What do i do if my friend is about to get MARRIED at a young age?

should i tell her she's too young ?





she going to court to make it official in august, but she's having the real wedding next year and she'll only be 19!!!





isn't that too young ??





what should i tell her... i don't want her to make the wrong choice.. she's only knew da guy for 3 years and she says that they are in love...





should i just let them be and be happy for them ?What do i do if my friend is about to get MARRIED at a young age?
When it comes to things like marriage, your not going to change ones mind. Theres about a one percent chance. The best thing you can do is support your friend, be happy for her. If it works out, great, if it doesn't, hopefully you'll still be there to give her a shoulder. Thats about all you can do dear! :DWhat do i do if my friend is about to get MARRIED at a young age?
Yes let them be happy. She will do what she wants anyway.


There is nothing wrong with asking her if she is sure and talking with her about it but, if you try to stop it you will just be seen as the bad guy.


The only sure way to remain friends is to support her and hope the best for her even if you are right.


Remember, she is happy right now and if you make her feel bad about this then she will not want to be around you.
Wow, you're really not going to like my answer, but here it goes...





I know you're just concerned about your friend, but please don't try to project what you would do onto her. This is HER choice to make, not yours! When you're 19 and have been with someone for ';only'; three years, then by all means, don't get married that soon. But this is her life! It may very well be the wrong choice for you, but maybe it's the right one for her.





Besides, you'll only make her mad.
19? whoa that's so ok.





we had lotsa 16 year olds getting pregnant here





the worst thing is, they're most outside of marriage.





so as for marriage, and at 19, oh well...





losing virginity before 20 is believed to be the best, according to most people





and having babies after marriage always make a happy news, opposes pregnancy out of marriage, where large majority of them would be a big bad news





so. 19. why not?
I was married at 20 and have been happily married for five years. If she think this is the right decision, you should support her and be happy for her. Just let them be, its not your decision to make and unless she asks for your advice, your friendship is better off with you not giving it.
Not to be rude but who are to day she is to young to get married?Believe it or not there are some mature 19 yr old and then there are some that are not.It depends on the 2 people get married and how seriously they take it ..I was 19 when I got engaged and got married at 20. I'm still married 25years later
My parents were 20 and they have been married 34 years and counting. I was 20 and my husband was 19 and we have been married nearly 5 years so far. My grandparents got married at 18 until my grandad died.





Loads of people get married at that age and its successful
3 years is longer than most, its not your life, your not in her shoes, she can truly love him and you want to stop that? if they want to get married , then let them.