Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?

It is sad to see! Who does it really hurt if two people want to get married. And don't give me the whole Bible Speech cuz that wont help your case any! There are more divorced people getting married every day and that's a big no no in the Bible. So if that's your argument then maybe you should ban getting married if you have been divorced!Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
Well I'm a Christian. But I think your right.


I really don't care if people are gay.


And no one should hold some one back from finding true love.


That's the only thing that bugs me.


When I was younger I found myself a LITTLE attracted


to girls and I was so scared I was going to


burn in hell forever so I stopped.


Idk now, I have a boyfriend. But still, it shouldn't be a big deal.


People can love who they want to. Whats The big deal if two people want to get married even if their the same sex?
The problem with the issue is:


1. All states have laws against 2 people of the same sex having sex.


2. The tax and legal issues that they claim are false.


If you look back at all the health issues alone,the lawmakers and courts have all but banned marriage between men and women.


On the tax part,they claim they don't have the same tax advantage as a male %26amp; female couple (which is bogus).


Married or not everyone who files a tax return can claim any credits and deductions they qualify for.


ie: a single person can claim a medical expense he paid,either for them self or another person (say your dad or a neighbor).


All you have to do is show that you paid it.


As for divorced people getting remarried,it is not a no-no.


Having sex is adultery in the eyes of God.


Since this same sex issue started,a couple of women have petitioned the courts for the right to marry their pet dog.
';Because I'm Christian and it's against the Bible BLAH BALH BLAH.';


That's all those people hide behind, the Bible. Or it's ';gross.'; I think it's so funny because it doesn't involve or affect them at all! It's somebody else's life!!!





God does not judge people for who they love, it's all about how you treat other living beings..... Live and let live.








Edit: Oh, and about kids learning about it, well they get taught about straight marriage and they get taught Sex Ed, kids still get pregnant, and there are still going to be kids that decide they are gay, mine as well allow CIVIL RIGHTS for everyone.
I think part of the problem is the nomenclature. For a long time civil governments have given special protections to a man and woman especially for the purpose of protecting any offspring and the ensuing situations offspring have over a long period of years. For a long time this sort of union has been called marriage.


Now if the civil government wishes to grant special privileges to couples of the same sex this is really a different type of protection in that they are of the same gender and most likely not biologically reproduce. Also same sex couples have different needs than the traditional married husband and wife couple. For instance when they go to the restroom at a public arena they will enter the same restroom for the same sex. Other examples are in situations e.g. where male only can enter- what is a same sex female couple to do? They would miss out on part of the activity.


Now, when you move to a same sex couple being approved, then it is definitely unfair not give civil privileges to groups of three or more. Why is a couple sacred? One man and five woman therefore should have the same civil privileges as any couple. and three woman and one man should be eligible for the same privileges, e.g. tax benefits, health benefits, ect.


The the one group that is really discriminated against is the single person who can't get the same privileges of couples or groups. So I believe if you are going to be fair to some situations you should be consistantly fair in all situations.
I think it's fine BECAUSE I am Christian. In the Bible, Jesus loved everybody no matter who they were. Everyone is equal in His eyes, and everyone should deserve to be happy, right? The Bible says lots of things, but loving and accepting everyone is more important than exclusion and discrimination, at least in my opinion.


So that's MY Bible speech.


And besides, there are lots of children out there deserving to be adopted, and I wouldn't deny them a loving family just because there are two moms or two dads.





Edit: Oh, and parents, gay people are gay in public whether they're married or not, so you still have to explain it. Who explained gays to you?
I agree.


I don't think it's fair to gay people at all. It doesn't matter what your religion or belief is, it's not righteous to take away someone's right.


The Bible didn't state that gay marriage is right, but not everyone is entangled with religious ideas. If you don't believe in it, fine, at least you're not going to 'hell.' But at least allow other people to have a choice in their doings.


If being gay brings some people happiness and satisfaction, why not let them be?
I believe it is no one's business but the two people involved.





Arguments against:


1) They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives. They also can adopt thus giving an orphan a loving home.


2) They tarnish the sanctity of marriage - I think adultery and divorce do far more harm to the sanctity of marriage.





I believe opponents of same-sex marriage would be better off spending their time working on:


-Making adultery a crime.


-Forbidding divorce.


-Having city governments issue only ';domestic partner'; certificates giving ALL couples equal rights under the Constitution.


-The church that performs the traditional wedding will issue the ';marriage'; certificates.



your stupid! the idea of same sex marraige as a principal would become a precident then would end up being taught in schools,and dont give me that crap it wouldnt because last month a teacher in san fran took her first grade class to her gay weddindng as a learning experience... those of us who still have traditional values want our childrens teachers teaching the three R's thats it !and not pushing their personal beliefs. kids are very impressionable , so let the parents be parents and let the kids figure out their sexuality when the are old enough,anyhow civil unions give these couples the same rights as married couples , i know because i insure some of them so get a grip and do your homework befor you start talking about something you know nothing about!!
Some people are against because of religious reasons and because God says its wrong but to me God also says lying is wrong adultery is wrong stealing is wrong there's no sin bigger then the other a sin is a sin Other reasons are others disagree with anything that's different anything that isn't the ';norm'; to me love is love
Sodomy is against the law in some states. Parents have taught their children about the birds and the bees, now we'll have to explain why gary's father sleeps with another boy. But we just told them that mommy and daddy had sex to have them and we have different body parts to be able to do that.





';They can't procreate - yes they can through artificial insemination as do ';traditional'; wives.'; ---------


MEN cannot be inseminated.
it hurts the moral value of the united states. its a slippery slope letting gays have marraige. the only reason they even want it is to feel more normal, when there is nothing normal about their relationship. they can still have sex and share their money without gay marraige, but for them its only good enough if they force others into saying they are just as good or just/ or more right than someone who disagrees.
I could care less what they do with each other.





If they want my vote or approval, the answer is NO !





Marriage is a union between a man and a women, you can call what they do anything ,but it is not a marriage.





I think on my own, the Bible has nothing to do with this issue to me.
Because people go up-in-arms with **** that don't affect them, like on the news today that a man assaulted the gay couple holding a rainbow flag during the night when Barack Obama was elected president. What the hell that had to do with him ? We don't know. I say that biggest threat to marriage is divorce.
It doesn't hurt at all. i agree the whole bible speech blah blah blah is stupid.... i mean, some people say that if u pray hard enough u will become straight... but then if u think about it wouldn't u be able to become gay if u prayed hard enough then?!?! (u can use that one against anyone who says that lol)
Gay marriage destroys the fabric of society and is harmful to young children because if they see two men or two women together in public they will not understand it, their parents may not be around to put it into contrast for them and explain it.
i think the current voting generation has been raised in a society where homosexuality was not acceptable, and for this reason, they are reluctant to accept that homosexuality is not a disorder or a problem.






thinking of people of the same sex getting married as a bad thing is an arcaic though


people should be able to do watherever they want


life is too short to do what other want you to






you're right all of the bible stuff is b.s.


i think that the bible was made to scare people and make a perfect society.


but they're failing because there's many people that don't believe that b.s.
its sick!!!!!!! its like blinds me im sure most ppl went to school and saw g ppl kiss doesnt tat disturb u and to know u live near married ppl its like im not trying to diss on dudes but we are pretty promiscous and 2 dudes its like X( death in an instant
It's up to them really - we should all have the right to choose who we love. I am not homophobic, but I do find it weird because it not my idea of normal - whatever normal is.
I personally have no problem if a same sex couple wants to get married. Why restrict anyone else's life to a happy lifetime with their partner? Its a little against the first amendment if you as me.
If everyone got married to their same sex there would eventually no people left on the earth because two people of the same sex cannot reproduce.
Have your happily ever after and stop trying to force others to accept it and pay for it.





Pay an attorney to draft contracts.






It is against God. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve! I think getting remarried if your ''ex''-spouse is still alive should also be banned!
Well if you don't believe in the Bible then how about it just gross and we don't want to know about it.
Because we, as Americans have to force others to act in accordance to our religious beliefs, it makes a whole ton of sense.-end sarcasm
Their adopted children will end up on yahoo answer posting problems with their sex lives!





She male porn here, strp ons there..you know a freaken mess!!
Because gays are icky.





Just kidding. It should be legal.
i agree. there is nothing wrong with two men or two women to get married. its no ones busness about y the people want to get married. y should they care anyways?? its not there life, so they shouldnt control it.
You are a sodomite for supporting gay sex. You should take the penis out of your rectum you ******* homo.
It's perverted and disgraceful. Any more questions!