She's in a commited relationship and i'm afraid she's gonna back off from it because of college and legal issues but they're really in love. Help?My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
Help what? Your sister will get married when she is ready. Trying to force someone is the quickest way for them to run in the opposite direction. You should be happy that your sister wants to finish school and square away her legal issues before taking on a husband and a house hold, thats called responsibility, you seem to thinking the opposite, you must be younger than her? There are more important things to do before marriage, education is one of them.My sister is 20 and I want her to get married?
You need to stay out of her business. If she is in a truly committed relationship and she thinks she wants to get married then she should go for it. Don't make her do something that she doesn't want to, even though you think it may be for the best. She might want to get college and legal issues out of the way first.
It's your sister's life. Not yours. You don't get to make that decision. IF they ever do get married, it should be when %26amp; because they want to.
I got married when I was 19 %26amp; my husband was 23. I am now 22 and still in college. It will take me a total of 6 years to get my bachelor's degree because I took part time loads when I got married %26amp; when we bought our house. Things were definitely trying at times. However, we are in a strong, wonderful marriage %26amp; I wouldn't go back %26amp; change things just so I could graduate on time.
Mind your own kid. She's got the right idea and it seems that you don't.
Go to school, get a career, define yourself a bit and if possible find a mate. If you choose the reverse of this, things may get harder to accomplish.
20 is far too young to get married, IMO. You can tell her how you feel, but for god's sake, don't pressure her to give up one of the most fun times of her life (college) at this point.
Don't get involved with your sisters relationship. She would be smart not to get married so young. She should focus on her college education and not rush into getting married. It is her life and her decision. Stay out of it.
It's HER life and she will have to live with the choices she makes, not you. Let her live her own life. She's still very young and college is very important. Let it go.
This is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
20 is very, very young to be married. Let her finish college and decide for herself if she wants to get married.
That's young to marry. She is even allowed to drink alchol. Leave her alone and mind your business its her life. Its not she is harming herself.
Leave her alone! 20 is WAY too young. She needs to enjoy college and work through the other stuff, that is life. Adding marriage will only worsen the situations right now.
Shes should be going to college and growing before she gets married. If it is right for her it will eventually happen.
You need the help----leave her alone!!
Not any of your business, so let her do that on her own. No need to add to the divorce issue.
It's not your decision to make! She is far too young anyway, do you want her divorced by 25?? Stay out of it.
Mind your own business.
Keep out. Don't say anything. It is not your life and none of your business.
You've been warned.
its her life and not yours... when she is ready.. she'll be..... what if he just havent popp out the question yet............
Advice her but mind ur own.
stay out of grown folks business
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