Tuesday, August 24, 2010

When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?

I was talking to my boyfriend on AIM and he was thinking of getting married in 2 to three years and I was wondering if that would be a good tie to get married! We also want to have like two kids but idk wen would b the best time to do so!When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
The best age is when you feel its right. I just got married and I am 24 and plan on having kids fairly soon. My husband is 29 and we want to have kids at a point when they get older we will still be somewhat yound and be able to play sports with them when they become teenagers. When do u think is da best age to get married? What about to have kids?
I believe there is no right age to get married or right number of children. If you both believe that you will be no happier with any other person the rest of your life, go for it. If you want a longer relationship or a long engagement, its up to you. You don't have to get married at all to be together. And you may realize just one kid is enough once you have one, or you may be surpprised to feel like you are meant to be a mom and want 6 little ones. Just be sure you are financially stable for both scenarios and you both have the same morals. If all is well, head to Vegas this weekend, just do good and be happy.
There is no ';best age';.. but if there were I would bet it would be after you learned the word ';the'; instead of ';da';.





Anyway. As I said, there is no right time or age. Everyone matures differently. When the time is right for you, both you and your boyfriend will know. You should be financially stable and mentally stable. YOu should be able to live on your own with out support from either parents.
There is no right age. But you will know when you are ready. You are probably asking because you are excited. But also know that if you were ready...you wouldn't have to ask. It's great that you are asking the opinion of others. it shows great maturity. Think about how long you've been dating. Talk more about it with him in person. talk about what goals you each have in life and what you want to accomplish independently. Each of these things are important going into such a big decision. The most common thing that happens is that the girl gets so swept up in the excitment that she loses a little bit of herself along the way. Stay focused on what you need along this journey and have a good time doing it. Hope some of this helped.
When you stop writing like you're 14 years old and when you stop talking about important subjects (like marriage) via AIM. Also, if you have to ask what's good timing for you ( a person I've never met), then you aren't ready. When you're ready, you're ready. There are no doubts.
depends on your age now, and maturity level, not only of the two of you, but the matruity of your love and relationship.





~C
Whenever you feel ready. Same with having kids. It's your personal decision. The divorce rate is certainly high. Even people who get married after 30 still get divorced frequently.






I'd wait at least until you can write properly like an adult and not use childish text-speak and slang - especially if you plan to have children.
After you are mature enough to deal with every that comes with marriage and having children. First you need to learn how to talk like an adult and not a child.
When you can support yourself and have an education.
When you find Mr./Miss Right and can comfortably afford to do so ( in both situations).
for marraige you should wait til you are in your late 20s. i'd say around 27. and for children wait until you are over 30.



when you are really ready
I think eveyone should wait until after 30 for both. Any younger than that practically guarantees divorce.

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