*
Finely shredded cheese *whatever type you like, my personal favorite however is a mexican blend*
Preheat oven to 350. In a glass baking dish layer: potatoes-meat-cheese until the dish is full, having cheese as the top layer. Put dish in oven for 15-20 min or until cheese is melted. Remove from oven and serve.
I hope these help a little bit, if you need/want any other recipes, feel free to email me at rikkijolene@yahoo.com
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Hi!
Get a flank or skirt steak. Grill it or cook it in a grill pan. Buy the Penzey's spices chicago steak seasoning. Shake all over the steak. Sear the steak on both sides to carmelize, then turn heat down and cook to desired doneness.
Remove steak from heat and let it rest to redistribute the juices - don't cut it yet. It's fine to serve at room temp.
Prepare a salad of fresh baby spinach, fresh veggies (cooked or not) I've even put sauteed canned corn and it tastes great. You alsmost can't go wrong with the veggies you choose. They veggies taste better if sauteed in olive oil with a little onion and mushroom.
Heap all salad/ veggies, in bowl. I like to add avocado and goat cheese, but you can add anything you want!!!
Then layer sloced ssteak on top. Salt and pepper the entire plate. Then I drizzle with a little olive oil and balsamic vinegar to taste.
To really ';supe'; it up...mix mayo with a little olive oil, salt and pepper, garlic powder, a shake or two of dried basil, and fineley chopped sun dried tomatoes (avail in the grocery store, already sliced and in really flavorful oil...) Mix well together and put a dollop on the steak.
Never fails to please and is EASY, I promise!
good luck
I have a couple of easy reciepes
Soy Chicken:
3-4 Chick breast (boneless skinless works the best)
1cup soy sauce
1cup sugar
2-3 cups rice (depending on how big of an eater)
bring the soy sauce and sugar to a rapid boil and your chicken (i usually cut into squares)
while that is cooking I cook my rice (follow directions on box)
I use the minute rice (red box)
any other simple reciepes send me an email and I will be glad to share.
I learned to cook with a good cookbook when I got married. I messed up alot of things but my dear sweet hubby didn't mind...I would get a cookbook with pics so you will know what the dish is supposed to look like. Good luck,have patience....Also there are SO many cooking shows now on the foodnetwork...try watching them if you can access them.
Don't worry Becky.
It is quite common for new husbands to be fed like Gods, i.e. they have burnt offerings placed before them.
My suggestion is to buy a couple of good cookbooks, Betty Crocker, Better Homes, the Fanny Farmer Cooking School Cookbook and The Joy of Cooking are all great choices, and start experimenting.
In a few months you will be doing fine and you will be able to laugh about some of your beginner mistakes.
If it is any comfort, my first wife could barely boil water when we married, but she became a fairly good cook. My current wife was a great cook when I married her.
Doc
You will get the hang of it after a while. I suggest going on-line and checking out one of my favorite sites, www.allrecipes.com. It has some great things in there and you can also search a recipe by cut of meat, quick and easy, and etc. It helps me out when I want something new to cook for my family. Good Luck!!!
Have him cook?
Go to www.foodnetwork.com . They have tons and tons of recipes. They range from easy to hard to make and it tells you that on each recipe. Just to a search for steak, seafood, or pastas and you'll get tons of different dishes. I use this site very often and I look like a 5 star chef!!! I love it.
Here's a 64-year-old solution. My mother ran into the same problem when she married my father in 1943. So, being a scholarly type, she bought a copy of (1) the Fanny Farmer Cook Book and (2) the Joy of Cooking cookbook. From these, you can learn everything: the recipes are easy, the books have been updated for modern equipment, and they're available in paperback form from any bookstore or Amazon.com.
I've been married for 14 years and I still can't cook!!
peanut butter
eat out compensate by being great in bed buy him a grill this year or buy meals in a bag or a crockpot
Does the IRS allways check to see if people are married when they file jointly on taxes?
No, they don't always check, but it can happen. Don't cheat and claim you are married if you aren't - the trouble you can cause yourself by doing that isn't worth taking the chance.Does the IRS allways check to see if people are married when they file jointly on taxes?
Whew, first you want to ';live in sin'; and then you want to lie about it to the IRS? What's wrong with a marriage ceremony? That's a federal crime to lie on a tax return!Does the IRS allways check to see if people are married when they file jointly on taxes?
how do you suggest the IRS go about this? Do you know of any magical database listing all the married people in the US?
Whew, first you want to ';live in sin'; and then you want to lie about it to the IRS? What's wrong with a marriage ceremony? That's a federal crime to lie on a tax return!Does the IRS allways check to see if people are married when they file jointly on taxes?
how do you suggest the IRS go about this? Do you know of any magical database listing all the married people in the US?
If you are married filing jointly and one of you owes child support do they seize your eic for the other kids?
in your household, I know your spouce can file injured spouce and get their money back but do they give them all of the eic too?If you are married filing jointly and one of you owes child support do they seize your eic for the other kids?
If you file jointly you are both liable for the other one's debts.If you are married filing jointly and one of you owes child support do they seize your eic for the other kids?
They could do it, but its not the first thing they would do. If the spouse who continues to owe and ignores the IRS, they will eventually garnish wages, hold refunds, and put liens on property if the non payment continues. Whichever of you owes, should pay it off.cosmetics products
If you file jointly you are both liable for the other one's debts.If you are married filing jointly and one of you owes child support do they seize your eic for the other kids?
They could do it, but its not the first thing they would do. If the spouse who continues to owe and ignores the IRS, they will eventually garnish wages, hold refunds, and put liens on property if the non payment continues. Whichever of you owes, should pay it off.
When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
I was talking to my boyfriend on AIM and he was thinking of getting married in 2 to three years and I was wondering if that would be a good tie to get married! We also want to have like two kids but idk wen would b the best time to do so!When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
The best age is when you feel its right. I just got married and I am 24 and plan on having kids fairly soon. My husband is 29 and we want to have kids at a point when they get older we will still be somewhat yound and be able to play sports with them when they become teenagers. When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
I believe there is no right age to get married or right number of children. If you both believe that you will be no happier with any other person the rest of your life, go for it. If you want a longer relationship or a long engagement, its up to you. You don't have to get married at all to be together. And you may realize just one kid is enough once you have one, or you may be surpprised to feel like you are meant to be a mom and want 6 little ones. Just be sure you are financially stable for both scenarios and you both have the same morals. If all is well, head to Vegas this weekend, just do good and be happy.
There is no ';best age';.. but if there were I would bet it would be after you learned the word ';the'; instead of ';da';.
Anyway. As I said, there is no right time or age. Everyone matures differently. When the time is right for you, both you and your boyfriend will know. You should be financially stable and mentally stable. YOu should be able to live on your own with out support from either parents.
There is no right age. But you will know when you are ready. You are probably asking because you are excited. But also know that if you were ready...you wouldn't have to ask. It's great that you are asking the opinion of others. it shows great maturity. Think about how long you've been dating. Talk more about it with him in person. talk about what goals you each have in life and what you want to accomplish independently. Each of these things are important going into such a big decision. The most common thing that happens is that the girl gets so swept up in the excitment that she loses a little bit of herself along the way. Stay focused on what you need along this journey and have a good time doing it. Hope some of this helped.
When you stop writing like you're 14 years old and when you stop talking about important subjects (like marriage) via AIM. Also, if you have to ask what's good timing for you ( a person I've never met), then you aren't ready. When you're ready, you're ready. There are no doubts.
depends on your age now, and maturity level, not only of the two of you, but the matruity of your love and relationship.
~C
Whenever you feel ready. Same with having kids. It's your personal decision. The divorce rate is certainly high. Even people who get married after 30 still get divorced frequently.
I'd wait at least until you can write properly like an adult and not use childish text-speak and slang - especially if you plan to have children.
After you are mature enough to deal with every that comes with marriage and having children. First you need to learn how to talk like an adult and not a child.
When you can support yourself and have an education.
When you find Mr./Miss Right and can comfortably afford to do so ( in both situations).
for marraige you should wait til you are in your late 20s. i'd say around 27. and for children wait until you are over 30.
when you are really ready
I think eveyone should wait until after 30 for both. Any younger than that practically guarantees divorce.
The best age is when you feel its right. I just got married and I am 24 and plan on having kids fairly soon. My husband is 29 and we want to have kids at a point when they get older we will still be somewhat yound and be able to play sports with them when they become teenagers. When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
I believe there is no right age to get married or right number of children. If you both believe that you will be no happier with any other person the rest of your life, go for it. If you want a longer relationship or a long engagement, its up to you. You don't have to get married at all to be together. And you may realize just one kid is enough once you have one, or you may be surpprised to feel like you are meant to be a mom and want 6 little ones. Just be sure you are financially stable for both scenarios and you both have the same morals. If all is well, head to Vegas this weekend, just do good and be happy.
There is no ';best age';.. but if there were I would bet it would be after you learned the word ';the'; instead of ';da';.
Anyway. As I said, there is no right time or age. Everyone matures differently. When the time is right for you, both you and your boyfriend will know. You should be financially stable and mentally stable. YOu should be able to live on your own with out support from either parents.
There is no right age. But you will know when you are ready. You are probably asking because you are excited. But also know that if you were ready...you wouldn't have to ask. It's great that you are asking the opinion of others. it shows great maturity. Think about how long you've been dating. Talk more about it with him in person. talk about what goals you each have in life and what you want to accomplish independently. Each of these things are important going into such a big decision. The most common thing that happens is that the girl gets so swept up in the excitment that she loses a little bit of herself along the way. Stay focused on what you need along this journey and have a good time doing it. Hope some of this helped.
When you stop writing like you're 14 years old and when you stop talking about important subjects (like marriage) via AIM. Also, if you have to ask what's good timing for you ( a person I've never met), then you aren't ready. When you're ready, you're ready. There are no doubts.
depends on your age now, and maturity level, not only of the two of you, but the matruity of your love and relationship.
~C
Whenever you feel ready. Same with having kids. It's your personal decision. The divorce rate is certainly high. Even people who get married after 30 still get divorced frequently.
I'd wait at least until you can write properly like an adult and not use childish text-speak and slang - especially if you plan to have children.
After you are mature enough to deal with every that comes with marriage and having children. First you need to learn how to talk like an adult and not a child.
When you can support yourself and have an education.
When you find Mr./Miss Right and can comfortably afford to do so ( in both situations).
for marraige you should wait til you are in your late 20s. i'd say around 27. and for children wait until you are over 30.
when you are really ready
I think eveyone should wait until after 30 for both. Any younger than that practically guarantees divorce.
What do you look forward to the most about getting married?
And if you are married, did your expectations on marraige change? How?What do you look forward to the most about getting married?
Honestly? Just being married....it had nothing to do with the day, the decorations, the music. Just my husband and I promising our lives to each other.
My husband and I knew that it would be an adjustment and that there would be struggles. As long as we are together and talk things through, it turns out well in the end.What do you look forward to the most about getting married?
i got married on the 1st and I'm sooo happy!! i love the married life so far, the most exciting thing and what i looked forward to the most was having my family and God see how much i love this man and how i want to give the rest of my life to him, everyone said they have never seen me so happy.
I am looking forward to having someone to come home to every day. Someone who loves me and accepts me for who I am. I am looking forward to the challenges that will make our marriage stronger, and the opportunity to be with my best friend forever. PLUS all the extra stuff like the actual wedding, the kids, the future pets/mayhem...
I most looked forward to starting our married life together and being a ';real'; couple. If you mean what did I look forward to most about the actual day itself (as opposed the marriage) it was hosting the reception party and looking after our friends and family and making sure they had a good day.
It sounds oh so cliche, but I'm so excited to get to marry my best friend... sorry if that disappoints some people!
u look forward to starting a new life wit the one tht u love and adore and being able to get old wit tht person and having kids wit tht person and jst everything wit that person u love so much im not married but when i do i cant wait it will b the best day of my life being able to wake up to the one tht i love and knowin tht he is urs for the rest of ur life
There are so many things I'm looking forward to. A few things that will happen when we are married that aren't happening currently is we will be able to get a place together and make it OURS. We're not going to live together until we're married. It will be nice being able to have people over, to sleep in on Saturdays, just to make memories together and not have to say goodbye at the end of the night.
Soo....I'm also looking forward to getting to have sex LOL We are waiting until we're married to have sex also and it will be nice to finally make love to the man I love that I get to call my husband.
I know, a very cheesy answer, but I'm very serious. I make it sound like we're young, but I'm 28 and he's 37. We didn't do our former relationships right, but this one we are and we are so blessed for it!
I know you are suppose to say, a lifelong marriage. But, I'm going to assume this is a given for this answer.
The biggest thing I'm looking foward to is the reception. I can't wait to create new memories with my hubby and with my closet friends and family. Anytime family comes together, it should fun. I'm looking foward to dancing with my hubby and socializing with all my guests.
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I just can't wait to start our life together. I actually look forward to doing mundane things of everyday life together. Sounds silly, I know, but it's true!
The thing(s) I look forward to the most about getting married is that I know from that day forward I will always have a best friend no matter what, and that our families will be expanded. There will be the opportunity to keep MY family traditions alive and to begin new ones with my new family (as we plan on having kids down the line). I LOVE his family, and can't wait to become a part of it. His niece and nephew already think of me as an aunt, but it's not the same until you actually ARE.
children! and a life long committment! a big one at that :)
Honestly? Just being married....it had nothing to do with the day, the decorations, the music. Just my husband and I promising our lives to each other.
My husband and I knew that it would be an adjustment and that there would be struggles. As long as we are together and talk things through, it turns out well in the end.What do you look forward to the most about getting married?
i got married on the 1st and I'm sooo happy!! i love the married life so far, the most exciting thing and what i looked forward to the most was having my family and God see how much i love this man and how i want to give the rest of my life to him, everyone said they have never seen me so happy.
I am looking forward to having someone to come home to every day. Someone who loves me and accepts me for who I am. I am looking forward to the challenges that will make our marriage stronger, and the opportunity to be with my best friend forever. PLUS all the extra stuff like the actual wedding, the kids, the future pets/mayhem...
I most looked forward to starting our married life together and being a ';real'; couple. If you mean what did I look forward to most about the actual day itself (as opposed the marriage) it was hosting the reception party and looking after our friends and family and making sure they had a good day.
It sounds oh so cliche, but I'm so excited to get to marry my best friend... sorry if that disappoints some people!
u look forward to starting a new life wit the one tht u love and adore and being able to get old wit tht person and having kids wit tht person and jst everything wit that person u love so much im not married but when i do i cant wait it will b the best day of my life being able to wake up to the one tht i love and knowin tht he is urs for the rest of ur life
There are so many things I'm looking forward to. A few things that will happen when we are married that aren't happening currently is we will be able to get a place together and make it OURS. We're not going to live together until we're married. It will be nice being able to have people over, to sleep in on Saturdays, just to make memories together and not have to say goodbye at the end of the night.
Soo....I'm also looking forward to getting to have sex LOL We are waiting until we're married to have sex also and it will be nice to finally make love to the man I love that I get to call my husband.
I know, a very cheesy answer, but I'm very serious. I make it sound like we're young, but I'm 28 and he's 37. We didn't do our former relationships right, but this one we are and we are so blessed for it!
I know you are suppose to say, a lifelong marriage. But, I'm going to assume this is a given for this answer.
The biggest thing I'm looking foward to is the reception. I can't wait to create new memories with my hubby and with my closet friends and family. Anytime family comes together, it should fun. I'm looking foward to dancing with my hubby and socializing with all my guests.
Free laundry service!!!
I just can't wait to start our life together. I actually look forward to doing mundane things of everyday life together. Sounds silly, I know, but it's true!
The thing(s) I look forward to the most about getting married is that I know from that day forward I will always have a best friend no matter what, and that our families will be expanded. There will be the opportunity to keep MY family traditions alive and to begin new ones with my new family (as we plan on having kids down the line). I LOVE his family, and can't wait to become a part of it. His niece and nephew already think of me as an aunt, but it's not the same until you actually ARE.
children! and a life long committment! a big one at that :)
What are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
They got married 1 yr. ago,the lady has a daughter but not married to the father. Now that she is married to an American,the gut want them to follow him in the US.What are the necessary documentsto be prepared for a Filipina married to an American National.?
The second guy, not the child's father?
Well, a spouse visa, I would imagine, but since the child is not the second guy's, don't know if the child can come.
The second guy, not the child's father?
Well, a spouse visa, I would imagine, but since the child is not the second guy's, don't know if the child can come.
Second time getting married, will have a beach wedding what type of dress should I wear?
I don't want a traditional wedding gown but I want something feminine. I have not found anything suitable. Where are some good locations to look?Second time getting married, will have a beach wedding what type of dress should I wear?
Maybe something white, light with see thru lacy short dress?
http://www.celebritycowboy.com/pamela-an鈥?/a>Second time getting married, will have a beach wedding what type of dress should I wear?
wear a grass skirt
One of those cool hawaiian things idk waht dey r called
best wear nothing..
Since there are less and less church weddings, and more beach weddings, it is easier to find a dress. Most of the wedding stores carry short yet bridal dresses.
Try the department stores that have bridal departments pick up a copy of one of the Bride's magazines for help. JC Penney has them, whoever said that first is right.
You could opt for something beachy and casual, like a sun dress, or just pick a short wedding dress that is not too fussy. Something cool and comfortable and airy would be nice, in case it is hot. Consider wearing something that is not white, or has some color in it/on it.
Lace would be fine. Be careful not to choose something with a full skirt, the breeze at the beach might reveal more of you than you had planned.
Consider finding a seamstress to make you a dress, since the winter months are almost here, it might be harder to find a white dress.
My best friend got married on the beach in Samoa last year. She wore a beautiful mid-length dress (to her mid calves), very soft and flowing, in shades of blue.
It has very thin straps and a wide skirt which has 'splits' around it, so it flowed really beautifully, especially when a little breeze picked up.
She pulled her hair up on top of her head with a few loose strands coming down around her face and wore blue and silver jewellery.
She looked amazing!
Her hubby wore a hawaiin shirt and longer length shorts.
They were both barefoot and had frangipani flowers in their hair (a traditional Samoan thing).
It was just beautiful, and knowing them, it was the perfect setting for them to start their life together.
Because it's the beach, don't be too formal, something lightweight and flowing is lovely, fairly casual is fine!
Mostly, what you wear should be someting you feel comfortable and special in.
The sites below have some nice dresses and gowns for special occasions (the second link even has pics of 'casual' brides and grooms on their wedding days) ~ have a wonderful wedding :-)
Cheers :-)
If its a beach wedding, where an appropriate length sundress or a hawiian print dress.
I have put in a link of a dress I hope you like.
A long white dress, not a gown, just a simple spaghetti strap dress. Or even something strapless. Try Macy's, JCPenney, and yes even Target.com and look at some of their dresses on line.
Sort of something like thishttp://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.as鈥?/a>
Beach weddings are perfect for second marriages as they are less formal. The dresses that are suited to beach weddings are also less formal and more floaty and soft. Try the following link to help you find something suitable: http://www.beachwedding-guide.com/beachw鈥?/a>
Good luck and have a wonderful wedding!
Wear a shorter more casual stapless white linen type dress.
Getting married on the beach? Bikini time!
Maybe something white, light with see thru lacy short dress?
http://www.celebritycowboy.com/pamela-an鈥?/a>Second time getting married, will have a beach wedding what type of dress should I wear?
wear a grass skirt
One of those cool hawaiian things idk waht dey r called
best wear nothing..
Since there are less and less church weddings, and more beach weddings, it is easier to find a dress. Most of the wedding stores carry short yet bridal dresses.
Try the department stores that have bridal departments pick up a copy of one of the Bride's magazines for help. JC Penney has them, whoever said that first is right.
You could opt for something beachy and casual, like a sun dress, or just pick a short wedding dress that is not too fussy. Something cool and comfortable and airy would be nice, in case it is hot. Consider wearing something that is not white, or has some color in it/on it.
Lace would be fine. Be careful not to choose something with a full skirt, the breeze at the beach might reveal more of you than you had planned.
Consider finding a seamstress to make you a dress, since the winter months are almost here, it might be harder to find a white dress.
My best friend got married on the beach in Samoa last year. She wore a beautiful mid-length dress (to her mid calves), very soft and flowing, in shades of blue.
It has very thin straps and a wide skirt which has 'splits' around it, so it flowed really beautifully, especially when a little breeze picked up.
She pulled her hair up on top of her head with a few loose strands coming down around her face and wore blue and silver jewellery.
She looked amazing!
Her hubby wore a hawaiin shirt and longer length shorts.
They were both barefoot and had frangipani flowers in their hair (a traditional Samoan thing).
It was just beautiful, and knowing them, it was the perfect setting for them to start their life together.
Because it's the beach, don't be too formal, something lightweight and flowing is lovely, fairly casual is fine!
Mostly, what you wear should be someting you feel comfortable and special in.
The sites below have some nice dresses and gowns for special occasions (the second link even has pics of 'casual' brides and grooms on their wedding days) ~ have a wonderful wedding :-)
Cheers :-)
If its a beach wedding, where an appropriate length sundress or a hawiian print dress.
I have put in a link of a dress I hope you like.
A long white dress, not a gown, just a simple spaghetti strap dress. Or even something strapless. Try Macy's, JCPenney, and yes even Target.com and look at some of their dresses on line.
Sort of something like thishttp://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.as鈥?/a>
Beach weddings are perfect for second marriages as they are less formal. The dresses that are suited to beach weddings are also less formal and more floaty and soft. Try the following link to help you find something suitable: http://www.beachwedding-guide.com/beachw鈥?/a>
Good luck and have a wonderful wedding!
Wear a shorter more casual stapless white linen type dress.
Getting married on the beach? Bikini time!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
It is sad to see! Who does it really hurt if two people want to get married. And don't give me the whole Bible Speech cuz that wont help your case any! There are more divorced people getting married every day and that's a big no no in the Bible. So if that's your argument then maybe you should ban getting married if you have been divorced!Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
Well I'm a Christian. But I think your right.
I really don't care if people are gay.
And no one should hold some one back from finding true love.
That's the only thing that bugs me.
When I was younger I found myself a LITTLE attracted
to girls and I was so scared I was going to
burn in hell forever so I stopped.
Idk now, I have a boyfriend. But still, it shouldn't be a big deal.
People can love who they want to. Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
The problem with the issue is:
1. All states have laws against 2 people of the same sex having sex.
2. The tax and legal issues that they claim are false.
If you look back at all the health issues alone,the lawmakers and courts have all but banned marriage between men and women.
On the tax part,they claim they don't have the same tax advantage as a male %26amp; female couple (which is bogus).
Married or not everyone who files a tax return can claim any credits and deductions they qualify for.
ie: a single person can claim a medical expense he paid,either for them self or another person (say your dad or a neighbor).
All you have to do is show that you paid it.
As for divorced people getting remarried,it is not a no-no.
Having sex is adultery in the eyes of God.
Since this same sex issue started,a couple of women have petitioned the courts for the right to marry their pet dog.
';Because I'm Christian and it's against the Bible BLAH BALH BLAH.';
That's all those people hide behind, the Bible. Or it's ';gross.'; I think it's so funny because it doesn't involve or affect them at all! It's somebody else's life!!!
God does not judge people for who they love, it's all about how you treat other living beings..... Live and let live.
Edit: Oh, and about kids learning about it, well they get taught about straight marriage and they get taught Sex Ed, kids still get pregnant, and there are still going to be kids that decide they are gay, mine as well allow CIVIL RIGHTS for everyone.
I think part of the problem is the nomenclature. For a long time civil governments have given special protections to a man and woman especially for the purpose of protecting any offspring and the ensuing situations offspring have over a long period of years. For a long time this sort of union has been called marriage.
Now if the civil government wishes to grant special privileges to couples of the same sex this is really a different type of protection in that they are of the same gender and most likely not biologically reproduce. Also same sex couples have different needs than the traditional married husband and wife couple. For instance when they go to the restroom at a public arena they will enter the same restroom for the same sex. Other examples are in situations e.g. where male only can enter- what is a same sex female couple to do? They would miss out on part of the activity.
Now, when you move to a same sex couple being approved, then it is definitely unfair not give civil privileges to groups of three or more. Why is a couple sacred? One man and five woman therefore should have the same civil privileges as any couple. and three woman and one man should be eligible for the same privileges, e.g. tax benefits, health benefits, ect.
The the one group that is really discriminated against is the single person who can't get the same privileges of couples or groups. So I believe if you are going to be fair to some situations you should be consistantly fair in all situations.
I think it's fine BECAUSE I am Christian. In the Bible, Jesus loved everybody no matter who they were. Everyone is equal in His eyes, and everyone should deserve to be happy, right? The Bible says lots of things, but loving and accepting everyone is more important than exclusion and discrimination, at least in my opinion.
So that's MY Bible speech.
And besides, there are lots of children out there deserving to be adopted, and I wouldn't deny them a loving family just because there are two moms or two dads.
Edit: Oh, and parents, gay people are gay in public whether they're married or not, so you still have to explain it. Who explained gays to you?
I agree.
I don't think it's fair to gay people at all. It doesn't matter what your religion or belief is, it's not righteous to take away someone's right.
The Bible didn't state that gay marriage is right, but not everyone is entangled with religious ideas. If you don't believe in it, fine, at least you're not going to 'hell.' But at least allow other people to have a choice in their doings.
If being gay brings some people happiness and satisfaction, why not let them be?
I believe it is no one's business but the two people involved.
Arguments against:
1) They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives. They also can adopt thus giving an orphan a loving home.
2) They tarnish the sanctity of marriage - I think adultery and divorce do far more harm to the sanctity of marriage.
I believe opponents of same-sex marriage would be better off spending their time working on:
-Making adultery a crime.
-Forbidding divorce.
-Having city governments issue only ';domestic partner'; certificates giving ALL couples equal rights under the Constitution.
-The church that performs the traditional wedding will issue the ';marriage'; certificates.
your stupid! the idea of same sex marraige as a principal would become a precident then would end up being taught in schools,and dont give me that crap it wouldnt because last month a teacher in san fran took her first grade class to her gay weddindng as a learning experience... those of us who still have traditional values want our childrens teachers teaching the three R's thats it !and not pushing their personal beliefs. kids are very impressionable , so let the parents be parents and let the kids figure out their sexuality when the are old enough,anyhow civil unions give these couples the same rights as married couples , i know because i insure some of them so get a grip and do your homework befor you start talking about something you know nothing about!!
Some people are against because of religious reasons and because God says its wrong but to me God also says lying is wrong adultery is wrong stealing is wrong there's no sin bigger then the other a sin is a sin Other reasons are others disagree with anything that's different anything that isn't the ';norm'; to me love is love
Sodomy is against the law in some states. Parents have taught their children about the birds and the bees, now we'll have to explain why gary's father sleeps with another boy. But we just told them that mommy and daddy had sex to have them and we have different body parts to be able to do that.
';They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives.'; ---------
MEN cannot be inseminated.
it hurts the moral value of the united states. its a slippery slope letting gays have marraige. the only reason they even want it is to feel more normal, when there is nothing normal about their relationship. they can still have sex and share their money without gay marraige, but for them its only good enough if they force others into saying they are just as good or just/ or more right than someone who disagrees.
I could care less what they do with each other.
If they want my vote or approval, the answer is NO !
Marriage is a union between a man and a women, you can call what they do anything ,but it is not a marriage.
I think on my own, the Bible has nothing to do with this issue to me.
Because people go up-in-arms with **** that don't affect them, like on the news today that a man assaulted the gay couple holding a rainbow flag during the night when Barack Obama was elected president. What the hell that had to do with him ? We don't know. I say that biggest threat to marriage is divorce.
It doesn't hurt at all. i agree the whole bible speech blah blah blah is stupid.... i mean, some people say that if u pray hard enough u will become straight... but then if u think about it wouldn't u be able to become gay if u prayed hard enough then?!?! (u can use that one against anyone who says that lol)
Gay marriage destroys the fabric of society and is harmful to young children because if they see two men or two women together in public they will not understand it, their parents may not be around to put it into contrast for them and explain it.
i think the current voting generation has been raised in a society where homosexuality was not acceptable, and for this reason, they are reluctant to accept that homosexuality is not a disorder or a problem.
thinking of people of the same sex getting married as a bad thing is an arcaic though
people should be able to do watherever they want
life is too short to do what other want you to
you're right all of the bible stuff is b.s.
i think that the bible was made to scare people and make a perfect society.
but they're failing because there's many people that don't believe that b.s.
its sick!!!!!!! its like blinds me im sure most ppl went to school and saw g ppl kiss doesnt tat disturb u and to know u live near married ppl its like im not trying to diss on dudes but we are pretty promiscous and 2 dudes its like X( death in an instant
It's up to them really - we should all have the right to choose who we love. I am not homophobic, but I do find it weird because it not my idea of normal - whatever normal is.
I personally have no problem if a same sex couple wants to get married. Why restrict anyone else's life to a happy lifetime with their partner? Its a little against the first amendment if you as me.
If everyone got married to their same sex there would eventually no people left on the earth because two people of the same sex cannot reproduce.
Have your happily ever after and stop trying to force others to accept it and pay for it.
Pay an attorney to draft contracts.
It is against God. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve! I think getting remarried if your ''ex''-spouse is still alive should also be banned!
Well if you don't believe in the Bible then how about it just gross and we don't want to know about it.
Because we, as Americans have to force others to act in accordance to our religious beliefs, it makes a whole ton of sense.-end sarcasm
Their adopted children will end up on yahoo answer posting problems with their sex lives!
She male porn here, strp ons there..you know a freaken mess!!
Because gays are icky.
Just kidding. It should be legal.
i agree. there is nothing wrong with two men or two women to get married. its no ones busness about y the people want to get married. y should they care anyways?? its not there life, so they shouldnt control it.
You are a sodomite for supporting gay sex. You should take the penis out of your rectum you ******* homo.
It's perverted and disgraceful. Any more questions!
Well I'm a Christian. But I think your right.
I really don't care if people are gay.
And no one should hold some one back from finding true love.
That's the only thing that bugs me.
When I was younger I found myself a LITTLE attracted
to girls and I was so scared I was going to
burn in hell forever so I stopped.
Idk now, I have a boyfriend. But still, it shouldn't be a big deal.
People can love who they want to. Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
The problem with the issue is:
1. All states have laws against 2 people of the same sex having sex.
2. The tax and legal issues that they claim are false.
If you look back at all the health issues alone,the lawmakers and courts have all but banned marriage between men and women.
On the tax part,they claim they don't have the same tax advantage as a male %26amp; female couple (which is bogus).
Married or not everyone who files a tax return can claim any credits and deductions they qualify for.
ie: a single person can claim a medical expense he paid,either for them self or another person (say your dad or a neighbor).
All you have to do is show that you paid it.
As for divorced people getting remarried,it is not a no-no.
Having sex is adultery in the eyes of God.
Since this same sex issue started,a couple of women have petitioned the courts for the right to marry their pet dog.
';Because I'm Christian and it's against the Bible BLAH BALH BLAH.';
That's all those people hide behind, the Bible. Or it's ';gross.'; I think it's so funny because it doesn't involve or affect them at all! It's somebody else's life!!!
God does not judge people for who they love, it's all about how you treat other living beings..... Live and let live.
Edit: Oh, and about kids learning about it, well they get taught about straight marriage and they get taught Sex Ed, kids still get pregnant, and there are still going to be kids that decide they are gay, mine as well allow CIVIL RIGHTS for everyone.
I think part of the problem is the nomenclature. For a long time civil governments have given special protections to a man and woman especially for the purpose of protecting any offspring and the ensuing situations offspring have over a long period of years. For a long time this sort of union has been called marriage.
Now if the civil government wishes to grant special privileges to couples of the same sex this is really a different type of protection in that they are of the same gender and most likely not biologically reproduce. Also same sex couples have different needs than the traditional married husband and wife couple. For instance when they go to the restroom at a public arena they will enter the same restroom for the same sex. Other examples are in situations e.g. where male only can enter- what is a same sex female couple to do? They would miss out on part of the activity.
Now, when you move to a same sex couple being approved, then it is definitely unfair not give civil privileges to groups of three or more. Why is a couple sacred? One man and five woman therefore should have the same civil privileges as any couple. and three woman and one man should be eligible for the same privileges, e.g. tax benefits, health benefits, ect.
The the one group that is really discriminated against is the single person who can't get the same privileges of couples or groups. So I believe if you are going to be fair to some situations you should be consistantly fair in all situations.
I think it's fine BECAUSE I am Christian. In the Bible, Jesus loved everybody no matter who they were. Everyone is equal in His eyes, and everyone should deserve to be happy, right? The Bible says lots of things, but loving and accepting everyone is more important than exclusion and discrimination, at least in my opinion.
So that's MY Bible speech.
And besides, there are lots of children out there deserving to be adopted, and I wouldn't deny them a loving family just because there are two moms or two dads.
Edit: Oh, and parents, gay people are gay in public whether they're married or not, so you still have to explain it. Who explained gays to you?
I agree.
I don't think it's fair to gay people at all. It doesn't matter what your religion or belief is, it's not righteous to take away someone's right.
The Bible didn't state that gay marriage is right, but not everyone is entangled with religious ideas. If you don't believe in it, fine, at least you're not going to 'hell.' But at least allow other people to have a choice in their doings.
If being gay brings some people happiness and satisfaction, why not let them be?
I believe it is no one's business but the two people involved.
Arguments against:
1) They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives. They also can adopt thus giving an orphan a loving home.
2) They tarnish the sanctity of marriage - I think adultery and divorce do far more harm to the sanctity of marriage.
I believe opponents of same-sex marriage would be better off spending their time working on:
-Making adultery a crime.
-Forbidding divorce.
-Having city governments issue only ';domestic partner'; certificates giving ALL couples equal rights under the Constitution.
-The church that performs the traditional wedding will issue the ';marriage'; certificates.
your stupid! the idea of same sex marraige as a principal would become a precident then would end up being taught in schools,and dont give me that crap it wouldnt because last month a teacher in san fran took her first grade class to her gay weddindng as a learning experience... those of us who still have traditional values want our childrens teachers teaching the three R's thats it !and not pushing their personal beliefs. kids are very impressionable , so let the parents be parents and let the kids figure out their sexuality when the are old enough,anyhow civil unions give these couples the same rights as married couples , i know because i insure some of them so get a grip and do your homework befor you start talking about something you know nothing about!!
Some people are against because of religious reasons and because God says its wrong but to me God also says lying is wrong adultery is wrong stealing is wrong there's no sin bigger then the other a sin is a sin Other reasons are others disagree with anything that's different anything that isn't the ';norm'; to me love is love
Sodomy is against the law in some states. Parents have taught their children about the birds and the bees, now we'll have to explain why gary's father sleeps with another boy. But we just told them that mommy and daddy had sex to have them and we have different body parts to be able to do that.
';They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives.'; ---------
MEN cannot be inseminated.
it hurts the moral value of the united states. its a slippery slope letting gays have marraige. the only reason they even want it is to feel more normal, when there is nothing normal about their relationship. they can still have sex and share their money without gay marraige, but for them its only good enough if they force others into saying they are just as good or just/ or more right than someone who disagrees.
I could care less what they do with each other.
If they want my vote or approval, the answer is NO !
Marriage is a union between a man and a women, you can call what they do anything ,but it is not a marriage.
I think on my own, the Bible has nothing to do with this issue to me.
Because people go up-in-arms with **** that don't affect them, like on the news today that a man assaulted the gay couple holding a rainbow flag during the night when Barack Obama was elected president. What the hell that had to do with him ? We don't know. I say that biggest threat to marriage is divorce.
It doesn't hurt at all. i agree the whole bible speech blah blah blah is stupid.... i mean, some people say that if u pray hard enough u will become straight... but then if u think about it wouldn't u be able to become gay if u prayed hard enough then?!?! (u can use that one against anyone who says that lol)
Gay marriage destroys the fabric of society and is harmful to young children because if they see two men or two women together in public they will not understand it, their parents may not be around to put it into contrast for them and explain it.
i think the current voting generation has been raised in a society where homosexuality was not acceptable, and for this reason, they are reluctant to accept that homosexuality is not a disorder or a problem.
thinking of people of the same sex getting married as a bad thing is an arcaic though
people should be able to do watherever they want
life is too short to do what other want you to
you're right all of the bible stuff is b.s.
i think that the bible was made to scare people and make a perfect society.
but they're failing because there's many people that don't believe that b.s.
its sick!!!!!!! its like blinds me im sure most ppl went to school and saw g ppl kiss doesnt tat disturb u and to know u live near married ppl its like im not trying to diss on dudes but we are pretty promiscous and 2 dudes its like X( death in an instant
It's up to them really - we should all have the right to choose who we love. I am not homophobic, but I do find it weird because it not my idea of normal - whatever normal is.
I personally have no problem if a same sex couple wants to get married. Why restrict anyone else's life to a happy lifetime with their partner? Its a little against the first amendment if you as me.
If everyone got married to their same sex there would eventually no people left on the earth because two people of the same sex cannot reproduce.
Have your happily ever after and stop trying to force others to accept it and pay for it.
Pay an attorney to draft contracts.
It is against God. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve! I think getting remarried if your ''ex''-spouse is still alive should also be banned!
Well if you don't believe in the Bible then how about it just gross and we don't want to know about it.
Because we, as Americans have to force others to act in accordance to our religious beliefs, it makes a whole ton of sense.-end sarcasm
Their adopted children will end up on yahoo answer posting problems with their sex lives!
She male porn here, strp ons there..you know a freaken mess!!
Because gays are icky.
Just kidding. It should be legal.
i agree. there is nothing wrong with two men or two women to get married. its no ones busness about y the people want to get married. y should they care anyways?? its not there life, so they shouldnt control it.
You are a sodomite for supporting gay sex. You should take the penis out of your rectum you ******* homo.
It's perverted and disgraceful. Any more questions!
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