Why do some married men need to sleep around?

Why do they just not leave their spouse?Why do some married men need to sleep around?
It's not always so black and white. Many men (and wives do it too) are still in love with their wives, love their kids, love the family life. But they simply just don't get the action that they desire in the bedroom.





It's really sad.Why do some married men need to sleep around?
I would like to agree and disagree with a few people here.


Humans, like all living creatures have basic instincts.


Men have an instinct to have sex with everybody,because it is their body telling them to impregnate as many females as possible in order to produce many offspring.Females actually have the opposite instinct, their body tells them to be very picky and selective.So based on this,I find it hard to believe that more women cheat, however, both of these instincts can be overcome, as proof, look at all the females out there who are sluts and sleep around with everybody.They are ignoring their body.Look at all the men who choose to look away from slutty girls, and choose not to think dirty thoughts, and stay faithful to their partner.They are ignoring their body.Now, last thing, Katie is an insanely delusional person who will never be happy because they live off of retarded and non-factual beliefs about the world.
For some people (both men and women), the grass is always greener on the other side. And they have to keep checking to see for sure.





Perhaps the question should be, why would someone get married if they are not ready to stop sleeping around? I think these people are causing more damage to the sanctity of marriage than gays are.
Let me give you a different angle - western culture is very sex oriented and there is lots of money to be made from sex. From bill-boards to Magazines,movies, - sex,sex. Sex sells and is ';cool';. Last week I must have counted about 5-10 ***'s I saw on bill boards driving to work.


This is NO excuse to cheat but men who have high sex drive the above added with women who dress slutty and come-on does not help the situation.





If you check cheating men(or women) in western to no western society I met there is a hugh difference.
In response to KATIE.


You are so off base. Actually most men do not cheat. And in reality more women cheat than men, look it up.


You must have been hurt at some point, but don't let that put you off to all men.
Katie is wrong.





Some men sleep around because it makes them feel good physically as well as emotionally. Marriage doesn't have much to do with it.





That said, I'm not one of those men.
becuase they are not sensitive at heart like woman are. Dont get me wrong , some are, but some dcent woman thnk before they act. For all those who cheat curse themselves and sooner than later their punishment will come.
Because he do not want to leave his wife, but for sexual satisfaction he goes else where.But leaving his wife is not a option. HE LOVES HIS WIFE. JUST WANTS SEX.
Kids


Money


House





Its simple. It will cost them more to leave.


They sleep around because they are not getting what they need 100% from their wives.
A natural instinct that has outlived it's usefulness.
The same reason some married women sleep around. So they can have thier cake and eat it, too.
They think it is a macho thing. It impresses their mates. They are all Peter Pans- the little boy who never grew up.
Lack of morals !
They are greedy, selfish, and jerks.
i dont know...they want the best of both worlds